When you take your own decision and go against the popular, society defined standards you will end up being alone. When you are alone you will have a lot more pressure to find ways to solve your own problems. Our family system is closely connected in many aspects of thinking, caste, *to-do* patterns than follow your own mindset approach.
When you stand alone, you really stand-alone emotionally and you will have to support yourself in all your struggles. It is easy to talk about something and do something. It is difficult to do something against the predefined norms of this society.
To be a loner needs guts, glory and be top of your game. It's not the length of life but what we contribute from our end to make things better for people around us. Be kind that's the only thing you can leave in this world.
Initially, I expected world to be like a cloud 9 situation. I healed from my failures, I stopped expecting answers for the betrayals. There is a level of selfishness and ego in life in every relationship. You may not get the same love in return. It's all fine. Stay kind no matter what. We don't gain anything by manipulating. My failures, success everything is the same. I just need to make sure I impact as many people possible in a positive, can-do way. Hope we create a more thinking generation than a follows the crowd generation.
Stay Kind, Stay Focused, Keep Going.
