Loneliness Study

Key Lessons
  • Meaning, the purpose has greater social connect
  • A broad range of benefits
  • Purpose leads to positivity
  • Different subsystems in the brain and their connectivity


Key Lessons
  • Connections 
  • Weak social ties decrease body immune response
  • Weak social ties or lack of purpose leads to numbness
  • Social skills, building blocks, Communication, Connect more deeply
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Healthy State vs Being Single

Single and depression free

Single and healthy

Single and emotionally fit

Single and lust free

Single and greed free

Single and disease-free


The same Applies after marriage/relationships too. Too many things that haunt us are not real things. Lose your mind, lose yourself. Never give rise to temptations/greed. 

Being bad is also easy, Being good is also easy. Oscillating between both is the toughest choice which reflects the poor implementation of values.

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Digitally Disconnected

Stay away from Negative People

Stay away from alcohol

Stay away from loneliness

Stay away from lust

Stay away from digital devices

Go back to books, Spend a few hours walking, driving outside

Shutoff All electronic devices and sleep as long as possible and as much as possible

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Focus - Drive - Practice

Having good emotional and mental health is the key. Win or lose move on with your decisions. Sometimes little things are a source of great happiness. Curd rice and home made egg bujji is all the happiness i have the moment to cherish.




Enjoy the happiness!!



Stay in the Right Environment

In my school days, I remember these lines

If health is lost something is lost

If wealth is lost something is lost

If the character is lost everything is lost

We do not lose everything in one go. It is a slow process of losing health, thoughts, wealth. Smoking is a long term impact, stress, the pressure is a long term impact, falling in long relationships.

Everything adds up as slow poison. We don't become bad we become bad by the company, situation, environment, things that feed our mind. Staying in the right situation, the environment is the key to everything.

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Lyrics Time - Raja Enbar Manthiri Enbar Song


They call me king, They call me a minister and I don't have a kingdom or a queen to share the kingdom
I don't have a relationship to care for, a relationship that will break
I am hanging like a swing without anything to support in the air

There is no water in the rocky stones
The soul has no kindness on me
Wishes and Lust have no shame
You don't have a chance to live your wishes
There is no cure for this situation at this moment

They call me king, They call me a minister and I don't have a kingdom or a queen to share the kingdom

The moon has clouds that look for it every night
The flower and fragrance complement each other together
The little plants that climb up to look for branches for the hope of growth
I don't have anything to look for me
Not sure the purpose the almighty created me
For what reason, my thoughts are wandering with sadness
The next part starts with an optimistic response from his match with a distance
You will find your kingdom and your queen and a prince for you
You are looked up with respect and your purity to worship so I am staying away at a distance
Why are you sad, You have a history in this world

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The Blues of Life

If you are skilled sooner or later you will get a job

If you don't have healthy habits sooner or later you will lose a part of your lifetime due to bad health

When we are far apart in minds no matter how close you are still far apart and away

Sometimes titles, sometimes money, sometimes lust but nothing can come forever and nothing in that is soul-fulfilling. Connecting with people is chaos. Better to focus on own purpose in life, travel, teach and die alone

Sometimes death has to be peaceful, neither live in others heart nor give them the burden of being with you

I spent the same life past twenty years, code for a living

Time to let go of everything, lose yourself, be anonymous, live without anything, and die without anything

All the world is a stage where all men and women play their roles same as what Shakespeare said

Fair is foul, foul is fair, As it appears in Macbeth. What appears good is not actually good, What is bad is not actually bad

If this is what happiness in life, I don't really need this life, Let me go on the highway and enjoy the company with the Stars. Those stars are my friends, the ilayaraja song is my soul and my ghost rider is my best buddy in my Life. If death comes calling this very moment I will hug it and go with a big smile. No commitments, No burden, Nothing expected!!!!

Let me love this Life or Kiss my Death!!!

Focus 2021

  • Take a break
  • Travel with no intentions
  • Have no commitments
  • Stop chasing what you don't have - Money, Title, Relationships

Let it all evolve!!!

Loneliness

What we feed our mind locks our thoughts. What we think about locks our focus. What we regret locks our happiness. Sometimes there is the hype about things we don't have. In a way, this mechanical life is taking away all the exploration from life. We need to stay away from this routine of commitments, hope, and life. 

I don't want to follow or fall into the trap of lust or greed. I just want to come above everything which can be defocused than being on the wrong path.

Keep Thinking!!!

Definition of Life from an Atheist

  • Belief with Evidence
  • Live on Electronically, Literature, DNA after death
  • We become what we were initially nothing after Death
  • Good food, Good Sex, Little things of Happiness

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5.5hrs journey

 Driving at night with Ilayaraja music is a feeling which cannot be equated to any fun in life :)

I was remembering the good and bad things in life. The high and low moments of life. In a way, everything boils down to those momentary acts. Sometimes it's the few seconds of thrill, smile, joy, 

  • View of the scenic place
  • The taste of food
  • The joy of the first rank
  • The joy of SMS of salary
  • Pleasant music of drive with the moon, long road and lines of the song
Life is the small moments of happiness and the low moments could be the point of hunger, disappointment, anger, ego, pride. I have not called out lust/love / sex as I still myself don't have clarity about it as I have failed to make a move personally to understand. I am not sure if relationships are overrated or it's what we see in movies. For everything, you lose you have gained something. I am happy not getting into marriage for the sake of it. The small moments of happiness are those things that i look back on for memories in life. 

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Offline Line

2021 gave me a perspective to be an offline person. One analogy I read about ghosts. With the millions of people who died, if they were all existing as souls there will be a million souls of dinosaurs to prehistoric animals. 

Unfollow ghost videos, vlogs. Travel is good but travel without purpose, travel to make money is not my cup of team. Detox from digital life. For that, I looked at books for the first time. I had half a dozen books, Instead of random quotes, vlogs, I decided to read a few chapters and post my perspectives on the same. 

Life is not perspective by what others see you are doing. Life is what you feel when you see yourself standing at a distance. 

Go offline, Work on things that fuel your soul not your body.

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Innovation Guru

 To be really future-ready, You need to have

  • Visibility for technology
  • Evolving Customer demands
  • Converges of tech and evolution of new ways of business
To be an Innovation Guru you need to
  • Digest a lot of information
  • Build an idea repository
  • Look for inspiration in everything
  • Keep Thinking and Connecting the dots
  • Innovation is the curiosity to build better solutions for existing problems
Build your passion, Career will find you.

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Delay Reaction Time

 Everything is far better in life If we delay our Reaction time

  • Do not decide in a moment of happiness
  • Do not decide in a moment of anger
  • Do not answer when you don't have an answer
  • Do not criticize when you can't reply neither accept
  • Do not accept if you don't have any other option 
  • Stay away from people because words can never be taken back
  • Your respect is until you speak within your limits
  • Think Several times, Analyze a little then convey your opinion
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Digital Lending Apps

  • Unapproved by Regulators
  • Get all your contacts
  • Put you in the trap of high interests
  • Shame you with access to contacts
  • Pressure you for closure / Drive you for suicide

Earning is tough, Spending is easier, Borrowing money is simple, Repaying is tough. A smartphone can make you as dumb, addictive as possible if not used carefully. 

Live a better offline Life!!!

"Fight for you. Believe in you. Bleed. Cry. Conquer - Dan Waldschmidt"