Thoughts about Life

[Little Boy] - Is everyone around you truthful to you
[Life] - You be truthful instead of expecting them to be

[Little Boy] - I am I know myself
[Life] - Life is a reflection, When you don't have anything in your intentions, Move on, Don't worry

[Little Boy] - Why do people close to us hurt the most
[Life] - Life is short, We don't know if we will be there tomorrow, We don't understand and accept each other, You live life changing everything

[Little Boy] - Its better to be alone than finding a company for sake of it
[Life] - Finding the right company matters

[Little Boy] - This life makes me feel its all artificial and drive by needs and demands of world
[Life] - Find the part of world and environment where you fit in

[Little Boy] - I pause life when I miss the peace in Life
[Life] - Build walls to keep the kind self, Build bridges to grow the kind  self

[Little Boy] - Do people really care in this world
[Life] - Do you really care for all the emotions

[Little Boy] - Yes I do but I also question
[Life] - Time will answer, Stay Kind, Keep Going!!!


Broken Soul

Driven by expectations 
Driven by control 
Driven by beliefs 
Our decisions are influenced by emotions and manipulations
Not every fear is true, Not every intent is good
But Life has hard and easy lessons in every chapter
One life is tough enough to test our values, beliefs, and kindness
Stay calm, Stay quiet, Keep Going!!!

Life and Belifs

[Little Boy] - In all this world, How much people are selfish and how much are selfless
[Life] - How does the data Help?

[Little Boy] - There is an essence of Selfishness in everything we do, So everything is driven by expectations
[Life] - Our Belief in Life comes from People we meet and we surround with

[Life] - How many people did you help in the last few days?
[Little Boy] - I haven't intentionally betrayed or hurt anyone 

[Life] - Chose your beliefs carefully, Let them be driven by values not with money
[Little Boy] - True our work should reflect our beliefs and values

[Life] - Do everything with passion and love. Be kind and keep teaching people
[Little Boy] - Accept yourself and work for a better person every single day, Be a proud outlier who grows from every single experience

Keep Going!!!

Footprint

Leave an impressive footprint that marks your beliefs, vision, values. Look for a future where every day reflects the future you live in it. Have the passion and the zeal to make the difference. Have a present with all the love, care and Kindness you are as a person. Be beautifully from inside. Stay kind always. Let's all the deeds reflects kindness, compassion, and empathy.

Keep Going!!!

Be the Real Hero

Build from your failure
Build from things that broke you
Rebuild everything when everything is broken
Be hard on yourself
Be cool in your intelligence and thoughts
Be kind in your actions
Bless everything that taught you
Find everything that shapes you
Be better to get better 
Be a go-getter

Keep Going!!!!

How should an Individual Shape himself

Finding a better version of Self
  1. Very Strong Mental Strength -Able to take a decision based on data, emotions, and reality
  2. Balance Kindness and Competition - Being kind and also learn to play to win
  3. Entrepreneurship - Finding the spot in life to start something on own
  4. Leadership - Be your own leader, learn the rules from failures
  5. Human behavior - Have Empathy, Kindness and Consistent motivation to excel beyond what you are today
  6. Speaking - Learn the art of knowing people, understanding them and conveying things in the intent of making it successful
  7. Programming - You become a programmer by coding a hundred programs, Everything that fails means you are going one step further becoming a better programmer
  8. Personal Brand - Develop your own personal brand. Be known for your commitment, delivery, and excellence
  9. Keep Learning - Consistently upskill yourself, To reach the top you need consistent motivation, zeal to learn, willingness to take risks, learn from the environment, Always move forward in every step of life
  10. Heal the Pain, Learn from pain - Personal, Professional pains will make you rethink and relearn your strategies. Never run out of kindness. The kind person and the empathetic one is the one who truly wins Life!!!

Be a Winner today and remain a Winner for Life!!!

Life and Little Boy Conversations - Hurt

[Little Boy]- I made a mistake hurt someone, Equally, I felt they also made some mistakes
[Life]- Don't equate mistakes, Fix things from your end

[Little Boy]- How do I know if they recognize their mistake
[Life]- What goes around will come around. You reap for what you sowed, Don't wait to see someone's life

[Little Boy]- Anger doesn't go away quickly
[Life]- Anger is a form of Depression too

[Little Boy]-Why do people then hurt someone and pretend innocent
[Life]-You don't know the other side of the struggling person. What burns me inside will make me hurt others too, You are blessed to know people and be kind to them

[Little Boy]-Same I felt only that empathetic mindset screwed me
[Life]- You have been through all this and you will be an inspiration

[Little Boy]- Thanks Life, Thanks for making me kinder, a better person, I am still waiting for the good person in my life
[Life] - You will meet them soon

Keep Going!!!

Life and Past

[Litte Boy] - Why did people hurt me in the past?
[Life] - Don't worry you have come out of it now, Remember the positive changes from the past year where you are 

[Litte Boy] - Yea, True Just felt when people can enrich each other potential why pour fire on someone's Life
[Life] - Every failure/disappointment had made you where to build walls/bridges

[Little Boy] - Is regret / Apologize / Move sign of Maturity ?
[Life] - Be kind with yourself and with others, Be a good person in someone's memory. Leave Karma / Ego. Just make sure you do not lose the kindness and the happy kid for whatever reason

[Little Boy] - Why we are not taught the importance of failures in life, Why do movies dictate the impractical and self-sabotaging thoughts

[Life] - When you understand where you are manipulated you will know who manipulates you
[Little Boy] - How to make this impact bigger

[Life] - Focus on Education, Teaching and Awareness creation
[Life] - Focus on becoming a better version of Self!!!

Keep Going!!

Life & Little Boy Conversations

[Little Boy] - Who is the happiest person in the world
[Life] - The one who carries less regret, little satisfaction, and more Kindness

[Little Boy] - Why marriage discussion scares the Hell out of me
[Life] - Be patient and focus on important things, Build relationships over time

[Little Boy] - How to trust someone without asking uncomfortable questions?
[Life] - Know the intuition in the first few conversations, Close if differences are more

[Little Boy] - Why do people dominate/disagree even when they are close to you
[Life] - They don't buy your perspectives but they agree on Marriage perspective

[Little Boy] - There is no way to measure loyalty, trust, and truth in conversations
[Life] - Look at their past, Discuss on past, Listen and Understand

[Little Boy] - Is marriage complicated?
[Life] - Depends on the choices and person you chose 

[Little Boy] - How to chose the best person?
[Life] - Be a kind and loyal person, Hopefully, you get the best person

Keep Going!!!

Choose Wisely

A beautiful face will age with Wrinkles and lose the charm
a beautiful heart will glow with the beauty of kindness, empathy

Choose Wisely

Walls and Bridges in Life

Life is a balance of being kind, being optimistic and at the same time respecting people boundaries
People who listen to you and challenge your views with Data points will make you think
People who listen to you and neither comment but silent ignore are way apart from your mindset
People who dominate your opinions will end up taking your space and your thinking, avoid them
Growth Oriented mindset comes with willingness to learn, listen and understand
Life is a perspective of building bridges for better improved quality of thinking, mindset, and kinder self
Sometimes we build walls with people who are close to us, this is to ensure we don't break the existing bonding with them
Build bridges for a kinder self
Build Walls to protect the kinder self

Keep Going!!!

The ups and downs of Life

When someone hits you when you are down let them pray you don't get back
When you get back and just look them they will diminish
Break expectations from people about yourself
Be the best possible curious, creativity and ever learning person
The most knowledgeable person will be kind, humble and explain things in the most simple way
When they are so many wrong examples to follow the right examples remain unnoticed
Be an outlier who is kind, curious and creative

Keep going!!!

Love - Depression - Happiness

Love is an emotion when it begins
Love is sentiment when it ends
Anger is the beginning of a depression
Crying is the recovery path of depression
Kindness is a sign of recovery
Apologizing is a sign of maturity
Happiness again in life with next best version of self


Keep Going Little Hero!!!!

Vaidehi Kathirunthal Lyrics

Sometimes its worth to look at the deep meanings in lyrics. One such song that had always hit me hard is this song Rasathi Unna Kanatha Nenju. Translating some of those lines as I understood in English




Oh my dear where are you, 

My heart is looking for you in every possible direction like the kite flying in all directions of the wind
My heart is looking for you in every possible direction like the kite flying in all directions of the wind
The sun is gone, the lights are on, my eyes keep looking for you
You are the star for my eyes, Your voice is the Melody for my ears and the essence of my soul
You are the star for my eyes, Your voice is the Melody for my ears and the essence of my soul
You are the abundance of love like the crawling of a little baby and the literature of my soul
You are the star that I look for every night, you are the life my soul breaths every single moment
You are all my bonding and the love I loved and longed in my life
It's dark and the sun is gone, I still keep looking for you my dear
The melting moments of my heart when I met you, The loneliness of your absence kills my desire to live
I need to live my life and I need you to live my life, come back, my dear in my life
I keep waiting for you and looking for you!


The melodious backdrop music that kills every cell in our heart
Awesome lines, Amazing Music, These lines will keep living across generations and touch millions of kind souls!!!

Life and Little Boy

After the dark, the Moon shines
The stars shine in the darkness of night
The boy asked life where are good people in my life
Life responded you need to find out
The boy asked life why everyone around me looks perfect
Life replied fair is foul, the foul is fair
The boy told life why people close to me don't understand me
Life replied they care for you but don't buy your thoughts
The boy asked life is everything fair in Life
Life replied everything will sum up for the acts and deeds
Life replied to him be kind and keep going!!!

Some pics of the ghost ride



Keep Learning!!!

Conversations and Emotions

A conversation that intends to provoke will teach you patience in long run
A conversation that hurts you will teach you kindness in long run
A conversation that gives you emotional pain will shut your senses in long run
Many conversations that gives you happiness are not conversations just few meaningful smiles, small acts of kindness without words
Humans have the intrinsic ability of target oriented conversations
Even Hidden motive of conversation can be learnt only from experience
That's the reason we turn to books, solitude to retrospect and find the ones in our circle

Life, Why Me ?

Life - The Kindest Teacher

Last year I looked up Life and asked me 'Why me? I am exhausted with betrayal/pain?'
This Year I looked back and said 'Try' Someone else 'Don't mess with me :)'
Life smiled back and told me 'See I gave you next better version of yourself'
I smiled at Life and said 'Give me good people in my Life, I am kinder now'
Life said 'You will meet them Soon'

Keep Going!!!

The Orphan Boy

The Little boy was orphaned because he couldn't fit in others expectations
Everyone else around him wanted him to be the way they wished him to be
The boy ran away from the crowd to find his freedom with solitude
He understood the world does little good to make you fit in the society
The boy understood he was an outlier in this world
Learning to live, learning to learn the world and Live among the expectations of people around him
Forgive everyone, Stay Kind and Keep Going!!!



Love

Love is a sentimental, emotional, bit of expectations, sense of pride to look up to someone who never gives up on you. Some love is felt during the period the person is with you. Some love is recognized when it is lost. Whatever happens, have loads of love and gratitude for life for experiencing those beautiful little emotions. Have a great day!!!!

Love is emotional when it starts
Love is sentiment when it ends
You are kind to one person when you are in love
There is love even if we disagree with someone.
You are kinder to everyone after a lost love
Reclaim yourself in the process of finding yourself
Love is the gratitude and kindness that sees the beauty in little things in life


Happy Valentines Day, Share Love and Kindness, Keep Rocking, Keep Smiling!!!

The Boy - Hero of My Past

There was a period when a little boy had no one to look up to
Little boy locked up in a totally dark place 
He thought he will be buried in the dark
He shut down his senses and realized the seeds of kindness he planted
He grew slowly in bits and pieces until one day he broke the walls to see the brightest sunshine in life
Let the walls of hate diminish
Let kindness fill the soul
You outperform what puts you down
Bravo, Phoenix that comes back from the Ashes
The boy looked back and said 'Try' Someone else Don't mess with me :)
Life smiled back and told him 'See I gave you next better version of yourself'

Keep Going!!!

Valentine's Day

Many times I lost the little boy in me in search of finding myself. I lost myself to find myself again. Now I look back it feels like seeing from the sky a little boy lost in dark unable to find his way. I have a lot of empathy for the boy who struggled to find himself. He found the light in himself and he is the one who is kinder and becoming the best version of self.

Be madly in love with your self
Madly in love with dreams
Madly focused on being kinder
Madly optimistic and resilient about life
Give kindness, Love, and optimism to the world
Love yourself first and give love to the world
Make the difference
Stay kind stay focused !!!

Keep Going!!!

Day #69 - Vanessa Van Edwards: "Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People" | Talks at Google

Be a Ted Junkie
Key Lessons
Body Language Pattern
  • Hand Gestures
  • 465 hand gestures in Average Ted Talk
  • Most popular talks Signal with Hand Gestures
  • Brains give weights to hand gestures
  • Hands along with words
Word Usage
  • Passion
  • Persuasive Language
  • Emotional Language
  • Use of Data / Logic / Use of Emotions
  • Use of Eye Language, We / Out / Us vs Me / I
Timing
  • Which President smiled the most
  • Shortest Speech
Shark Tank Secrets
  • Charisma than the actual idea
  • Researched all the pitches for six months
  • Introduction/ Grand Entrance
  • Body Language / First Impression
  • Pitch Impressions
  • Word Usage Patterns
  • Deal Breaker - Math Problems
  • 45% Successful smiled while coming in
  • Blind babies also make the same facial expression
  • Smiles reaches upper cheek muscles
  • Verbal explanation will calm the fear
  • Highlight cooperation
Personality
  • Conscientiousness - Focus on Details, Detail Oriented
  • Treat others the way they want to be treated, Aware of Personality Traits
  • Neuroticism - Low Neurotic - Resilient, Stable, Calm. Get through crisis / Prevent crisis
  • Openness
  • Agreeableness
  • Extraversion
Self Calm
  • Verbalizing
  • Shutdown and process by themselves
  • Self-calm in a natural way
Contempt
  • Pessimistic micro expression
  • Are we all good / Pause / Go back over this
  • Opportunity to retrace
Disgust
  • Give them space to open up
  • Decode emotions from facial expressions
  • Get Intuitive to spot at microexpressions



Keep Learning!!!

Day #68 - Child - Kid - Boy - Man - Boy - Child (Cycle of Life)

As a curious child, I was amazed at everything I saw
As an adamant child, I made sure I take a larger pie as I was a foodie
As a careless child, I was never bothered about studies until the third standard
The spark of education came when I was studying 3rd Standard
My mom made me feel you will end up jobless if you don't study
I am a conceptual, empirical learner. Experimenting, Exploring were my ways to learn
The child was lost in due course and the boy was studious
I was a local champ until my High school
The boy was lost and was a paper-based expert all through the college days
The boy was lost to find the passion with paper-based marks
The days of Google and download slides and learn added more frustration
I met several experts in my field who were from Non-IT background but they heavily influenced me to be what I am today
After 30, I wanted to go back to the same curious, passionate learning child
I code every single day to become a better code
I want the next generation to learn in the most passionate way possible
The boy who lost to become a man became a boy finally
The boy will become a curious child and a passionate Learner
Never let the child in you die, Live the life with the knowledge and creativity!!!!

Keep Going!!!

Day #67 - Enjoy Learning

Until 30 I learned because I don't want to be jobless
After 30 I learned because I want the next generation to learn in the best possible way
Learning is art. Learning is the process of developing curiosity, creativity, experimentation. 
A great learner will be passionate, kind and optimist. Develop the next generation with the right mindset 



Be a passionate, curious Learner!!!

Day #66 - The Spark of Thought

A thought is a spark
Repetition of same thought creates a perspective
Implementation of thought creates a habit
Implementation of habit impacts the characters
Feed the right spark which will keep you going in the right direction
What fills your mind feeds your soul
Let's kindness and generosity fill the soul


Keep Going!!!

Day #65 - Badass Quotes

Some quotes strike you to the core. The moment of being down and the moment you rise and show your strength that is the badass moment of life. Every failure makes us tougher, Every disappointment makes us kinder.





Keep Going!!! Some people are meant to change to World, Nothing can stop them!!! (Source - Pinterest / Telegram)

Day #64 - Perspectives on Life and Emotions

Pain
Pain blocks thinking
Pain blocks understanding
Pain changes the direction of life

Power of Emotions
Awareness of emotion from pain is the power
Pain, fear, desire drives most part of the thinking
Creativity, curiosity, passion takes the front seat 

Being Immortal
Reproduction is a way of evolution and beats morality
But in this process, we create more dumb species

Lessons from my Father
He was always instrumental in challenging my limits
As time goes I feel the same trait to do better at work reflects in me

Lessons from my Mother
Her kindness, protectiveness every time is something I will remain indebted
We debate, disagree but again I have the freedom after all the debates

In the end, life is divided into two parts
Good times do well in things you love to do
Tough times do something for social cause/help someone in need
Good times and Tough times are a cycle so it keeps repeating and makes us kinder, simpler and optimistic about life

Live Well, Stay Kind and Stay Focused!!!

Day #63 - Build Yourself, Be Yourself

Life is a series of lessons and applying learned lessons
Let the failures make you fearless
Let the success make you bolder
Let the insults make you kinder
Let the kindness make you smarter
Find yourself, build yourself and be yourself
Intelligence comes by consistent creative thinking
Creativity comes from curiosity
Focus comes from passion to do despite continuous setbacks
Let the fears vanish, failures diminish, kindness and passion light up your soul
When you are serious about life you will not waste time 
The Phoenix bird rises from the ashes Every time it burns into ashes by Failures, Betrayal, Hate and vengeance
Bleed, Fight, Conquer - Make a dent set an example for Kindness, Hope and Peace in this world



Keep Going!!!

Day #62 - Mindset of Solving the Life Puzzle for better Humanity

Mindset for life can be both survival and creative mode
Survival mindset makes you keep running / insecurity and fears crop up
Creative mode is a fearless mindset that lets you face *whatever* fails
If you don't learn you may end up struggling in life like x,y,z
If you learn you can give a better life for the people struggling in life
To step out and acknowledge this life beyond self is critical for life
Every problem can be solved with the Creative mindset
Every problem can be avoided with the defensive mindset
We cannot solve the current problems but we can definitely inspire something above the current state that will avoid altogether the current situation
Solve the puzzle of Life in a creative way!!!!

Day #61 - Loneliness, Goals and Retrospection

The days when I felt bad I spent time making others Life better
The days I felt good, I spent time on things I am passionate about
In either way, I want to leave the world with the best possible memories and lessons

You will never be lonely if you are kind, empathetic and have a personal or social cause in Life.

Create beautiful memories from all happy, sad, challenging moments of life

Some people will leave you to regret years later
Some people will regret underestimating the limits of your perseverance and commitment
Some people will not see the kindness and passion but they will label you as a workaholic
Some people will rate you at their levels of imagination
Some people will run over your visibility for their advantage
Skill and Persistence will overrun visibility aspects in the long run
For the world runs on the shoulders of people who carry kindness and love
I am certain I will make an impact on making education easier, understandable and make a difference with AI for social cause soon

Keep Going!!!

The most beautiful pictures

Let go things that is not meant to be with you in your Life


  Keep Learning, Keep Sharing, Someone would find those bits of knowledge useful

Kindness is God


Life is not measured just by money, Its measured by kindness, gratitude and empathy



Look at the positive side of Life


Wish the Best, Keep Learning, Keep Going


Source - Pinterest / Quora / Blogs

Keep Going!!!

Day #60 - Mindful states of life during Hard Times

Signs of Depression
  • Anger
  • Restlessness
  • Not Satisfied with Job
  • Feeling of emptiness
  • No interest / seriousness in commitments
  • No Plans / Goals 
  • Living in Past
  • Holding Grudges
Signs of Mindful State
  • Focused on doing Good
  • Kind to self
  • Open about opinions
  • Go the extra mile with kindness and compassion
  • Committed to self to be better
  • Live well in solitude
  • Make few high quality decisions
  • Mindful and open about creating a positive atmosphere
  • Take the self seriously
  • Constant Learner and Seeker
Its a constant cycle that we seek, understand and keep going forward. Knowing the small states of life and making the right decisions and being comfortable with your perspectives, views. Have the views clear, logical and data driven.

Extract the pattern for life which makes meaningful and thoughtful life.

Keep Going!!!

Day #59 - Phoenix

Phoenix
Rising from the ashes
Burning from failures
Crying with the regrets
Dying with the memories
You are the Phoenix
Your kindness is the rebirth
Your Kindness is the forgiveness
Your kindness is the god
Carry on my son
Spread the kindness and love

Phoenix Mindset
The one who burns thyself and finds the self from failures
The one who forgives for everything that hurt the self
The one who can tolerate maximum stress and pain and still move forward
The one who can give kindness in return to hate
The one who can give optimism for pessimism
The one who goes beyond the flowers of love and stones of hate thrown at him




Keep Playing, Keep Going!!!

Day #58 - Life - Don't run - Face it even if you fail

As long as you struggle - You won
As long as you don't give up your values - You survive
As long as you forgive - You find the god in small deeds
Don't run from darkness - Fight for the Light
The winning moment of Life is not defined by titles, money, Its the feeling of being able to express, live the way you feel
Stay curious, Stay Kind, Keep Fighting!!!!

A little note of appreciation I received for my AI volunteer work.



Keep Going!!!

My vision of Budget

This will never happen anytime, just a thought

  • Government schools will be increased by 10%, Close private schools by 2030
  • The Medical Tariff will be fixed standard for all hospitals (private hospitals)
  • Increase Electric Vehicle markets by 30%, All Automobile manufacturers have to manufacture 30% only electric vehicles
  • Top 10% items which have to be locally innovated (Tasked to top institutions)
  • Medical Innovations and Products targeted to be launched for these top 10 high cost drugs
#Keepthinking

The Road Ahead

I may not be an expert but again you can always question the way system works when the results are not effective

  • Number of innovations coming from grassroots reflects the measure of quality education
  • The morality factor of the acts/deeds from young minds
  • The day when education and medicine are part of Government (Why do we need to pay for private sectors so much for education)
  • Do not create paper-based experts, Encourage the curriculum for Learning / Sharing / Experimenting
  • Only when education reaches the grassroots then only innovation will come

Keep Thinking!!!

Day #57 - Beautiful little things in LIFE


  • Positive affirmation - Always affirm yourself on your failures and setbacks. Detail and document the small new perspective to look the same things in a different newer perspective. When you find the lesson you build a better strategy for success
  • Talk less - Never explain more of your opinion to people who give you negative vibes and negative energy. Over a period of time, we know the vibes when we connect with someone. We cannot cut every tie but we should know where to build a safe boundary
  • Gratitude and Kindness - Enjoy the little things and give positive energy to everyone you meet in your life. The small acts of kindness leave positive vibes in others
  • Be your own leader - Measure yourself against yourself. This is very important for both the emotional and moral compass
  • Be ready to leave - Beauty of life is we do not know the moment of death. Having a feeling of satisfaction of life, a sense of doing some good, leaving a lesser negative vibe in the world is all that we can leave the world. Don't be kind during the last day of life. Be kind every day!!!
  • Never kill the child in you - Always be curious, eager to learn
  • Build long term success - Focus on long term steady habits, consistent patterns, building a stronger portfolio from your inherent traits, beliefs

Keep Going!!!

Highway and Ghost Rider

The beauty and the beast is back in the road. Its a nice feeling to retrospect, look back and remember the success and mindfulness after so much struggles. Indeed every struggle is worth testing your values and your perseverance.

Past few months have been transformational. I really liked today's lecture. Be so good that they can't ignore you.

A bit of Ilayaraja and a bit of moonlight, passing cars, late night chat with coffee day folks. Good to know the other side of life after sunset.

Live life with focus and clarify. Here is my best and my ghost Rider.



Keep going!!!
"Fight for you. Believe in you. Bleed. Cry. Conquer - Dan Waldschmidt"