Notes for Life

 

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Life vs Time vs Health

Health is more important than everything
Sometimes silence is the better answer than trying to prove your point
You cannot win in a Team when there is a lot of mistrust
Do not put your time and effort into convincing everything
Sometimes you need to stop earning to start learning and living
Above all, prioritize your mental health and peace

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Emotions of Life

 Life is not easy when dealing with conflicting emotions. We do not want to go against opinions but at the same time, it's hard to suppress emotions. After several failures, it becomes so hard to trust people. All the smiles may not carry the same intentions. If everyone's faces reflect their heart will know the true beauty of life. Life seems much easier when you are alone. Everyone wants you to be better but not better than them. Lust / Greed / Money all are traps for bigger failures. Earning money does not make me happy. Doing work I like to do and earning from it makes it meaningful. Marriage is not a solution but a step forward if you have like-minded thinking. Life is sometimes puzzling, sometimes a mystery, sometimes pain, sometimes pain becomes a pleasure. At least death serves as a solution for everything. When no one remembers you after death as 'How bad he was' that is all that we need in Life, Not to be remembered. Neither exploit nor yet exploited. Just vanish in the air. Keep Life Simple.

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Be curious, Be fearless

You are not your marks
You are not your grades
You are not your titles
You are your opinions
You are your thinking
You are your ability to connect the dots
You are your kindness
You are your beliefs subtracted by guilt
Equate yourself against yourself for yourself to be a better self
Look for sunshine, Go where you grow, Grow where you go
Leave a smile wherever you go

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Life in 3 Videos

Tell the children about the hard work of the parents. pic.twitter.com/ZuPluOIJli

— Dr. R. Stalin IPS (@stalin_ips) April 21, 2023

 

Pro-programmed Life

• Have a Family - Don't question society
• Home - Own Home - TV - LED - Home theatre
• School - PVT school - IIT JEE
• Beach - Restaurant - Shopping - Movie 
• Keep Shopping endlessly for dress - clothing
• Programmed to spend money
• Ads everywhere digital addictions - offers - promotions
• More money vs Means of earning vs Lavish Lifestyle
• Status based on money

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Thoughts for Life

What happens after Death ? - Same thing that happened before our birth

What remains after our Death? - Memories and how people remember us, Our writings, our works, our opinions

What lives after our death? - Our lineage, kids, relatives, how your genes are living through your children and passed on to the next generation

What are you trying to say? - This random moment could be the moment where you can forget your worries, this could be the moment you take care of your loved ones. Today never returns. Live your best. It's okay to be simple, Be happy 

3 Lessons Writing Taught Me About Life

The best advice I never got (for a technical career)

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Good Read - Character and Life

• Look at who they marry - choice tells you about their own innermost longings, expectations, and needs
• How they treat service workers - reliable indicators of trustworthiness that you will find. 
• Experiences formed their character in early life - who people really are and how they might act in difficult situations.
• Invest their two most valuable resources - time and money are far more precious than words.
• Identify what irritates people the most - Cheaters always gripe that others are dishonest
• Can they listen? - Great listeners possess extraordinary skills of awareness and comprehension.
• If they cheat at small things, they will cheat at big things. - Watch out for the small things, and the big things will take care of themselves.
• Watch how they handle unexpected problems - situations are precisely when their character and core values come to the forefront.

Ref - Link

My Views

• Data driven opinion
• Accept faults, don't pretend perfect
• Learning is skill, saving is skill, investing is skill
• Accept what is lost, tradeoff is life
• What is negotiable, What is non-negotiable red flags
• How do you handle betrayal 
• Health matters for good skills
• Habits matter for outcomes
• Maturity is knowing you will not do even if the situation tempts you to do as you know the consequences of it

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Home = Good Food = Good Health = Work vs Life

I don't feel I am a good son. I need another birth to be a good son. Many times I am a good employee, not a good son. I need to take a break from work and take care of my Mom. 

At home, I had no need for food or chores. I worked and kept on focusing on my stuff. Am I a good son? No.

I missed my life focusing on work. I don't remember how many days I took time to take care of my mom. 

Work with Life, What's the point. This guilt will haunt me till my death.

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Emotional Stress

Sometimes feels death is better than being alive
Live alone than Live with someone who is not of your mindset
Respect boundaries. Leave alone than fight
Living in a betrayal environment, Death is much better
The most cruel world with hidden intentions
Money, Money, Money that all matters

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Perfection and Passion

As Steve Maraboli said –

“Cemeteries are full of unfulfilled dreams… countless echoes of ‘could have‘ and ‘should have‘… countless books unwritten… countless songs unsung… I want to live my life so that when my body is laid to rest, it will be a well needed rest from a well-lived life, a song well sung, a book well written, opportunities well explored, and a love well expressed.”

Translating it

"Get good at what you do so that you almost know every bit of it and don't feel it's your work. Love what you do if you can't find your true passion. Be good at anything you do..."

Good Read - Link

Education is rarely about doing. It's mostly about thinking

One day we realize that all this time flew polishing details while the important points, those bringing real value, are not even started.

Stop trying to connect all the dots ahead of time. Embrace uncertainty and start doing.

"You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life." - Steve Jobs

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Life is short

 

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Regrets / Mistakes / Gratitude

Sometimes it's best to ignore than to respond
Sometimes its best to see what others don't see
Sometimes good intentions can be kept quiet by someone who cannot understand
Sometimes its better to forget than to carry with you
Sometimes it's best to remember good days than regret bad days
Somes a good food and a few hours of sleep is all we need
Life is short, Forget and Live now...

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Growth vs Titles vs Experience vs Experiments

Never judge a book based on the cover
Never judge a person based on his title

Knowledge vs Title vs Experience vs Exposure are totally different
Even if you are good, if you are not in the growth environment you may be stagnant

When you are in a rocket vs you are on a passenger train both will decide your pace of growth

Go where you grow
Grow where you go

Be better than Yesterday
Be Teachable to stay Employable

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Review 2021

No Travel mere few kilometers 5 to 10 kms drive
Average of 10 hours of work minimum
Every day runs around open items for next day, next week
More of Work from same room not even work from home
Tea was almost lunchtime food most days
Some days fried rice and late-night ginger tea
Single again for long time
Time goes, Life goes...
Emotions become silent at some point in time
Boomer uncle or Boomer adult :(
Crazy Life :(

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Happy mothers day without any wishes

Yes I don't think I can ever compensate anything in words

Relationships break

Friends come and go

Siblings fight

People come and go

The most tolerant person in my life is my mom only

The most unkind/selfish I would not hesitate to accept I am

I was a bit unwell, A friend of mine prescribed some medication

Above all, I was feeling health going down. I managed to come back home. It was purely my ego to cook, eat, survive on my own. In a way stupidity in emotions. I am better now recovering. I feel regretful for every death I hear. Death takes away the dreams, promises, the hope of many people. Stay safe, Break the chain. Support each other emotionally. Be less guilt-filled and less regretful. More than death how to be a source of kindness, optimism matters. 

Let all this heal, we become more kind, optimistic, and supportive.

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World - The Good / The Bad

 

 

   

 

Communism❤️ pic.twitter.com/GzbymnNHAx

— Ilayabarathi Ambedkar (@IlayabarathiAm1) June 1, 2021

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Search for Life middle of the struggles

I haven't met happiness from

• Work
• Life

I don't believe anyone is truly good. We have moments of

• Lust
• Jealously
• Happiness
• Sadness
• Patience
• Vengence

The moment where you can hurt but choose not to hurt is maturity. The moment you know your emotional mind takes a decision than proving your point

Drugs, Alcohol, Sex everything is a form of addiction which needs to be monitored. Guilt vs Shame is big baggage to carry till death. Even if no one knows what guilt we carry will certainly kill us one day.

Keeping low baggage is the only way to feel satisfied within us

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Thinking about Life

Sometimes life is just sit down, relax, observe, and do nothing. Do little things with great attention. Never be in control of anything in Life. Let it all go, be happy with learning, experimenting, and traveling.

For property there is GST
For Gold there is GST
For Salary there is Tax
For learning/knowledge there is no Tax

At least to survive in this world you need to be smart enough to have good health, an emotionally balanced mindset, and a good learning acumen.

Life is simple, Live Well!!!

My Life

You have to start living reverse to accomplish what are things I can accomplish with the time I have. Many things we pass through may not come till the end but we need to pass through that to achieve our final destination. Know your destination and understand your priorities to handle your emotions. Don't lose sight of the destination with temporary obstacles.

May 3rd / 2020
Clarity - When death is near the path is very clear. When the time remaining is less than time lived you actually know what are your priorities 

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Lessons for 2020

• Goal-Oriented Milestones every month to reach teaching milestones
• More End to End Projects
• AWS Expertise and End to End Demo projects
• Milestone in personal life with a like midned person
• Better healthy lifestyle

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