I am going through some training. I always think multiple times and not to hurt the person. But this kind of results in piled up, trying to be more cautious. By being more candid and open we can convey the point than trying to be waiting for an opportunity.
Before and after the exercise some of my teammates evaluated my behavior. Before the exercise what do they feel I was, After the exercise what do they feel I am
- Disconnected,connected
- Closed, open
- Observant , Expressive and honest
- Silent, Expressive
- Observant, Pure
- Shy, Expressive
- Artificial, Honest
- Closed, open
- Disconnected, authentic
- Silent listener, Brave
- Made up, Authentic
- Silent, Authentic
- Guarded, Authentic
- Politically right, Damn authentic from heart
- Reserved, Opened up
- Observing, open
- Curious, Candid
- Authentic
- Beautiful heart and smiling face, Struggling to express
- Observer, Self-analyzing
- Observant, Expressive and honest
- Silent, Expressive
Sometimes we suppress our emotions and we end up hurting others.
Love more, be kind, be focused.
I need to be more expressive than suppressing my emotions. Be open/vocal and clear.
Keep Going!!!
I pitched for my startup ideas
I did training/freelancing
I traveled alone
I spent most of my time alone
I documented my emotions
I tried alcohol - I hate it, It doesn't solve anything
Cry out loud, Feel the pain, Get out of it
Productivity / Happiness will not the be same every day. It's ok for some days to be empty / zero your efforts. Relax / Think / Be Happy.
Just be your best buddy!!!
"Success limited my perspectives
Failure gave me newer opportunities
Failure is a bitter friend
Success is a Sweet Poison"
"Intelligent People do politics
Average People Keep Working and Keep Learning"
Last two days are memorable days to share my learning's in terms of Data Bases, Data Evolution to NoSQL, Big Data and sharing all my lessons. Vibrant and Enthusiastic Participation. Grateful to IPL and my students.
"At last I have gathered enough memories to forget the scars"
Thank you, my dear Participants, Wishing you the best.
Keep Learning, Keep Going!!!
My Writings :)
Keep Going!!!!
The beauty of life is change. Change means you need to be aware and alert about the present. Living in the present moment needs both emotional and intelligence applied to current situation. Emotional understanding is the balance between expectations and realistic outcomes. Intelligence is the knowledge applied to emotion with an empathetic perspective. Keep making small improvements to see the shining start one day!!!!
Success is built on failure. Failure is built on success. Everything overlaps again and again until new strategies evolve in life. You have to learn to differentiate long term and short term people in your life. What comes easy won't last long. What lasts long won't come easy and that's life.
Probably I have realized and understood life a little better. The three things we search in life are goals, relationships, God. Goals serve is financially. Relationship serves us emotionally. When both have issue God comes to the rescue. The underlying things is empathy and kindness. Life is built on set of values to give proportionate happiness and success. True happiness does not look happy from outside rather it is very eternal and private. This moment to think with clarity and able to see, predict is factual and realistic moment of life!!!
At some point in life, you develop a strong aversion for people who put you down, left you in tough situations. What doesn't kill you kills your emotions for the person. You question your emotion to question the logic behind trusting the person. Emotional pain is a life-changing experience. For the giver it's an incident, for the receiver it is a journey through the rebirth of self, killing the logical views accepting the loss as a reality. Oh, life make me numb towards people who killed my emotions. Let there be kindness, hope love going forward in my journey!!!
Writing is the best way to offload your emotions. I have had my moments of success,.failure, loss, optimism, hope, and kindness. Differentiating the care and supporting the arguments is the biggest challenge. Disagree and amicably discuss is something rare to spot and find. Decisions without logic, decisions without clarity, decisions blindly followed, decisions without morality are the greatest dangers in today's life.
This life has no logical answer to emotional pain. Learn to Learn from the pain to find your new self!!!
The human mind is an expectation driven system. Similar to neural networks we make our moves for targets. The inputs and traits are from our beliefs, end goals, people who influence us. Mistakes are important moments in life. They help us to correct, find and become a better version of self. Acknowledging and awareness of our actions is important to understand the process of thoughts and the path of decision making. Being open to our past, willing to learn, correct from past, acceptance and presenting the realistic version of self requires clarity, confidence, and patience. Keep working to come out of all the differences in life and becoming a better version of self!!!
You feel lonely when
- You are not surrounded by truth
- The environment does not reflect beliefs
- When success is not an outcome of efforts rather by connections and contacts
Life has a lot more learning on those days
- Finding yourself in the storm
- Sailing with the hope of finding a shore
- Having the same patience, peace in your actions
Keep going!!!
Some moments of excruciating pain make me feel why to continue to live further. As I age I can feel severe symptoms of bad posture, long working hours, muscle and vein stiffness. If I had this awareness at 20 I would have been more careful with decisions in my life. I want to make something concrete before I reach my half-century. Finding the right person seems like a mirage. I have spent most times only trying to adjust than finding someone who will accept me as I am. If values are so true then we would not see so much of inequality in this world. Oh, life when it's going to be a level playing field.
Keep Going!!!
Learning Strategy
The ingredients of knowledge are learning, reading, writing, communication, experimentation, and presentation. With this constant distraction, I always feel keypads and pre WhatsApp era better than the current generation of real-time messaging. From attention, it has become a life of distractions. With this pace of difference, we may slowly lose fundamentals and thinking aspects and will end up as one click machines.
Emotional Wellness - Growth Oriented Mindset
Analyze and evaluate your activities and thoughts. Gone are days to retrospect as year-end or promises to fulfill. Working backward goals should reflect in thoughts, planning, habits. Every day and every moment class contributes delta to the larger goal.
Load your memory with thoughts that propel towards the end goal. Your emotion is also like a weapon.
As long as you don't pick your right emotions you cannot move in the right direction. Timebox and retrospect every single moment.
Keep going!!!
Anything in life is an experience
Experience for truth requires consistency
Experience of trust needs loyalty
Load your memory with beautiful and kind experiences
Let the peace and kindness guide go...
Keep Going!!!
Time tells what is the truth
Time tells who truly cares
Time tell who keeps promises
Time tells who will come till the end
Time is everything
Test of time decides who parts ways and who stays
Time reminds us of the remaining time
Time is the master that gives rebirth to a better version of self
Today I and my mom were re-arranging things after painting a few rooms. She remembered all conversations related to the purchase of every single item. All the way from my birth plus collecting some memories by looking at my Dad pictures. In the past few years, I always had a lot of differences with my mom. Also, I was never able to meet the right person in my life. I have learned a lot from my mom. I still keep fighting for many things which I differ from her opinion. Sometimes I feel those childhood days are better and blissful.
I am happy for these days at home. I am able to look at life differently outside work. I have to be more kind and planned for life. Many lessons, Many memories, One Life, Make it more meaningful. Keep Going!!!
Thank you, my mom, for tolerating me all these years, You have been the only one for me to look up to for all my bad and good days.
Life is just a collection of moments. To maintain consistency and discipline we need to change our distractions into focus.
- Doing what the present needs - Education / Working
- Working on your mistakes / Areas of Improvements - Growth Oriented mindset
- Taking care of emotional health - Do not let things occupy more space than what they deserve
- Maintaining the Rhythm of Discipline - Timebox activities for Work - Cooking - Cleaning - Walking - Learning - Maintain Relationships
- Becoming the best in your field of Choice - Working on 1% better for every day
Measure yourself against every day and find the change / constant factor and slowly push those that are not required. Embrace change, Optimism, and Kindness.
Life will shine every passing day!!!
Mere Existence does not quantify living. Living means it's bound for a purpose and it serves for a better humanity. Follow the crowd or find yourself are two types of journey. As long as you follow the crowd you will never find yourself. To find yourself, you need to be lost. The true measure of pain, passion, success, failure comes from multiple iterations of failure, repetition, and learning.
Stay Alive, Awake and Present!!!
2012,2017,2018 had been my personal toughest years of Life. I keep learning as I keep failing in meeting the right people in life. A balance of views, education, the mindset is the key. However, when you like someone it is a lot more than just the person. Maturity comes with time and efforts. Nothing comes easy in life. Keep working to meet the right people. Bless the ones who parted ways. Keep working to become the best version of self.
Apart from it, the learning for Masters, Learning at work, Travel and seeing my Neice grow up has been a beautiful part of Life.
Keep Going!!! Trust the Journey!!!
Know yourself and your mistakes
Accept and let go hope
Forgive bad memories but learn lessons
Make yourself important
Be selectively choosy
Have a high bar
Go for character and loyalty
Improve yourself to match the newer thoughts
Keep traveling and find the little things of happiness
What you seek is seeking you
Change yourself and find the one for yourself
Keep Going!!!
