- What if types of Question
- Simulate for you 'What would it look like if'
- 'What would happen if'
- Supply anything you want
- "Brains have enormous capacity to simulate"
- "Brain will fill in the Steps"
- "Schedule every day to ask yourself what you want your life to look like"
Showing posts with label Good Talks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Good Talks. Show all posts
Let your Brain fill your Steps
Good Talks
Tips
- Depth with power and authority
- Rich smooth and warm voices
- Prosody - Meta Language
- Pace neither slow nor fast Emphasize (Bit of silence)
- Pitch
- volume (Do not impose sound carelessly)
- Warm up your voice
- Honesty - clear
- Authenticity - Standing in your own truth
- Integrity - be your word
- Love - trust
- Speaking ill of someone (Not a Nice Habit)
- Judging (Do not judge people)
- Negativity
- Complaining
- Excuses
- Exaggeration
- Dogmatism (Confusion of fact + Opinions)
Better Conversations
People are more polarised, Divided. We do not listen to each other.
- Do not multi-task, Be present
- Set aside personal opinion
- Sensing acceptance
- Assume you have something to learn
- Everybody is an expert in something
- Use Open ended questions
- Who ? What ? Why ? How ?
- Go with the flow
- Say you do not know
- All experiences are individual, You do not need to prove your moment
- Conversations are not promotional opportunities
- Try not to repeat yourself
- Forget Details
- Listen (Listening is the most important skill)
- If your mouth is open you are not learning
- Listen 2X of talking
- Intent to understand not to reply
- Be interested in other people
- Mouth shut and mind open
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