- List down your daily work schedule, List down your partner daily schedule. Understand and identify similar / non-similar things
- List down your holiday schedule, List down your partner holiday schedule. Understand and identify similar / non-similar things
- List down your hobbies. Ask your partner to list down her hobbies. Both indoor and outdoor hobby
- Have honest conversations on opinions on level of transparency in relationships
- What is loyalty or limits of loyalty in relationship
- How much time each one is willing to share on common chores
- What are your financial goals ? Does it look similar ?
- How do you handle cheating in marriage ? Whats their opinion ?
- Check if any medical issues related to kids or parenting. Be open about it
When the fundamentals are not same, the less likely it will succeed. These are few directions to understand each other perspectives.
Happy Finding!!!
Childhood has provided us with unconditional love and affection from our parents.
We have received everything we wanted and we never had to adjust ourself. Adulthood the relationships is very different. We tend to look for same childhood experience unaware how to bridge the two expectations. Romanticism has skewed the real meaning of a relationship. Life goes beyond what is portrayed in movies.
We tend to go back to what broke us because we haven't had the experience dealing with broken things in life. Even we move forward in professional aspects of life sometimes our personality doesn't get adjusted to move forward.
This is the primary reason why breakup leads to regret and grief.
We are not taught dealing with Emotional issues, In fact, the biggest strength is life is mental toughness. However loyal and truthful you can be you will still be tested for making wrong choices in life.
Learn to understand people how they are not how you want them to be,
Sometimes selfishness comes before loyalty. In such situations, the impact of the other person would be painful.
Learn to understand the situations and navigate with a balanced state of mind.
Live every day with Less Regrets!!!
