Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts

Parenting and Online Activity

 


Stay Safe!!! 

Parenting in Digital Age

  1. Watch if your kid is being bullied online / offline
  2. Watch if they are on any drugs / Chocolates that they were given in their circles
  3. Monitor their social media usage
  4. Watch out for their late-night activity
  5. Have a tab on their belongings / if they have any unwanted items
  6. Sense if they have some nervousness/change of behavior
  7. Extreme aggression/anger spot out defensive mechanism
  8. Skipping meals or avoiding interactions
  9. Frequent expenses and reasons to leave home
  10. Recurring health issues / odd sleeping patterns
  11. Discourage them from spending time on fashion/beauty/mindset toward beauty addiction
Be a good friend for them to share and be authentic and express their fear/beliefs/insecurity. Movies / social media have given many wrong examples, Parents need to explain them / help them to be clear to spot bad from what looks to be good.

Keep a Watch, and Be an Online Secure parent as well!!!





Parenting in 2021

 

  • Observe closely if any behavior changes
  • Teach them about good touch / bad touch
  • Avoid excess smartphone usage
  • Monitor their online activities
  • Discuss reported issues/ abuse and make them understand Awareness of surroundings
  • Provide guidance, alert them, situational analysis
  • Proper sex education and awareness of their hormonal changes
  • Today everything is on smartphone both good and bad
  • Provide better guidance 
Happy Parenting!!!

Parenting in 2020

What I knew when I was 25, Kids of today know @ 15 only. Today there are more ways to know things that were once called a taboo. Parenting today is much more challenging and needs a different level of relationship with kids.

You need more open discussions on different topics.

Emotional Guidance
  • Failures
  • Focus
  • Setting goals
  • Values vs Goals
  • Emotional breakdown
Education
  • Positive parenting
  • Staying focused on education 
  • Building your expertise
  • Spotting your interests
  • Preparing your professional life
  • Importance of Self Education
Sex education
  • Acceptance of hormonal changes
  • Awareness of good touch bad touch
  • Love vs lust
Handling Social Media
  • How to use social media
  • How not to use social media
  • Bullying awareness
  • Reporting bully
  • Handle media with caution
Relationships
  • Handling breakups
  • Maturity of Relationship
  • Building successful relationships
Drugs
  • Drugs vs emotional breakdown
  • Real-Life Situations of crisis with Drugs
Being a friend is more important for open discussions than being a parent.


Keep Thinking!!!

The notion of Sex Education

How do we explain kids about a relationship, sex, and about right/wrong things? With a ton of porn, movies influencing teen love stories, predators, abusers around it becomes, even more, tougher to explain them right/wrong things. How to identify good touch / bad touch.

When you punish an offender, you need to look at the root cause or reason behind such thinking. The wrong portrayal in movies, a lot of porn around influence the kids.

Time to think!!!

Parenting - Good Tips

Read David Schneider's answer to What are some books or sources for raising very skilled and intelligent children? on Quora
"Fight for you. Believe in you. Bleed. Cry. Conquer - Dan Waldschmidt"