Living your Life - Some advice to Self :)

  • Your past never leaves you. You just learn to live with it.
  • Golden rule is don't harm yourself, and don't harm other
  • Talk to friends, do memorable things, try to be a good person.
  • Stop trying to “win”
  • Build something of your interest
  • Build a daily routine of constructive activities (exercise, journal, meditate, cook etc)
  • Find things to be grateful for every day.
  • Don't indulge in your negative thoughts; notice them, acknowledge them, keep going.
  • Be patient. Don't judge yourself. Be open.

My Picklist from link 

  • Write your feelings
  • Travel Alone
  • See the life around people where you travel
  • Do things you loved to do but could not do
  • Eat less, Sleep on time, Travel to get new positive vibes
  • Be kind to others, Give smiles and kindness wherever possible
  • Volunteer for service and connect with people
Keep Going!!!


2021 in review

  • Job learning was good, Work-Life balance tough
  • Startup ideas, yet to crack but need to work with like-minded partners
  • Investments, Need to have multiple income streams, May not become a trader but need to understand smart ways to grow your income streams
  • Health - Need to revisit, As I age need to be stable
  • Peace - Personal life need to settle at least sooner, Life is ok otherwise, Big thanks to my mom for tolerating me
  • Travel - Minimal only but yea it was good to keep traveling
  • Teaching - Was able to blog, share, mentor, teach, A good progress

There is always time to learn.
Be outstanding, Not just good
Focus on your target. Ignore everyone else.

Life is nothing but a collection of kind memories. Keep Going!!!

Investment Thoughts

  • Sticks with high dividend
  • Stocks in Nifty 50 Safe bets
  • Stock across multiple domains
  • Software penny stocks/bets
  • Pharma / Electronics / Chemicals / Auto
  • Textiles / Petroleum

Need a consistent dividend, calculated growth. Be a contrarian. Keep growing in your own way!!!!

Optimization

Optimization is essential in our real life

  • Making right investments
  • Making optimal planning (Learning new things / Do well in your work / Prepare for future)
  • Constantly stay away from pessimism and keep an abundance optimism mindset
  • Do not get clogged in daily tasks, Look at the birds-eye view
  • Learn several times until you can connect with the topic, Be a source of optimism, motivation, and passion

Keep Going!!!

Money vs Education vs Investment

 

A very good one :)

Top 5 Skills to practice

  1. Learning a futuristic skill - MLOps / Kubernetes
  2. Focus on Product building - Build products focused on Customer problems (End to End)
  3. Passive income streams - Focus on Stocks, Funds
  4. Teach for Free - Keep writing, Teach for free whenever possible
  5. Focus on Health, Eat less, Eat to survive. Time is over about tastes 

Keep Going!!!

Interesting Perspective


Yea seems true

  • Kindness has no religion
  • Empathy does not need religion
  • Honesty does not need you to follow a religion
  • Equality does not need you to follow a religion
  • You need education, clarity and proper thinking to live life

Interview chaos

  • If you ask a maths teacher a puzzle he would answer with the constraint/formula
  • If you ask me about a business problem, I will explain data, process, challenges, and architecture
  • Ask questions that best suits the past experience. 

Even if you blog / be #technical on top of things, Still going back to #puzzles or questions on things not relevant to your day-to-day job seems a crazy way to connect assess technical #skills. coding skills are not remembering #writing #syntax #keepworking on big picture


Times person of year 2021

Successful in one industry vs Success in every industry

Strategy, Guts, Hardwork, Consistency, Vision = Elon


Manipulative Voices


Ever wonder the percentage of entertainment vs education content around us
Ever wonder the amount of perception/brand vs minimalism of life
Ever wonder the number of people with clarity vs go with crowd flow
Ever wonder why serials, unrealistic and stupid comedy shows vs True things in life
Ever wonder how you are being distracted to focus on wrong things in Life
Every wonder why drugs, movies, sex gets more attention than minimalism, companionship, being a true self
10 sources of bad vs one source of clarity
Filtering is more difficult as things consume us, we no longer control ourselves

Stay Alert to Stay Focused!

Art of not getting hurt

Everyone around you can disagree
Never take perspective as a matter of right/wrong
Pause your perspective if it hurts anyone
Sometimes silence is a better answer
Life is better lived in silence than communicate and fight over ignorant perspectives



Rethinking

Some nights are longer than days
Some days are longer than our months
Let me pause things that don't get me anywhere

Lonely Soul

Alright am I dreaming of the future or tired of my travel
Is this an endless journey to run for survival 
You earn enough that you don't have time to spend
Health is overridden by the pressure of commitments, work
Are we truly free souls?
Is this a worthy pursuit?
If not for me have a few more goals to teach/share/be of use in some other way?

Review 2021


No Travel mere few kilometers 5 to 10 kms drive
Average of 10 hours of work minimum
Every day runs around open items for next day, next week
More of Work from same room not even work from home
Tea was almost lunchtime food most days
Some days fried rice and late-night ginger tea
Single again for long time
Time goes, Life goes...
Emotions become silent at some point in time
Boomer uncle or Boomer adult :(
Crazy Life :(

Keep Going!!!


Minimalist Life

Live with minimal needs
Eat less than what you need
Think more, sleep more, talk less
Reading books is better than talking to people
Having a cup of tea alone is better than gossip discussions
Sometimes being alone gives more peace than in a group feeling disconnected

Live more, show less, talk less

Global vs Local perspective

  • The global level arms race, religion-based terrorism
  • Local-level again caste, religion issues

Focus on clean water, clear air, affordable medication, quality education is not the focus for all.

Seems inequality is deemed to exist as we need the poor to remain poor.

Reality vs Intentions differ!!!

Focus

  • Avoid having multiple browser tabs 
  • You are bound to lose out more time if you are checking your phone
  • Stay away from browsing online shopping
  • Do not respond to every email, After you finish work/schedule it
  • Avoid meetings where you do not play a key role


Keep Going!!!

God vs Man vs Rich vs Poor

Who is perceived or what is required to be 'labeled' Rich?

  • Buy Anything
  • Live anywhere
  • Have all basic needs and luxury needs fulfilled
  • Have everything family, friends, social status, etc.
  • Source of income above average, Top 10% of the population, and good education

Who is perceived or what defines to be 'labeled' Poor?

  • No constant source of income
  • Basic amenities not fulfilled
  • Poor economic status leads to poor social status
  • Basic education does not lead to any good jobs
  • Menial lifestyle
Is God rich or Poor?
  • As per movies, he gets everything
  • He controls people
  • He can play with people life
  • He has reason to make people suffer to make them live happily later
Race vs Color vs Religion vs Quality of Life?
  • The working population need to serve the labor market
  • The working population runs millennial jobs drivers/bakers/helpers/construction workers
  • Discrimination will happen to keep the working population in control / not to question or understand their rights
What will happen if everyone is educated?
  • Exploitation cannot happen taking advantage of their ignorance
  • They will question poor infrastructure/employee benefits
  • They will be able to grow up or go for better jobs
  • Education will lead to better decisions. Better decisions will help in financial stability will lead to progress
Do we need to keep inequality? Whom does it help?
  • Good for a capitalistic society, Low-cost exporter to developed nations
  • Good for consumeristic society, Need more people as delivery boys and drivers
We call them 'developed' nations because of their quality of life, better work-life, and better benefits for the citizens. You cannot develop a nation with this form of startups we see now as consumeristic startups. Soon we may have apps to order 'Book my funeral' after my death. 'Build my grave' after my death. 'Pay my bills' after my death.

There is no god as such looking at how we make money in the name of God. For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. For every bad deed, we will receive bad results. That is the conscience that comes back to us and our loved ones.

Life is not evil, it is a mirror. What we do for lust, greed, and jealously will come back to us in the same form. Man is the evilest animal. We are cannibalistic in deeds but kind in action. 

Different faces, multiple worlds, True to Anyone?  Do we care for the poor? Oh yea to label them poor and keep them poor forever we care.

Keep Thinking!!!









Life perspectives

 Live with Less Regrets

Keep Going!!!

Life

Life rewards are based on how much we know shallow or deep learning. Learning does not happen in one go. It iterates and builds/updates your perspective. Learning compounds based on your thinking/observations/mapping experience to the situation. It's not a puzzle but a coordinated observation and mapping of the most optimal results :) :)


Jai Bhim - Painful and Realistic Society

  • The very first scene of caste-based offender selection is a painful scene. How underprivileged can be taken for granted
  • There are bad people in every caste and section of society. Let's not stigmatize by a group
  • Police torture is extreme, pain, beating, torture. The dark side of law and order. How these things are handled in society. Pressure across divisions of society to withdraw the case.
  • These days you can be tracked digitally from signals, phones, cameras. At least circumstances can contradict a similar setup.
  • Awareness, education is the key thing for anyone to lead a decent life. You need to be good enough to know things happening around you, able to speak up, and communicate in the right forum
  • Crime vs forced acceptance vs poor humanity to ignore people
  • Equality in society by looking at few people developed and large sections of the society still remaining in poor shape
  • Caste is by birth which can neither be changed but it kills them till death
  • Connected evidence collection and planned forgery. Data speaks. Even to break a case, you need to do field investigation to analyze, collect and identify. Data is science. Data is evidence, Patience is thinking.
  • Living, earning, and working for all alone is not life. We need to serve society for good. Life is not just being self-centered.
  • Finding the 'fake' evidence requires identifying data, spot discrepancy, thinking, dissect and spot
  • The women 'Sengeni' is a very powerful display of guts, determination, and living against odds. She didn't bow down for money, stood up for values even when she is poor.
  • Power of thinking, power of spotting lies, power of analyzing numbers
  • Sexual violence, objectification of women, taking advantage of situation happens in every possible way.

How to crack similar cases in the current situation

  • Phone calls
  • SIM Tracking
  • CCTV videos
  • Vehicles images in Toll gates
  • CCTV tower coverage
  • Face images in all available CCTV areas

  • We need a more morally developed transparent society
  • Whatever you do for some other women, will come back to your own family. It is possible, even if no one sees everything is calculated in nature.
  • All education did not clean the superstitions, caste beliefs, and sexual violence. We need to be more honest be a more truly moral society.
  • Someone who can stand up for truth, don't get sold for money, don't succumb to the story it's the moral of the story. The fearless advocate is a 'True Hero'. Salute Chandru Sir
  • Compromise can come in any form of pressure, for money, for caste, for society.
  • Being good is tough, being opportunistic is easier :).

Very Good Movie!!!

Sorry Mom

My Mom is like working 24 x 7. In a way, I feel bad sitting, working, and eating. Also, Astro, religion, and my attitude played a role in settling in Life. I don't know how best to be at mental peace. 

Whatever happens, has a reason for it. Hope I don't burden her :(

Time to be a less burden to others. I have put more weight on WFH. Always in front of PC. Life is bad too. Seeing a life without a family :( and a burden to my mom :(

Hope I change for the better!!!


How Facebook is misleading us?

  1. Takes away family time
  2. Takes away walking time, reading time
  3. The likes, comments are a trap that will eat all your time
  4. Failure to perform at work will, in turn, affect personal and professional life
  5. May be linked to poor performance at work, a school in the long run
  6. Distraction and addiction among Teens, Youth
  7. Makes everyone live in a silo and live in a virtual world
  8. We can connect to a maximum of 4~5 people in a day. All our people connections are mostly within family, work, friends. Outside this second and third-level college, relatives, school friends are once in a quarter connects
  9. In reality, we can never share about us to a bigger circle or we cannot be friends with everyone
  10. social media depiction is far from reality. Why would I be bothered to know things in my 3rd or 4th level connects
  11. Life will be no better by seeing how others live
  12. 90% Life and 10% social interaction were earlier. Now 90% interaction and 10% time for Life

Kill all non-forms of entertainment

Keep Going!!!


Mental health vs Physical Health

I am a strange situation. I don't believe in working together when you have different views. At Chennai, the Food is good but a lot of debates. In Bangalore, I escape from discussions by long drives. In a way, travel kills many worries. I don't know if that's a solution but that's better than being stressed.

Keep Travelling!!!

In real world - Friends with Everyone ?

  • We can connect to maximum of 4~5 people in a day
  • All our people connections are mostly within family, work, friends
  • Outside this second and third-level college, relatives, school friends are once in a quarter connects
  • In reality, we can never share about us to a bigger circle or we cannot be friends with everyone
  • social media depiction is far from reality. Why would I be bothered to know things in my 3rd or 4th level connects
  • Looking for how others live only will make us feel bad or copycat 
  • I prefer to ignore and move on than comparing, Social media is reel not real
  • Life begins when you shut down your computer and smartphone

Keep Thinking!!!

Let today remain the same forever.

I am more afraid to see my mom getting aged. In some way I feel everything I lived during my school, college are memories. I went back saw my school, the place we lived. Everything has changed.

During childhood I was eager to grow up and do some job, I felt its more enjoyable to live without sitting in a classroom. Now at 3am I feel those days were far better than almost 4 decades close in my life. 

I don't know when to get married or should get married or can I find someone like my mindset. I have hurt my mom many times in these marriage discussions. I just want a good decision and yes she has been the one for me in all my bad situations. 

Maybe I am not a good son :(

For every generation, let me live the same life and siblings. I am grateful for all that I have in my life. I am thankful for everything. 

Be kind!!!

How does my mind think ?

Do I do think because of fear, awareness, opportunity?

If I have 3 hours break what are things you can do.

  • Watch a movie fight club get the adrenaline kick
  • Go for a ride and get a glimpse of world
  • Cook your meal, house cleaning
  • Spend time on social media, youtube
  • Alcohol / Drugs / Dating

How do we make decisions?

  • I don't want to be get caught so I will not do this
  • I want to do this without being caught
  • I know it will have bad consequences to health so I will not do it
  • I am religious so I will not do it

Everything that we do will come back to us in some way or another. It is better to be more self-aware of every act we indulge in than to have a dual mindset and confused personality. The deadliest weapon in this world is smartphone in the hands of teenagers. Everything is available with one click. By default, bad things get out attention. 

Responsible AI, Responsible Social Media, Ethical business, Long way to go.

Care of Love

A story that is very unique, interesting and I was able to connect with it. 

  • School days crush how he loses in his life
  • A teen love then gets separated due to religious differences
  • Adult love at the 30s then gets crushed again due to religious differences
  • Close to 50 he settles down in life.

'Love can happen at any age'

A beautiful narrative. We meet many people in our lives but things don't materialize due to several reasons. 

Life will be beautiful, Stay kind keep going!!!

Third Eye

  • New perspectives don't come from old lens
  • New perspectives come from new directions
  • Strength doesn't come from knowing just good things
  • Knowing own weakness and still doubling up on your strengths is Life
  • Extraordinary things are just new perspectives that take time looking for inspirations in things experimenting newer ways
  • Take a break, see new perspectives, Look beyond money
  • Life has a bigger lens of inspiration of seeing, observing things around us

Keep Going!!!

JD vs Reality

A lot of expectations 

Fast-paced startup environments - deliver more but balance your WLB :)

  • A Great balance of IQ, EQ, and Social Q. Reality - Say yes even when you have to say No
  • Are you a top-of-the-line developer and architect yourself? Reality - Build all prototype whenever possible
  • Hired, retained, and mentored for the individual growth of your team. Reality - Do your work and also be accountable for your work, 100% manager, 100% IC
  • Are up to speed with the current productivity frontier on serving and data technologies. Reality - Individual work, Manager road, read about technology
  • High autonomy; freedom to take risks, to experiment, and to fail. - Try 10 things, Fail 5, Pass 5
  • Not a CAVEr: You are a person that people like to be around. You are not a CAVE (Constantly Against Virtually Everything) personality. Reality - Work Attitude vs Personal traits are different. No one who is paid will say no. It's more about how you solve and does this approach works fine.
  • Say no to HiPPO: We want people who value everyone’s opinions & perspectives. We don’t want them to get overpowered by HiPPO (Highest Paid Person’s Opinion). Reality - Yes but do we actually follow, Easy to say :). Hiring the right experience who consolidates vs finds new perspectives both are different.

Keep Thinking!!!

Catalog of failures

My life by itself has a lot of drama, tragedy, happiness, sadness, and alone walking. 
  • Startup idea failures
  • Multiple rejections in patents
  • Crazy failures in the relationship (Ghosting, No from parents, call of after marriage dates fixed)
  • It's okay to be single but sometimes loneliness kill
  • If you can't succeed personally or professionally it kills you internally :)
  • Sex is cheap, lust is cheap, money is greed - you can label as you like but that is all part of expectations as we grow up
  • Don't know to say how mature or damaged I am, mmm sometimes I just look up to stars to forget everything
  • You have to numb your pain if you have to hope for an optimistic future

Today I heard Jacob sir passed away in covid wave2, the one who used to run a restaurant opposite my apartment. Had seen him every day past 5 years till covid. He is still in my eyes, the cheerful person, People vanish one day, Life goes on. Felt bad on hearing the news. He was 60+ I guess, a very active, engaged person.

Sometimes you need to let go of everything in life!!!


Ladakh by Road

Yea I think the time has come for a long journey

Ladakh by Road in 5 days

  • Hyderabad - Pune - Nagpur - Jhansi - Chandigarh - Manali - Ladakh

Yea everything happens with time. This I will prioritize in the next few weeks. Time to let go of everything. Keep Going!!!




What Failed people can teach?

Failed people/entrepreneurs will have more lessons than accomplished people. Not earning much, Not well studied / successful does not mean the person has limited thinking or expertise. Passion is poisonous. 

What Failed people can teach?

  • Where you have to be careful
  • Who could potentially be your silent competitor
  • What things look similar to his execution
  • How time played a role
  • How tech played a role
  • What you mistrust
  • Where you seek more support
  • What thinks they overlooked
  • Look beyond normal perspectives.

Keep Going!!!


A Day, A Ride, A Lesson - Competency vs Capability vs Qualification

Sometimes small things teach us big perspectives. I was filling up diesel to drive for a Trip. I went to Shell, The diesel tank lid had some issues. They checked something and finally broke it. It looked ok, After getting diesel it was not locked. It was looking bad. 

I called up a service centre, he mentioned it will take a few hours. He said can't do it today. I was hesitant to go without this being fixed. Naveen advised me to check the nearby mechanic shop. I went to a nearby Garage on Haralur Road. He saw it, He seems he knew the way it works. His name is Praveen. He was fluent in Kannada, Tamil, Telugu. He was patient, quiet. He found the spring, checked. 

His behavior was like an expert. Very down to earth. I could spot Land Rover, BMW, Maruthi Gypsy. Every old to latest models. 

It took 45 mins, I could understand the complete action king of spring based for lock / unlock. He charged 100/-, I wanted to pay 200/- because I don't want to leave anything that I feel hurts the quality of the vehicle. I paid 110/- and said I will meet you again.

The dress didn't dictate his familiarity/expertise. His attitude was not a white-collar showroom attitude. Sometimes some gems are there among us who are content, skilled, patient, and kind. Spot them, Connect in your circle. 

Keep Going!!!


Selfish or Selfless or Suicide

Let's explore closely what could run in a person's mind, How you need to interpret things

  1. What we do depends a lot on the environment
  2. Habits and addictions are outcomes of people, environment, things we are used to
  3. Wrong people, wrong habits will cascade and impact your mind
  4. Habits easy to adopt hard to give up
  5. External looks vs internal cleanup need to be regular
  6. Becoming bad is easy, Staying as you are is difficult
  7. Lust, greed, jealousy are hard to spot but they poison your mind, body, and soul
  8. A mistake done a few times becomes habits 
  9. Justifying everyone does mistakes does not clear our sins
  10. Abused vs Abuser is a cycle, The system will spoil as the pattern continues
  11. Everything can be tweaked for convenience and comfort
  12. Morally right vs Truthfully right vs no evil intentions cannot measure
  13. Life rewards for every bad and good deed, there is no one thread
  14. When someone commits suicide it leaves everyone around him to suffer
  15. Smartphones are essentially slow poison, Human mind is trained for addiction
  16. Good or bad addiction, Travel vs Lust, Read vs Greed, Self-content vs Comparison everything starts with a thought and leads to habits
  17. The dark side of what you know your evilness vs what you are trying to kill within you vs What you are evolving
  18. Anger breeds hate lust breeds addiction.
  19. Good Addiction vs Bad Addiction vs Poisonous addiction, Know your lines
  20. I don't become clean if I am internally not clean
  21. Every day it needs constant cleanup of mind/body
  22. Read, Travel, Stay content. Don't focus on what you don't have
  23. Death has to be welcomed, Life has to be explored, Cherish everything, Find beauty in small things, It okay you cannot win over life. Be a little kind, cheerful, contentful.
Keep Evaluating yourself, Gods won't clean your mind, Smartphones won't clean your mind. Only your clarity of thinking matters.

Career Lessons

  1. To pursue your interests you do not need titles
  2. To make your ideas work, you need to focus
  3. Don't wait for the title, prepare yourself as an independent consultant
  4. Titles vs contribution are debatable, Your ideal role vs what you have gaps address it
  5. Every problem can be done in multiple ways, Think like a consultant, observe as a reviewer when you see already someone solved the problem
  6. Connect dots of experience and apply for every new use case
  7. Health cannot take a pause but a career can take a pause
  8. When sabbatical matters, give a break for your body, mind, and soul
  9. Career gaps do not mean you stopped learning, It only means you stopped earning
  10. Having multiple passive incomes outside your work will assist in long term
  11. Compete against yourself, Stay firm on your principles
  12. New skills = Old Skills + New changes or features, Apply experience-based differential thinking
  13. Overall its just one life, be less regretful
  14. Money does not equate experiences learned or earned
  15. Money matters but health matters more

Keep Going!!!

Health - Wellness

A few months I had severe problems with digestion-related issues. I was not sure if its ulcer, constipation, or any other issues due to poor food habits. Was not feeling good to share this with doctors. The first doctor assumed its related to constipation, poor food habits. It ended up as a worm infection. I need to thank Dr.Prabha for her timely help. There are few more issues which is due to a lack of health focus. I need to have proper food habits, posture, ample water, keep my body cool, less stress.

Time to reclaim a more disciplined life.

Parenting in 2021

 

  • Observe closely if any behavior changes
  • Teach them about good touch / bad touch
  • Avoid excess smartphone usage
  • Monitor their online activities
  • Discuss reported issues/ abuse and make them understand Awareness of surroundings
  • Provide guidance, alert them, situational analysis
  • Proper sex education and awareness of their hormonal changes
  • Today everything is on smartphone both good and bad
  • Provide better guidance 
Happy Parenting!!!

Great neighbors

The evilest people are always close to us. I see my neighbors in Chennai. 

  • 24 hours dog barking unable to work at all
  • Intentionally stopping water or not buying
  • Making dog poop in terrace
  • Reusing all wooden blocks, nets

Sometimes you cannot change people's intents, you need to pass them as you are not there to change them.

Keep going!!!


Yelagiri Trip

                                                                Yelagiri Lake

 


On the way clicks




Climbing up


Return Trip


Happy Motoring!!!

Bangalore - Chennai Morning Trip Glimpses



Morning ride, trip glipmses.

Keep Driving!!!

To prepare a Trip Video

  • Clip with VLC
  • Convert from avi to Mp4

                    ffmpeg -i input.avi -strict -2 output.mp4

  • Create a Video Project
  • Mute Audio
  • Add Custom Music
  • Publish it :)
  • 2-3 hours for this work

Keep Exploring!!!

How You want to be remembered

Sometimes your thoughts awaken while you are at sleep. This question how I want to be remembered

How do I want to be remembered?

  • 'Y' we do this way ? Question everything
  • Empathetic mindset
  • Learning mindset
  • Ask the right 'questions' even if it is not 'okay' to ask
  • Stay curious
  • Stay kind
  • Travel as you like it
  • Trust less, Think more
  • Be an outlier
  • Money < Knowledge < Health. Focus on Health and Knowledge, Money is a by-product
  • Die with fewer regrets

What I don't want to be thought of?

I don't want myself or my thoughts to focus on

  • Calculative mindset
  • Money minded
  • What's in it for me ?
  • 'Visibility Guy'

 Keep Thinking!!!

My School

I studied in Railway Mixed High School, Jolarpet. I was 1997 passed out. Today I went to check out the school, All I could spot was abandoned buildings. It was a 120+ years old school left to die.



  • This used to be HM room, Physics Lab. There used to be buildings behind this. At this stage, I have spoken sometime during 8th, 9th, 10th for the Elocution competition. 


  • This used to be a staff room and 1-5 sections. Most of the other older buildings have been demolished. This looks abandoned.


  • From the road could spot only shady names, Seems left to die


Everything seems to be a memory erased. In the vibrant, lively days now there are only things in your memory. Life goes too fast. What was so familiar at some point in time will never be a part of the time at some point in time. Railway School, Those setups were indeed a good memory, Now seeing all the old abandoned buildings gave me a little shock.

The schools, quarters everything now seems let to die. 

Keep Going!!! Life is Short!!!

Working in Bangalore vs Chennai

Bangalore

  • Good setup, Less dust
  • No noise pollution
  • Can pause and come back
  • Need to manage food, everything

What worked

  • Bit of organized

What failed

  • Poor health
  • Spoiled with cascading issues
  • Late-night ginger tree
  • Excess Biryani

Chennai

  • Shutdown and come back
  • Adhoc work setup
  • Good home food
  • No walk/commute / Noise pollution nonsense neighbor dogs endless noise
  • After construction noise, this is new noise

What worked

  • Focused work 
  • Good health

Have to balance both Health and Life. In a way, for me, my mom needs to keep cooking always. At least me being in Bangalore I can give her a break. She has been struggling for me for so many years with all my tantrums.

Keep Thinking!!!

Poor Memory

I have a poor memory these days. No proper sleeping pattern, No good body posture. A bit of stress. Life has to take a break.


Keep Refreshing!!!!

Life will get better

If one side of fruit looks rotten, the other side looks good. In the need of hunger, we remove the rotten part and use the good one. When things don't look good in some areas of life, we have to focus on areas where we get moments of peace and move on with life.

Keep Going!!!


Partner Search

 You never know always hard to choose, At a certain point it's a tradeoff between looks vs education vs lifestyle vs comfort. So hardwired at some point plus parents standoff and perceptions plus hardwired things which I can't blame society. Life just goes on hoping something better and it gets lost with other priorities running against the next appraisal 

Keep Going!!

  • The world is small, we may meet the wrong people more than once
  • The world is small, we may repeat the same mistake more than once
  • Life is short when I started feeling severe health issues
  • Learning is a never-ending race, Sacrificed both life and time now need to sacrifice learning for health


Gripping movie Karnan

Feels very painful, Many aspects of caste violence is portrayed

  • Denying transportation making life miserable
  • Objectification of women making them vulnerable to violence
  • How the law works against the poor
  • How brutality can be forced against the weak
  • How collectively situations are created to deny education/opportunities
  • How your lives can be crushed in an organized form of police brutality
Education vs Legal Visibility vs Struggle to make it a decent life vs Aware of dangers/challenges and struggle to live with basic standards. The very painful portrayal of caste implications in villages and towns.

These are observations till now Unless you live their Life, You will not know how painful others life is.

Know your Society!!!

Guerilla Learning Approach

  • Start randomly 
  • Check any of sources books, blogs, youtube
  • Spend few mins
  • If it sounds interesting make notes and lessons
  • If it doesn't sound interesting move to other sources
  • After 15~20 mins have few references, initial ideas
  • If it works keep it in notes
  • Else break the flow, Goto another source

Keep Exploring!!!

Ride Observations

  • Bangalore to Krishnagiri - Close callouts, Need to slow down. Too many load vehicles bit heavy traffic
  • Krishnagiri to Vaniyambai- Sporadic rain, Wet roads, Bit slippery, Had to slow down a bit
  • Vaniyambai to Pallikonda - Very heavy rain, Only the centre lane from 3 lanes was less floody, Corners were a lot of water stagnation
  • Walajah to Chennai - 2-way lanes, Lot of construction and diversions

Overall mixed emotions with the ride. 

Happy Safe Driving!!!

My Stock trading Approach

  • Penny Stocks I am familiar with - Buy in 100s (20-50)
  • Penny stocks with value < 10 - Minium 200
  • Stocks > 30 & Reliable - I have read a bit - 200
  • Big & renowned The top picks - airtel, itc, stable - 100+
  • Auto stocks - 200+ (pick only mid performers not big ones)
  • Auto Ancillary - 100+ (pick only mid performers not big ones)
  • Petroleum 100-200 range Stocks - 100+
  • Pharma stocks < 100 only - 100+

I try to keep as diversified as possible. To minimize loss and well and distribute evenly across domains. Time is limited to analyze every company. In 6-8 months will read about it and decide on more investments accordingly. I am not a master of it but yea always prefer to buy stocks in double digits, triple, and with some precaution.

Keep Thinking!!!

External Cleaning vs Internal Cleaning

External Cleaning

  • No Spicy Food
  • No Outside Food
  • Limit outside thoughts
  • Walk more, Think with limits

Internal Cleaning

  • Kill the permutation of outcome analysis - No What will happen, Life is limited
  • Get married soon
  • Create the best life with the person you meet
  • Keep Happy moments
  • It's okay to Live for Others
  • Be better than yesterday
  • Die will-less guilt
  • Come out of 'What will happen, Make it 'Its okay next time'
  • Come out of career blues, relationship needs

Keep Going!!!



Close call

  • Last night near Thadakam Hotel near Hosur - Krishnagiri Route
  • Very long trailer going in Second to the first-line switch
  • No indicator 
  • Since it was bent it appeared the first lane was visible
  • Stepped closer in 70+ I guess
  • Close call with brakes!!!
  • Near Miss
  • He then gave way lane
  • My Mistake - Never underestimate bends, What appears free is not free lane...
  • Drive a bit more careful
  • If he had put an indicator I would have slowed  / more clear on his thoughts
  • Had no clue of which lane he wants to go
  • Matter of few seconds so always be careful

Keep Thinking!!!

Alternatives to Astro Match

  • Health Checkup
  • Psychometrics Test
  • Form16 Verification
  • Open Discussions

Keep Thinking

Comfort

Cost lunch when I step out Rs.50 (Tomato Rice + Tea). When I order online same 300. One-click payment 6X for comfort. Detox Digital Addiction.

Education Perspectives


  • Coaching Institutes - How to get into Top Institutions
  • Elite Schools - Give Individual Attention
  • Government Schools - Learn with all difficulties
  • Weeding out education system vs Inclusive learning system
Growth cannot happen only with people who can afford the money, Inclusive growth remains a bigger challenger. Without inclusive education, you will not get Diversity Thinking

To go far go together!!!

@ Bangalore

Sometimes felt restless at Chennai, No Travel, At home. On-time food but no physical work. Here clean house, home chores, Miss the things at home. Always bothered about work not taking care of my mom. Regret taking my professional life too close in my life.

Job - You do not get paid to say yes. You are willing to discuss than follow top-down orders. A team that has trust will outperform the process. A team which has territories and boundaries will fail even with good process.

Keep Going!!!

Memories

We do not remember every journey in our life. We only remember things where there was a special moment, challenges, satisfaction, and cherished achievements. In the same way we only remember the work where were involved deep, curious and did it repetitively or deep dive implementation.



Mind Matters - Make your Moves

  • Never worry when you are denied an opportunity because it means they feel you are a threat. Sun will be in dark and the moon shines bright all night. Once the sun comes after dawn, the moon will be lost in the shine and light. So talent has to go through periods of darkness to break myths and assumptions.
  • When you know your strength and weakness, Its a matter of time for people to notice and work with you because thinking, working cannot be copied but code can be
  • When you are mentally and technically prepared for a role, You will find it anywhere and clear interview because you are already thinking, working in that role
  • Measure every move, Build your profile, Think through and make planned moves. Be patient, quiet, and calm. Use the anger to fuel your progress.

Keep Going!!!

Decisions in Life

 Every 2 years you need to revisit/relook your career as you near your 40s. When the time is less, you need to pick and chose the right roles to balance your life, take care of your parents. 

Learn and Grow, Be in a job that gives you satisfaction, peace of mind, Able to balance other aspects of Life.


Keep Thinking!!

Talent vs Opportunities

Companies may run out of Talent but Talent will never run out of Opportunities. Your success is built on 99% of failures that others didn't notice. One day the magnificent success looks like an overnight success. Today's pain is tomorrow's gain. Keep smiling and Keep going!!!


Build someting what Motivates You

We need to survive, For paycheck, we deliver work that is required from us

For personal learning, we read things that we like to read about

Applying your perspectives and ideas and building a solution in your own frame of mind

Being open to change things if you see an impact / better reason for it


Entrance Exams vs Merit of Scores

Mass education, Quality Education.....Everyone needs to be on same page

  • Engineers from Elite Institutions - Contributions to Product building, startups etc..
  • Engineers from Tier 1 Institutions - Contributions to Product building, startups, etc - Without Entrance Exa,s
  • Engineers from Tier 2 Institutions - Contributions to Product building, startups etc - With Stateboard Exams

What did each category contribute to growth, What is the pass percentage? What is the knowledge gap between each segment? How does this knowledge gap gets filled/balanced? 

Irrespective of the entrance exams, Every institution guaranteed 70% pass, The level of knowledge may vary but certainly, it implies these exams and courses need only basic minimum knowledge to pass. Knowledge and intelligence are incremental. It does not come and go with grades.

Keep Going!!!

Death

  • Death does not differentiate external good perceptions vs internal actual quality
  • Deeds for outside world vs cruelty in inner self will get the marks for actual character
  • Any wrong deed never goes out of karma books, it will come back when you do not expect
  • Situations are mere actors, the solutions/ consequences will come at the right time
  • All deeds come with their own good  / bad interests, Everything is calculated/monitored in the eyes of karma

Keep Thinking!!!


Merit vs Intelligence vs Empathy

What type of Doctors we need 

  • For this 130 crore+ population we need empathetic doctors
  • Intelligence is curiosity, patience, and providing affordable medicine
  • Intelligence is not just grades and marks
  • Making a better next generation is the greatest responsibility
  • The best form of support is listening, kindness and care
  • Marks also does not mean great doctors, Above-average scores and empathy is what make a great doctor!!!
  • Be a learner of life, wherever you go, kindness will grow!!!!

Keep Going!!!

Work Life Balance

Sometimes I feel we need 36 hours for work-life balance. Ideas don't come right we need. 

Work-life balance or prioritizing over priorities is never-ending learning.

Keep Going!!!

Listening

  • Listen to Reply
  • Listen to Argue
  • Listen to Understand
  • Listening with Empathy
  • Listening with Kindness
  • Listening with intention to Solve
  • Listening to Learn

Keep Questioning!!!

What is Love ?

  • The Love that you loved after it Left?
  • The Love that loved you until it left you 
  • The Love that blocked each other after the excitement was over?
  • The Love that failed you and made you remember all you Lost?
  • The Love you ignored what was waiting for you?
  • The Love you loved that insulted you?

I have my gratitude for my sibling and my mom

  • They are the ones whom I hated the most at some point in Life
  • They are the ones who tolerated all my drama
  • They are the ones whom I would have made them cry most of the time
  • They are the ones who corrected all my mistakes
  • They are the ones I looked up when I had no one or I had nothing
  • Maybe I never made good relationships/friends but yes I am grateful for those why supported me even I was not grateful for them

Keep Thinking!!!

Food for Soul

Good 3 Lessons, Thank you, Rajan, Good One.

  • Even a few hours of focus can spell magic
  • Worthwhile things take months and years of consistency
  • Just enjoy the journey, stay consistent


Good One :)

Vaccination Leave

If you go for vaccination take two days to rest post-vaccination. I had the superhero mindset 30 mins after vaccination only to get screwed the next 48 hours. Body pain - mild fever - headache is a side effect. Better take rest than trying to do regular work

Keep Thinking!!!

Keep Looking

The best things do not happen with hope

The best things do not happen with patience

The best things do not happen with loyalty

Be open, Stay Curious, Keep Exploring!!!


Burnout

 Feed - Link


Burnout is real.

I’m leaving my job at the end of the month. It’s not anything to do with the job. I just can’t do it anymore.

I’m also leaving the tech industry at the end of the month.

Burnout is real.

— Tim Myers (@denvercoder) June 23, 2021

Some key thoughts
  • Taking a year long sabbatical
  • Until you have children, then they come first
  • You constantly thinking about work related solutions
  • On-call duty shifts, crunch time, endless deadlines
  • What happens when you wake up in the modern world where you are lucky enough to be driven by your passions instead of your need to survive and your passion is no longer your passion anymore?

Link1 - More read
Link2 - More read


Keep Thinking!!!

Thoughts for mind

Have a mental map of Life and Plans

  • Practice a calmer mind, It's ok to Fail
  • Solve problems, Upskill money will come
  • Live in the present and create the future you want
  • Stop asking for permission to be a future self
  • Run your race at your own pace
  • Be better than your previous version
  • Consistently buy stocks, Be a long term trader
  • Feel good about your path, Realistics to measure against yourself
  • Choose distance over disrespect
  • Choose peace over drama

Personal Traits (Copied from Link )
  • People rely on you; don’t drop; don’t backtrack
  • Speak up if there is an issue
  • Be the person everyone wants to ask to fix something
  • Leaders should avoid throwing around titles but instead use comma titles - DB Developer, BI Developer, ML, Docker, Kubernetes, Expand your horizon
  • You are hired to fix problems; not to point them out
  • A half-fixed problem is a not-fixed problem
  • Have a solution for every problem you bring
  • Your goal is not to work “a lot” but fast & effective
  • Get autonomy through transparency
  • Treat people like adults - give them information, trust them to make decisions, trust them even if you feel they make mistakes
  • Never load your stress on “people below you”
Family
Don’t take yourself or anything else too serious. Never sacrifice long-term health

Keep Thinking!!!

The type of Apartment Community

I have been a silent member I have observed all the conversations

  • Until the pandemic struck the recommendations of the virtual meeting was never encouraged
  • The debate of what you did always makes me feel 'Why to ask, Whatever happens, you can't do anything'
  • The back to the back discussion 'I did it, You did it' Those were not constructive at all
  • Finally, I reached a state 'Whatever you listen, They will do what they want' 
  • We have come a long way personally 'I have lost motivation to be a participant / nor a member'
  • I have no intent to pinpoint or call out anyone mistakes
Education does not mean you have high morality!!!

Keep Thinking!!!

Things to consider in Life

  • Better live in present to build future with hope and optimism - Focus on making brighter future
  • Bring more experiences in life and fewer frustrations - Add more life to years
  • Be focused on the task to get returns - Focus is important, Have measurable deliverables, Productive outcomes
  • Success is the result of compounding small creative habits - Be better, keep improving
  • Little things of hope are essentials to building long term habits - Learning never ends, Explore, Experiment, Stay Curious forever
  • When you are smart you focus on improving, not proving - Double up on your strengths when you improve on your weakness. Keep Learning
  • Manage your emotions well - Maturity is parting with a smile - Smile is the best to answer for people who annoy you
  • Maximize your time - Work on your primary goals, secondary goals, future goals. Time is short.  Keep everything and have a distributed setup both in thoughts and mind
  • Be proactive - Keep yourself multiskilled in your ideas, thoughts, learnings. It's ok we may not know everything but still, we can keep learning.
  • Making money out of saved income is a habit, Learn to multiply your money when you sleep
  • Invest wisely in money, Have multiple sources of income, Keep a quality circle or stay alone
  • Have an online skill for the long term, Build your passion for online learning
  • Never stop learning, Read every day, Make mistakes and learn, Don't bother about what others think.
  • Make money work for you, when you learn to make more money - Like you invest in yourself, invest your money and let it grow for you
  • Love your siblings, parents - You are an orphan without them

Keep Going!!!

Some words for soul

  • Most people don’t lack talent, they lack commitment.
  • We become addicted to people we call it love
  • Maturity is finding truth in feedback
  • Grow at your own pace
  • Imagine being with someone who makes you believe in love again (It must be the positive person in you)

Stay positive, Stay Kind!!!

Need a break

Sometimes you need a break

  • Travel alone and check out the places
  • Get yourself some of your hobbies
  • Meet your circle
  • Catch up on old to do things

Keep Going!!!

Lazy things missing perfections!!

Sometimes I am too lazy 

  • Many libraries I could have put as simple git packages for others to use
  • I could write better blog posts and be more verbose to explain the context
  • Explain more, be good at presentations, I look for content, not for beauty but beauty adds more value in the presentation
  • Focus on tech demo vs color of fonts in the output
  • Streamlit demo vs console demo vs web app demo
  • Have been more of a data guy, UX I don't do a great job, Having good UX development skills helps to present better output
  • Instead of learning 10 things, Pick three things and master them in long term
  • Improve wherever possible, In other cases see what best can complement your skills

Keep Improving!!!

My Share market lessons

  1. Do not put all eggs in one basket - Diversify invest so that the risk of loss is minimal
  2. Initial 3~4 years it will be a failure, I wasn't able to pick or make any money except loss initially, Only during covid I invested back again taking those risks
  3. Invest in regular intervals, There are multiple patterns people look at it. Sector, performance, and gut feel of how well it may perform is my approach
  4. During covid when people were cashing on reliance huge surge, I was like oh god I am a loser? Making money is no big deal once u start thinking about where to invest
  5. Slow and steady investment, pick and chose shares, learn more on the go
  6. Loss is inevitable, you cannot master it, Play for long term
  7. Slowly raise investment capital, Make sure you learn your lessons failures. Look at all recommendations and pick the one that works best for you
  8. Pick small caps, not huge prices, it's okay to play with small stocks, low risk, and diversified investments
  9. Learn more, more than money health and mental peace matters, Be aware your stocks can fall, Invest wisely and in different sectors/domains

Learn how to pick the right study materials, How to reduce time waste, Learn to earn, Learn to save, Learn to Spend!!!

Who is a FULL Stack Developer

Still figuring out

  • Code up in HTML
  • Write few services 
  • Able to Save / Retrieve in DB 
  • CRUD - Create / Read / Update / Delete

My UX design sucks, I would never call myself a full-stack developer.

Keep Thinking!!!

Why there is no Excitement in Success ?

You put so much effort, plan, pain, and work towards it. Whenever you reach something that is the outcome you may not feel the kick. This is because it's not luck, It has been the outcome of constant improvement.

  • Creativity is small set of improvements
  • Stay curious
  • Learn small things with great focus
  • Retrospect every failure
  • Stay humble with success

It's not the achievement but the journey that keeps you moving!!!

Happy Birthday Raja Sir

 




Even during death, Raja Sir heals the soul...



Long Live Raja Melodies!!!! 

What is wrong in today's politics / System?

The Epidemics in System

  1. People who do business without bills and not paying commercial taxes but talk about morality and ethics
  2. Isolating their community for their political benefits
  3. Playing caste cards
  4. Adopting one rule for everyone without respecting local culture and situation
  5. Price of procurement of paddy vs rice. Stark difference and whopping middle man profits
  6. Passing the blatant beliefs - cannot question religion
  7. Do not promote rational thinking, equality, secularism
  8. Instead of competing for quality education, affordable healthcare we fight for weapons, temples
  9. Lack of empathy for environment, Lack of empathy for fellow humans
  10. United by the same blood, DNA but divided by money, status, caste, class
  11. Caste matters, Religion matters, Money matters, Where is character!!!

Keep Thinking!!!

Social media thoughts

 



Keep Questioning!!!

Right / Wrong is a perception but Karma answers right on time!!!

Diya - The unborn child movie

Karma is Fatal and Final

Diya movie is a 'Cult' one in my perspective. It speaks a lot about the wishes/life of an aborted child. Story narration is very gripping, painful. The child 5 years comes up silently and her silence reflects the unspoken pain of an aborted child.

We reap what we sow. Live with fewer regrets.

Some motivational short films

 





Tips for Soul!!!

Focus - Read

 


Focus !!! 
It's all taking time, focus, learn, understand, and again experiment!!!

Crime against women

Crime against women comes from a lot of perspectives, Why it happens? Its not just one reason to nail down.

  • Reflecting poor value system
  • Incomplete moral education
  • Treat women outside your women as objects
  • Double standards of movies to promote women as sexual objects
  • The gap between worshipping women in the temple vs strip them when getting the opportunity
  • The top 10 websites visited included porn sites, Facebook, TikTok - This seems to reflect the needs of a generation
  • Open discussion about sex education, morality, and values

What you sow, so you reap. This will come and affect only your generations. You can get away from Law but you will witness the same reflecting in your roots and generations. Karma is Fatal and Final. 

Keep Thinking!!

Education

My Perspective at 20

  •  Education is the ability to memorize and re-represent
  • Knowledge is remembering formula, pictures, answering 10 marks, 5 marks, MCQ
  • Marks represent Intelligence

My Perspective at 30

  • You have to relearn to stay relevant in the job
  • Every day things change, you need to learn with passion or do something that you like to do
  • Education does not matter ability to apply/connect/explain matters more

My perspective now nearing 40 in few years

  • It is ok to say you don’t know everything, Call out what you know how you would do it
  • Everything you learn will help you at some point in time
  • Average scores, able to learn as and when needed is good enough. Career, Life is a marathon, You just need to be better than your own past records

Stay Kind, Be Good, Die with Less Guilt!!!!

What I did during Rough patches of my Life

I pitched for my startup ideas

I did training/freelancing

I traveled alone

I spent most of my time alone

I documented my emotions

I tried alcohol - I hate it, It doesn't solve anything

Cry out loud, Feel the pain, Get out of it

Productivity / Happiness will not the be same every day. It's ok for some days to be empty / zero your efforts. Relax / Think / Be Happy. 

Just be your best buddy!!!

A lot like love - Cult Movie

 

Real love happens over years, not right away or within a few months. Watch this movie when feeling blue..such a feel-good movie n love their chemistry

Lyrics key sections

I never understood before.

I never knew what love was for.

My heart was broke, my head was sore -

What a feeling.


Love will remain a mystery,

But give me your hand, and you will see.

Your heart is keeping time with me.


I got a feeling in my soul.

Love burns brighter than sunshine,

Brighter than sunshine.

Let the rain fall, I don't care.

I'm yours, and suddenly you're mine.

Suddenly, you're mine.

Next Movie List

  • 50/50
  • The secret life of Walter mitty
  • My neighbor totoro
  • Jerry maguire
  • Moneyball
  • Rocky
  • School of rock
  • Almost famous
  • Begin again
  • The terminal
  • Cast away
  • Forest Gump
  • Big

Keep Going!!!

Food for thought

 


 


Keep Thinking!!!

Career Perspectives

Certifications endorse your familiarity

Experience provide you clarity

Aspirations provide you the path of perspectives

Be Aspirational about your roles, your vision of technology

Be a source of motivation for others to find their aspirations

Guide them to know themselves better


Keep Thinking!!!

The cycle of upliftment

  • Provide free education - Still, people don't come to school
  • Provide free food - People come to school for Hunger
  • No money to commute - Free bus pass
  • No money for books - Provide scholarships
  • No money to stay - Provide free hostels
  • No money for parents - Provide 100-day minimum jobs scheme

To get a generation educated we need so many social welfare measures to get them closer to education. With a good living, a well-to-do family you will not appreciate these unless you go through it. Real upliftment came from all these social measures. It is very hard to get a first-generation graduate. Unless you get collective growth you can never grow/innovate at scale.

People attending paid Byjus, Akash IIT will never know the pain of poverty, affordable quality education. Digital mediums should provide more access/guidance for the needy. We need to clear the misconceptions, understand the fundamentals to the core.  

As long as you are divided by caste/religion you will never be able to innovate, learn, share or improve your environment. A knowledge-driven society will evolve not a blind beliefs-based system. I would rather have questions that can't be answered than answers that can't be questioned (Feynman quote :)) 

Tamilnadu is better performing only because of social welfare schemes. To go far, go together. 


Keep Thinking!!!

Some perspectives / Short Stories

 






Keep Going!!!

Ten things when you feel work pressure

  1. Analyze do you have skills or is it a skill gap? Either fill the gap or choose a job which matches your skills
  2. Be smart, not hardworking. Life is short. Everyone can be replaced but your family needs you. Pick jobs, pick and choose tasks that meets your time and efforts
  3. You cannot win every battle, It's ok to lose in certain situations for your own peace
  4. Clean your mind from pressure, job, everything. Quit and take a break as and when needed
  5. Work out of own interest. Build your own futuristic version in your own learning plan
  6. Be better than yesterday, last month, and last year. You are your own competition
  7. When you fix your weakness double up on your strengths
  8. Collect small ideas, small code snippets, small lessons which will give you more clarity, perspectives for implementation
  9. Be genuine, kind, don't fake anything. If you don't care keep your mouth shut
  10. Life is short, Don't stab anyone or a copycat. Build your own trail always and forever
  11. Sometimes tasting failures give us bitterness which helps us to value the sweetness of success
Keep Going!!!

Good Session / Transformation Politics

 

  • Gross Enrollment Ratio 
  • Encourage women participation
  • Social process change / Free the clutches / Open up Opportunities
  • Growth and Development should be democratized
  • Beyond personal/professional commitments
  • Building projections in the next 10 years
  • Cluster model of working
  • Society transformation is the core fundamental
  • Free rice distribution
  • Social process trigged by PDS
  • 150 days work in agriculture
  • Healthcare system
  • Education system
  • Scholarship + Money + healthcare + Social inclusiveness
  • Self-respect and Social justice
  • Enable, Empower, Upliftment politics
  • First / Second generation graduates
  • Protect the same system
  • The social foundation is the key to transformation
  • Extend all frontiers 
  • Make people aspirational
  • Strengthen educational institutions
  • Make education prepared for future
  • Empowerment justice
  • Prudence to continue the same journey

Keep Thinking!!!

People management

What is people management?

  • Not victimizing them for their different views
  • Respecting their leaves/vacations
  • Put yourself in their shoes
  • Give them genuine advice
  • Able to connect with them 

What is not people management?

  • Friday night drinks
  • Team outing
  • Dumbsharads

Be Genuine!!!


Commoditize and make knowledge more democratic

What's unique about Tamilnadu?


Instead of 1 best Engineering college, we have 500 Average Engineering colleges. The benefits are. The way we see merit is not merit, it is testocracy. Innovation is a collective effort. Innovation does not come from a single source. By encouraging more social participation you can contribute to collective growth. 


Tomorrow when someone talks about merit, Remember newton would have failed even IIT exams because we don't measure merit with knowledge but by the ability to choose from multiple-choice questions. I would rather prefer to be a lifelong learner than a topper at some point in life. 


Life never stops teaching you. Average education and good moral values is all we need. I would not close my eyes and live my life alone. I cannot live at peace when I see someone suffer. Together only we grow not as individuals.

Keep Going!!!

Keep Running

Win or lose run the marathon with Hope, kindness, and optimism. As long as we live, there is hope. But the dead won't come back. We will have to live with it. Forever.

- Keep Running

Some thoughts that align my views

  • Death is not due to Covid, but due to the corrupt system and people that we have in this country.
  • Whose inactions lead to this situation
  • The sad and tragic thing is that in India, these deaths were avoidable.
  • Hope that this pandemic will end soon, hope that we will take our lessons
  • The feeling of helplessness is unprecedented for most of us
  • Unimaginable loss for people who have lost their loved ones
  • India can launch nuclear missiles from land, air & sea to destroy its enemies. But it doesn't have enough hospital beds, oxygen, ambulances, drugs & doctors to save its citizens during a pandemic.
  • Statues and buildings vs mini-hospitals and schools
  • Focus on organizing larger religious events and election rallies
  • Temples vs Schools
  • Missiles vs Medicines

- Find the reason


Quit all, Just empty your Soul

Forget all the past

Forget all the bitterness

Forget all that you lost

Forgive all those memories that haunt you

Just Learn

Be more kind

Accept and Understand then argue

Forget, Forgive, Move on, It's just one more day to live

We don't take anything with us nor we don't like forever

'TESTOCRACY' VS. 'MERITOCRACY'

"about how we reevaluate the meaning of merit by measuring its democratic values rather than its testocratic machinery"

Amartya Sen’s definition of merit as an incentive system that rewards actions society values – in our society

Link - post

Good read - link

Key Points

What’s wrong with meritocracy? 

  • It endorses a competitive, linear, hierarchical system in which by definition certain people must be left behind
  • Unrealized talent is therefore both the necessary and structural condition of its existence. 
  • Requiring people to be in a permanent state of competition with each other
  • Climbing the ladder is simply much harder for some people than others
  • Availability of material and psychological resources depends on social location
  • ‘flexploitation’(flex-ibility + exploitation) rather than‘flexicurity’(flexibility + security) 
  • Hereditary meritocracy

Link3 - post

The children of the rich and powerful are increasingly well suited to earning wealth and power themselves

Are elitist institutions the reason for two Indias? | ThinkEdu2020

  • Is merit really achievable?
  • How many graduates from first time graduates?
  • System perpetuating the educated class
  • Does brain power perpetuate across generations
  • Social upliftment / Contribution for soceity

Education is not learning to do a repetitive process. It is understanding, questioning, asking #why, and taking it to next level.


  • MCQ Pressure is not a measure of knowledge
  • MCQ Time management is not a measure of intelligence
  • Experimental knowledge vs Ability to recollect
  • Choose the right answer vs Eliminating the wrong answer
  • Knowledge comes from reasoning and experimentation
Dropout in the education system is not a failure of students but a failure of the education system. True intelligence is built from learning, experimenting, failing. It is not built overnight or by copy-past and running code. 

Keep Thinking!!!
"Fight for you. Believe in you. Bleed. Cry. Conquer - Dan Waldschmidt"