Independent Thinking Vs Depression

When you take your own decision and go against the popular, society defined standards you will end up being alone. When you are alone you will have a lot more pressure to find ways to solve your own problems. Our family system is closely connected in many aspects of thinking, caste, *to-do* patterns than follow your own mindset approach.

When you stand alone, you really stand-alone emotionally and you will have to support yourself in all your struggles. It is easy to talk about something and do something. It is difficult to do something against the predefined norms of this society.

To be a loner needs guts, glory and be top of your game. It's not the length of life but what we contribute from our end to make things better for people around us. Be kind that's the only thing you can leave in this world.

Initially, I expected world to be like a cloud 9 situation. I healed from my failures, I stopped expecting answers for the betrayals. There is a level of selfishness and ego in life in every relationship. You may not get the same love in return. It's all fine. Stay kind no matter what. We don't gain anything by manipulating. My failures, success everything is the same. I just need to make sure I impact as many people possible in a positive, can-do way. Hope we create a more thinking generation than a follows the crowd generation.

Stay Kind, Stay Focused, Keep Going.

Analytics in Elections


If Analytics is used to target people, neutralize opinions, create digital impressions. This would lead to the creation of bias. This is not a good use of AI.

Analytics is needed to create affordable health care, forecast economy, provide good insights to develop people, economy jobs. AI should be used in the right sense. AI for politics will benefit in the short term but it is a curse in the long term.

When the truth is neutralized with biased facts the consequences of power with the wrong leaders will be a curse for the future generations

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Multiple Way of Problem Solving

  • Combine multiple non-working solutions to make up a solution
  • Explore in a different perspective
  • There is a specific way of seeing

Keep thinking!!!

Carl Sagan Thoughts

Applies very well to the current state of education
  • Government has a responsibility for making people self-reliant. Able to take care of themselves. 
  • Why we choose to have homeless people, unemployment. This country has vast wealth. Where is education, improve economic standards. We are using the money for the wrong stuff.
  • Kids are very smart, they are not taught practical applications. There are no many jobs that require differentiation, optimization, problem-solving to what is solved in class. 
  • We are not taught science but beliefs. Now we have a conflict of faith vs evidence. Hold your belief until you find sufficient evidence.
  • Ignorance and power will ruin the education system of this country
  • Science is a way of thinking, Ask skeptical questions to find the truth. Science can accept mistakes and move forward but not faith
  • The arms race will make rich people richer


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The bad education system

If I have 100 students in my class, the objective of education is to bring the best out of the 100. There are different aspects of life/ domains. You can make a living out of any skill that you Love. It could be Sports, Science, Engineering, Medicine, Farming, Painting, Travelling, etc. It is endless.

The current system of education that filters the best 10 and trains them to compete against the rest of the world. The system of examination where your thinking is not developed but how fast you solve in pressure is tested. These are man-made flaws in our education system. The beauty of great education system is the one that always keeps you open to problems, thinking, marathon towards solving newer problems.

This marks, scores are not a true measure of intelligence. Newton, Einstein every great person would fail with the Indian System of Education. Education should benefit for Life, not for a job. Education that goes not make you kind, humble, thinking, experimenting is a *waste* education.

Do not get carried away with the rat race. Stay away and give meaning for your Life. Prove that going with the crowd is not always the best decision.


A great scientist, innovator, a social activist will be lost with the multiple-choice based education system. Every failed student is a lost opportunity for the nation. We are a failed nation if we are not able to educate at scale. Education is for Life not for Job.

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The notion of Sex Education

How do we explain kids about a relationship, sex, and about right/wrong things? With a ton of porn, movies influencing teen love stories, predators, abusers around it becomes, even more, tougher to explain them right/wrong things. How to identify good touch / bad touch.

When you punish an offender, you need to look at the root cause or reason behind such thinking. The wrong portrayal in movies, a lot of porn around influence the kids.

Time to think!!!

Life after Death

I have a very limited set of folks whom I talk to. Last night I was discussing how many people will remember me if I am dead today.

My office folks for a few days
My friends for a few months
My Siblings for few years
My mom for Lifetime

In the end, nothing is going to stop. Everything will continue to evolve and change. We are here only for a short time in this world. Life in one way appears fearful and virtual. In the end, we don't live forever. Being uncomfortable, able to think curiously, living up for some good is all we can end up doing in Life.

A lot of things are wrong, more than what we interpret, the way things are designed to think this way are more. To free from the clutches of influence and think independently is a key trait. 

Life is just learning every day with the uncomfortable questions which are part of learning. I wish everyone a bit of patience, faith, and persistence. We are all running busy without doing any good to people around us or for us. Slow down, pause. This is just a transition. Make life a little meaningful...

Keep Going!!!

Balancing Emotions and Happy Memories

When someone leaves us it puts us in a lot of emotional trauma. This pain never settles as there are many unanswered questions. We forget the good memories they gave and carry bitter memories. Sometimes solutions depend on areas we focus on. Instead of focusing on the anger and bitter ending. We can better remember the good memories they gave and take it as a note of positive encouragement. We don't leave the world alive in the end. Instead of bitter regrets and heavy heart we can at least forgive whatever possible.

We tend to be a loner not because we intend to but because we prefer to stay in our own line of thoughts. Sometimes happiness is just looking up the sky at night. You don't need to be in a crowd to enjoy your Life.

Keep thinking, Keep Learning!!!

The Web Trap

Escape the Web
  • Facebook wants you to spend more time reading pics, selfies, chats, videos
  • Whatsapp - The message alert for forwards, quotes, timepass conversations
  • Quora - From specific and intellectual platform it has also changed into a form of a self-promotional platform
  • Youtube - The kind of recommendation that literally provides the same type of content
The whole of mental, emotional health is nowhere in the picture. On top of it the dark side of adult content. All these are doing no good for humanity. More than the good things there is a lot of time wasters/productivity killers.

Quit Everything, Take a walk, Spend time talking to real people and the real world.

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Recollecting old memories

After 17 years I went back to my College. It has been a memorable and special moment with a lot of memories. My since thanks to my Principal, HOD Saradha Mam, CSE staff of IRTT. My intent is to convey them my perspectives for career, life and getting better at knowing self, become more self-aware.

1. Read about architecture from highscalability.com
2. Write a simple app for few users, Pickup next task to scale it for 100, 1000 users
3. How do I design a recommendation system, Pick a paper, work on it and connect it to your use case
4. Read latest tech news from hackernews, Techcrunch and understand what market demands
5. Get familiar with code management tools git etc..
6. Read a bit on frameworks, concepts, hosting your own portals, own apps, games, etc
7. Get better at one thing, Focus on it for many years to Master it and Keep Learning, Be your own competition

Many thanks to IRTT CSE Staff and Students for this opportunity

Guilt

There are two kinds of Guilt in Life. Type1 - You know and people around you know you made the mistake and you regret it. Type2 - You only know you made the mistake and you didn't share with anyone. It is better not to accumulate both these type of Guilts. In the end feeling of Guilt is the worst punishment in Life.

Better live a simple life and pass away than trying to prove others your point. Live well with fewer regrets and guilt

Keep Going!!!

Leave it before it destroys you

Sometimes people leave you because they cannot handle the problems and pressure you handle
Every relationship comes with loads of expectations and zero sacrifices to make it work
Everything is fancy like in the movies and songs but the reality of life is different
Living on your own beliefs needs guts, boldness and hard work
The world is easy for people who follow the crowd and hard for people who are outliers
In the end, Life is an experience not a result of an Exam
Let go everything, Let it all go. 
Stay Kind, Stop looking at closed doors, move on with your Life!!!

Perspective of Decisions

When someone is not able to explain the rationale behind the decision it is hard to interpret the perspective. When things come down from elders as 'I feel this is not right'. It's hard to digest without a rational explanation of things. Do we need to play safe or Do we need to be rational?

No decision comes without the risk of failure. If we always play safe we will never learn the experiences/challenges. Sometimes you remain as an outlier/anomaly.

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Memories

Sometimes we look back at history to recollect and remembers some good memories. When we are lost in the present we look back and remember the past. The irony is this situation makes us feel both past and present is lost. Everything happened for a reason. Leave the regrets and take the lessons.

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Challenges Vs Staying Strong

When a challenge knocks you down. There are two options accept it and stop progressing or fight it. You may win or lose or find some other problem but yes there are more opportunities than just giving up. Struggle, Fail but do not give up. It's your life and its ending one moment at a time. Keep Fighting.

Keep Going!!!
"Fight for you. Believe in you. Bleed. Cry. Conquer - Dan Waldschmidt"