Morality

Few things that come up often these days in news channels are
  • Child abuse
  • Violence against women
  • Suicides
Child abuse - People in close family circles, neighbors, familiar circles are the offenders, Even kids of 14~16years. How self-critical are we about sex education. What awareness have we created? With a lot of digital access, it becomes even easier to misinterpret/fall prey to lust. 

Morality - Does morality mean all limits are only within my family? Why don't I see them as my siblings/child as a child? This related to upbringing, Everything is part of life. Why shy away from talking about Sex and then be silent towards these crimes. Its time to talk about what we need to correct than assuming all is well.

What we can't do for our near and dear ones we should not do it for any stranger
Do the right thing even if no one is watching

Violence against women - This is a cascade effect of unemployment, job loss, financial crisis leads to dowry demands, crisis in relationships. How the economy is built fundamentally reflects the failures. The mindset to live with perspectives of planning, learning, saving is not there. We are prone to celebrations, showoffs, debts, and living for the sake of society. 

Suicides - Everything has become instant. Changing relationships, Changing principles. Emotional maturity, handling failures/rejections, and resilient mindset seem absent among the masses. Life does not become secure with wealth. Life becomes secure with the right mindset and attitude. 

I know I am imperfect, I am correcting myself. I will keep correcting until my last moment of Life. Stay Kind, Stay Curious!!!

Mindset - I can employ child labor as it does not affect my children. They have to work because they can't afford education
Problem - You cannot go far if you go alone. What if a doctor dies inside a child unable to afford education


Mindset - I studied, I am rich. I can afford it. His karma makes him be in Poverty
Problem - With Equal opportunities in education, we can afford to empower, uplift people. Poverty reflects the failure of the system.


Mindset - These people have no values, their upbringing is bad
Problem - Alcoholic, Dropouts reflect the poor system. The current system that fosters the best and uproots the under-privileged results in a widening gap of skillsets, employability


Mindset - Everything is in accordance with the law, We follow the law
Problem - Law of humanity is more important than the law of land. Nature has a way to balance inequality in due course.


Mindset - We are easy to judge than thinking about fellow people
Problem - Everything boils down to morality, don't tag it with religion



Mindset - I am a mute spectator, I don't need to worry about it
Problem - We have to grow together or perish together, We need a system that helps peaceful coexistence



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Hope we recognize our flaws and start correcting them!!!

How do you evaluate your Leader

  • How much they know about the history of people?
  • What is their view of economy vs social inclusiveness?
  • How do they plan to eliminate poverty? What is their view? What are the best practices they have observed or emulated from other examples?
  • How is their knowledge with respect to economic prosperity vs social prosperity?
  • How do they see education at the grassroots?
  • How self-critical are they? How much of actions vs results match?
  • How do you access yourself vs your achievements?
  • What is their Lifestyle, How does it reflect their beliefs?
  • How empathetic they are, How they connect with people without Digital Media?
  • What is their created PR picture vs actual personal traits?
  • What data points you have to access their actual competency?
  • How much they can independently connect with intellectuals, advisors, economists
  • You cannot create a vision if you haven't traveled the path of  learning, compassion, empathy, kindness, and inclusiveness
  • How much are we comfortable to accept the truth, A society that drifts away from the truth will drift away from values. 
  • Good leaders don't need PR, education, advertisements. Their values are shown in results. They see the good for tomorrow. They see the need for equality, empowerment, and development.
  • How much they are ready for an Open Debate, Leaders who read papers are paupers of knowledge 
  • The pen is mightier than a sword, Education will give awareness that violence cannot provide
To create your new identity, find leaders you need to be data-driven. You need to find your own knowledge to find the truth.

Leadership is a position of kindness and compassion. Being self-critical means I am accountable for everything that hurts my people. It is impossible to celebrate achievements because it requires a billion dreams, developing talent, working tirelessly. Everything that works comes after a lot of effort, today in the digital world everything is captured. The future will always have to reflect current achievements vs reality impact.

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meritocracy is not only false: it’s bad for you

I have been stumbled upon this assumption for a long time. It took me 4 decades to observe, assume, interpret, experience to arrive at

meritocracy does not measure creativity
meritocracy does not measure innovation
meritocracy is a measure of the speed of solving the problem
meritocracy is a measure of awareness of concept in a comparative fashion
Number of toppers will not equal the number of innovations

To become an expert in developing solutions, We need to do a lot of
  • Experimentation
  • Learning
  • Deep Dive
  • Passion
  • Continuous learning mindset
Growth should be measured in terms of 
  • Inclusiveness
  • Collective Learning
  • Growth-oriented mindset
Merely clearing an exam / acquiring degrees with good scores is not a measure of knowledge. 
Found a good article than compliments my beliefs and thoughts

Key Notes from the article
  • Race / Religion / Caste is a lottery of birth
  • Hereditary aristocracy is a measure of social position
Key Quotes from the article
  • "meritocracy makes people more selfish, less self-critical and even more prone to acting in discriminatory ways"
  • "simply holding meritocracy as a value seems to promote discriminatory behavior"
  • "meritocracy licenses the rich and powerful to view themselves as productive geniuses."
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Social Media - Bias - Psychological Impact

This line - "Hurting people at Scale" from article caught my attention.

My perspective is
  • We have moved away from looking at things from the Data perspective
  • Taking Sides becomes easier than thinking
Some recent trends/impact we observe
  • Rate of the speed of news spread both positive/negative news
  • Uncensored contents
  • Hate posts / contents
  • Anyone who is famous can post anything without validation. History can be erased/rewritten
  • Data Scandals, Personalized targeted political ads
The line from the article summarizes - "I think Facebook is hurting people at scale". From being a platform positive impact it has moved everyone towards bias and ignorance/arrogance.

Economical Impact
This article -  mentions how Facebook runs the entire online buying economy in Bangladesh. Used for a commercial purpose is much better than become a biased news media.

People's Perspective
Even a common man feels social media has a lot more power, influence in politics. Link

Impact of Online Reviews
How a few negative online reviews early on can hurt a restaurant
  • Publish after a certain threshold met
  • Publish only nearby locations
My Perspectives (Paid reviews / Fake reviews can also hurt any business both positively and negatively)

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Tweets to Think








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Living in memories

Sometimes living in happy memories is better than planning for future
I was never behind the lusty aspect of relationships. Admiration, compliment, trust and the spark that ignites is what defines a relationship
Blurry personal and professional life. Almost gave up on the personal front
In a matter of a few years will settle down in some remote part of the country
At some point in life, you have to give up your identify and live in nature

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Battle within the Self

Some personal things should not stop your life to support of Struggle of people who are not yet there in terms of good quality of life, affordable education.

The larger purpose of life should always stand out than personal success. We are in a world where there is a fear to accept the truth.

Things we need to fight - Racism, Superstitions, Poverty
Things we should not fight for - Borders, Walls, Supremacy
Things we should support - Sharing Water, Affordable Innovation
Things we should improve - Healthcare, Education
Things we need to reduce - Monopoly, Profit mindset vs Affordable products
Things we should  focus to invest in - Education, Literacy, Medicine, Infra Development, Renewable power
Things we should not invest - Bombs, Fighter Jets, Nuclear Weapons

We cannot succeed by seeing the blood of our opponent or killing their family. We are successful when we can recognize and understand humanity beyond barriers of religion, language, culture.

Short term profit personal gains are looked to compromise on means of living. This tweet made me feel the issue. Afraid of sharing opinions because we will be judged.

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Fighting till Death

Rich people commit suicide when their ambitions fail
Poor people commit suicide when they can't repay loans
Students when they fail exams lookup for suicide as an option
When relationships fail suicide is seen as the next option

The biggest wealth in life is mental resilience, optimism, grit, and persistence. We are modeled on success but we should be modeled on resilience. Work towards an intelligent life, satisfying life, do more than what you get paid for. Remember if you have to choose between being right or kind, chose to be kind.

Spread optimism, positivity, and hope.


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Key Lessons from Suvarillatha Sithirangal

I have not analyzed old Tamil movies. Last night ended up watching a poignant tale that highlights poverty + unemployment + love + prostitution.



Some key lessons

  • Marring a wrong partner and ending up jobless with kids
  • For a living, the mother ends up in prostitution. When you are unskilled, flesh trade becomes one of the means of living. Education and living on your own are key. 
  • Women can be easily exploited if they are not clear about the environment and people they connect with
  • Before you propose a girl you should be financially stable
  • Very negative portrayal but agreed with the ending. They committed suicide than getting back to prostitution. Focus on efforts, change of place, migrate and find jobs should have been attempted
  • Life can be negative as you think or positive as you wish. Everything is born and ends in mind
  • One particular scene where between Sudhakar and his fiancee says I don't have anything to share except my body. For the rich, it's a pleasure. In a way, it gave very raw emotions of limits of poverty
  • Poverty is a curse. Education is the cure for poverty. All the caste/race/religion that preserves this setup and exploitation needs to be systemically cut through with proper antibiotics called education and affirmative actions
  • Everyone who tries to help is portrayed as jobless. This is very unfortunate
  • Overall it sums up gender equality = race equality = educational equality. Without these three it's not going to be inclusive growth
  • For the rich going to a prostitute is a pleasure. Poor people end up doing prostitution for earning. Not getting proper education can easily end career choices and end up in a pathetic situation
  • We cannot justify anything that is immoral. As the old saying lust, land, wealth will take the greed till death
  • Life has different perspectives and it takes a moment to slip. You need to think, analyze, plan and live
  • Help to achieve quality education, be a source of optimism, faith, and hope. Understand everyone we meet is fighting a hard battle in their life.

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Deadliest Enemy

The deadliest enemy in the world is not two countries or two states or two companies. Fundamentally it starts with two neighbours. Over the years I have observed a lot of enmities, jealousy only by comparison and fighting over boundary walls.

If two neighbours have so much enmity the same will boil up to countries. If you have a good neighbour you are blessed. If you have a troublesome neighbour you are getting prepared to face the world.

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Creativity




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How long relationships will come ?

If it comes for money it will go once the money is over
If it comes for lust it will go after the pleasure
If it comes for attraction it will fade when the attraction is over
If it comes for timepass it will go once it finds a new spot
If it is built on selfishness it will leave one person orphaned any time
If it is built on the convenience it will hop when it finds next level upgrade
Relationships for Sex, Money, Drugs, Alchohol are quickest ways to send you on a speedy path to death
If it has a purpose, plan, thought then it will get into the debate, discussion, differences mode
Accepting truth and working on it is harder to accept but that is the only way to sustain
It's hard to accept the facts but it's even harder to reap the consequences after making a mistake.
What goes around will come back. Don't play with people. Be genuine and clear in your decision's 
Part with true reason and Intentions. Remember holding guilt is the biggest punishment till death

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Education is the path for Equality

Society has a different mix

Population Stats
  • Race / Religion / Caste - A - 30%
  • Race / Religion / Caste - B - 30%
  • Race / Religion / Caste - C - 20%
  • Race / Religion / Caste - D - 20%
Economic mix
  • Race / Religion / Caste - A (High Class - 40%, Middle Class - 30%, Lower Middle Class - 30%)
  • Race / Religion / Caste - B (High Class - 10%, Middle Class - 50%, Lower Middle Class - 20%)
  • Race / Religion / Caste - C (High Class - 50%, Middle Class - 30%, Lower Middle Class - 10%)
  • Race / Religion / Caste  - D (High Class - 10%, Middle Class - 30%, Lower Middle Class - 60%)
The representation of each Race / Religion / Caste across the political/social/economic mix at various levels only can contribute to inclusive growth.

Something that media represents is not always the truth.


Understand the Support needed to bring them onboard with Sufficient measure on education / Jobs

  • Power of control vs interest to grow vs available opportunities
  • Openness, acceptance, and work on it 
  • Rise above differences 
Poverty


What is the meaning of Social Justice



Why Should I Care?


I don't have an opinion? I stay neutral 




Keep Thinking, Educate, Empower and achieve Social Justice

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When to be guilt free on failed relationships

You accept your mistakes
Your bridge to make things work fails
You forgive the bad experiences
You are willing to give it a chance
You are able to talk your mind
You stay in your limits but intimate them of your displeasure
You accept the cold shoulders to bridge the gap
You accept you ended up all the chances
You know it's not for you
You know the thin line between respect, courtesy, care and concern 
You understand the emotional turbulence and accept the new normal
What comes easily won't last long (These words remain true for ages)
What last's long won't come easily
I have made a series of mistakes, learnt a lot of lessons, got damaged but managed not to get into curse mode/revenge mode. 
Its okay people are like birds when the season ends they migrate to newer pastures

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Life perspectives

My mom takes care of me more than I deserve. We had a lot of disagreements/perspectives. I think it's beyond certain aspects some people will never let us down no matter how many times we fail their expectations. Someone who is a key driver for my motivation, success is my mom. At some point in life, losing something for people who have always done well for us also seems valid.

Anything that needs approval needs to sustain and pass both with time and patience. Disagreement is fine, but patience is key. Finding the right relationship is patience winning over disagreements.

If you don't have such traits go with your parent's choice. In the end, take help when you can't spot your match.

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My Perspectives

There is no dream life or dream partner. What we didn't get we may feel lost heaven but life removes many things in relationships for you to survive and do better things. A lost relationship should be a good warning for future relationships, not an everlasting regret. Keep going. Plan your life or it will end where you don't want to be.


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Different directions


  • Experimenting PyTorch papers
  • Implementing in Kubernetes
  • Expertise on custom models yolov5, yolov4
  • Porting in GCP
  • Edge device expertise 
Expertise vs Experience vs Exposure :)


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Becoming better with Failures

  • Remember it
  • Regret and apologize for your mistakes
  • Retrospect for lessons
  • Aware and do not repeat it
  • Do not live in the past
  • Move on with a better version of Self 
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My Learning's

About myself

Where I could not accept it?
  • Lack of empathy
  • Lies
  • Betrayal

Where I struggle during some situation
  • Always being too nice
  • Always think from solving perspective than going forward
  • More empathy sometimes and less practical sometimes
  • Emotional mind vs heart in decisions
  • Building bridges and breaking myself
Sometimes you break yourself by building bridges / repairing bridges. Bridges that broke me gave a cascade effect on my life. Maybe I started feeling it's okay to break bridges.

Never give anyone pain for the time they shared in projects, life, friendship. Be loyal or walk away but don't live on parasite friendships or relationships. 

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Good Thought


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"Fight for you. Believe in you. Bleed. Cry. Conquer - Dan Waldschmidt"