What is Love ?

• The Love that you loved after it Left?
• The Love that loved you until it left you 
• The Love that blocked each other after the excitement was over?
• The Love that failed you and made you remember all you Lost?
• The Love you ignored what was waiting for you?
• The Love you loved that insulted you?

I have my gratitude for my sibling and my mom

• They are the ones whom I hated the most at some point in Life
• They are the ones who tolerated all my drama
• They are the ones whom I would have made them cry most of the time
• They are the ones who corrected all my mistakes
• They are the ones I looked up when I had no one or I had nothing
• Maybe I never made good relationships/friends but yes I am grateful for those why supported me even I was not grateful for them

Keep Thinking!!!

Alain de Botton - The Future Of The Way We Live, Love And Work

Love in Romanticism Age

• Tolerated your partner at early ages
• We are all heirs of Romanticism
• Context and society dependant love
• The way we love in dependant on Society
• Romanticism is an ideology. It says soulmate exists
• Instinctive attraction comes when we meet the special person
• Definitive end of Alienation and Loneliness
• Reveal shamed and Vulnerability 
• Tied to long summer afternoons, Walks, Waterfalls, Sunsets, Clouds, Special feelings
• Love and sex go together
• Romantics believe sex is an expression of love. So, Adultery becomes the tragedy in Romanticism
• Romanticism is the greatest enemy of love
• We are not pure, kind, living beings, We are dangerous human beings
• Relationships are tricky, Mothers and friends do not care much
• People are not bothered to invest in mutual enlightenment
• Earlier times marriage has a reason (Religion / Caste)
• Now it is instinct
• Recreating pattern of earlier childhood
• We are drawn to people we feel familiar
• Special feeling means they didn't satisfy your friends requirement for suffering
• Being yourself is a curse
• FUll dimensions are troublesome
• Early days liberating love
• Later conflict between love and honesty
• Moment of loneliness begins
• There is no such intuitive understanding
• This is also a disaster
• Long term without speaking its not possible
• Outbreak of sulking
• There is no implicit understanding
• Accept whole of you
• Awkward movements of critics
• Breach is not criticism
• Greek believed love is an attraction to perfection, virtue, and accomplishment
• Weakness, Vulnerability is human
• Mutual education is love
• The good teacher feels relaxed, a legitimate feeling
• Long-Term Love is not shouting
• No humiliation
• Education is beginning of love, not a breach of love
• Education is not a betrayal of ground rules of love

Love in Realistic Perspective

• Reinvent Love
• Get away from instinct
• More therapeutic scaffolding around them
• Curriculum of love
• Let's stop treating them as an adult, treat as children
• Be  generous about our system of interpretation
• Broken soul means normal in outside world
• We are children
• Interpret someone evil or not rely on humor
• Humor is vital to try lovable idiot
• Secrets are okay
• Loneliness cannot end with birth of love
• You cannot understand yourself no one can mind read you

Love Advice

• Gently understood you are crazy
• Gently understood you partner crazy
• Bring communication to the therapeutic level
• Accept practical venture
• Unhappy great deal of time
• Embark on journey

Happy Finding Right Partner!!!

Searching for love to escape ourselves

Good Notes from the talk

• Breakup makes you vulnerable
• People leave after making you weak
• After all excitment, fantasy you are nothing
• It was magnet of chaos
• "Not Approaching love in right way"
• Continue to chase chaos
• Love can be beautiful, exciting, escapism
• Minimalist strategy for dating
• Desire is good and human, Sometimes we go crazy, ridiculous
• Loneliness, Escapism is not love
• We are not getting what we are entitled to
• When you sleep don't think of past, needs
• Focus your mind on real work
• Fix the work that stops you becoming Happy
• Ridiculous ideas of romance, needs, Inability to get through without smart phones
• Discover more about self
• Do not recreate same mistakes
• Be aware again
• See a shadow of youself
• Stop waiting for anyone come in your life
• Live in here and now
• More grounded
• Do not run away from your life
• Be alone until you find someone else
• Collect and carry with us throughout our life
• We do not need to prove anymore
• "Just be"

Happy Self-Discovering!!!

Relationships and Love

Emotion and perceptions of Love control's our brain.

Happy Learning!!!

Beautiful Love Story

Enjoyed the short film. Great Work.