Somethings I have learned with respect to work, skills, meeting people. Coming to choosing right partners, I always chose things that never worked. This is always a debatable topic between me and my mom. She was sure that my choice won't work when I discussed with her. My mom is good at face reading / analyzing the person based on their family. Somehow I pursued things and failed eventually. It sounded right in the end. I was never able to understand people completely or their intuitions. I am happy in one way my trust remained the same. Not everyone will live up to our expectations but that does not change our inherent traits of empathy and kindness.
Such stories and words are there in history 'You too Brutus', 'Judas identified Jesus with a kiss'. Some people will not live up to our trust or their smiles are not real.
Its better to remain kind and empathetic than cunning and cruel. These things hopefully help me in being a better parent. Like you should be raising your kids emotionally strong. When you have two choices of Being Right VS Being Kind chose Being Kind as it also has Being Right perspective.
The deep you fall the tall you raise. Keep Going!!!
Stay Kind, Stay Blessed!!!
Good One - The biology of our best and worst selves
More about psychology and why we think the way we think ? Know the best from history. Kindness trumps everything.
God of small things
Kids teach us a lot in terms of
Whenever I am at home I get a list of -to-do- things from my niece. She is an angel. I have seen her since her 30 days. Her smiles, caring nature will throw away all your travel tiredness. She keeps counting when I will go back home. On every moment the shopping list remains the same
She keeps her calendar busy with drawing, helping my mom in cooking, watching doremon, counting days for me to come back.
Blessed with such small beautiful things in life.
Live well!!!
- Curiosity
- Passion
- Kindness
Whenever I am at home I get a list of -to-do- things from my niece. She is an angel. I have seen her since her 30 days. Her smiles, caring nature will throw away all your travel tiredness. She keeps counting when I will go back home. On every moment the shopping list remains the same
- Grocery
- Ice cream
- Medicine......
She keeps her calendar busy with drawing, helping my mom in cooking, watching doremon, counting days for me to come back.
Blessed with such small beautiful things in life.
Live well!!!
Stopping by woods on a Sunday Evening
And Miles to go before I sleep
And Miles to go before I sleep
And Miles to go before I sleep
Happy Monsoon!!!
Date with monsoon
Setting aside current things in life. A day to look life outside myself. Whats so much abundant but never got in my attention. Leave alone other priorities, people, goals. Date with monsoon.
Happy Travelling!!!
Happy Travelling!!!
Know Thyself
In the quest of knowing the eternity and self learning travelling a few places. I don't believe results will come without my actions. When the un expected happens with expected people it breaks us down to understand more about our decions, choices and beliefs.
In many ways I see the eternal power as a source of mystery. When he can fix all sufferings why let people suffer to learn for whatever their karma is.
I believe in karma as well as rational thought. It takes a lot of maturity to see empathy and kindness in our beliefs and thoughts. The materialistic and opportunistic mindset always toggles decisions and questions live now than being value based.
It's like a balance, once lost it is forever lost. Nature is beautiful in all the places travelled. The people we meet and the prayers for their loved ones also emphasise focus on caring.
Be rational, stay kind that's my religion. God is your friend when I take care of my karma. Do your job with karma right things will come to you.
Some Snaps of Dharmastala & Kukke Subramanya
Happy Travelling!!!
In many ways I see the eternal power as a source of mystery. When he can fix all sufferings why let people suffer to learn for whatever their karma is.
I believe in karma as well as rational thought. It takes a lot of maturity to see empathy and kindness in our beliefs and thoughts. The materialistic and opportunistic mindset always toggles decisions and questions live now than being value based.
It's like a balance, once lost it is forever lost. Nature is beautiful in all the places travelled. The people we meet and the prayers for their loved ones also emphasise focus on caring.
Be rational, stay kind that's my religion. God is your friend when I take care of my karma. Do your job with karma right things will come to you.
Some Snaps of Dharmastala & Kukke Subramanya
Happy Travelling!!!
Freshness in Life
Is this life a dream we are into it ?
Am I losing something by not risking taking enough chances ?
The life I wanted kept changing all during my ages, from school, college, adolescence, mid life. At this juncture it's like journey is half done the rest half of the journey has to be lived well like the first half.
The first half taught what actually is learning, education, skill that pays, values and fundamentals that guides you for your achievement. Now it has come half way, a bit of retrospection and learning, relearning is needed to make the best of rest of journey...........
Am I losing something by not risking taking enough chances ?
The life I wanted kept changing all during my ages, from school, college, adolescence, mid life. At this juncture it's like journey is half done the rest half of the journey has to be lived well like the first half.
The first half taught what actually is learning, education, skill that pays, values and fundamentals that guides you for your achievement. Now it has come half way, a bit of retrospection and learning, relearning is needed to make the best of rest of journey...........
Being myself
Being truthful is a choice
Positive attitude is a choice
Kindness is a choice
Being honest is a choice
Passion is a choice
Sharing is a choice
Being positive is a choice
Letting go and remain calm is a choice
Optimism is a choice
Self love is a choice
Caring is a choice
Being calm during storm is a choice
Happiness is a choice
Respect is a choice
Peace is a choice when war is open
Learning thy-self is a choice
Being content with self is a choice
Being sefless is a choice
Choose your choices wisely
Positive attitude is a choice
Kindness is a choice
Being honest is a choice
Passion is a choice
Sharing is a choice
Being positive is a choice
Letting go and remain calm is a choice
Optimism is a choice
Self love is a choice
Caring is a choice
Being calm during storm is a choice
Happiness is a choice
Respect is a choice
Peace is a choice when war is open
Learning thy-self is a choice
Being content with self is a choice
Being sefless is a choice
Choose your choices wisely
Inequality of Life
I stopped for dinner in a authentic Karnataka restaurant. The food was nice. It had the jawa roti and Karnataka style food. An elderly lady in her 60s was clearing the tables. It's 10pm. She was standing in one corner and watching tables for next cleanup. She was a lean hard working women. If all hardwork pays then why is she struggling at this age and working. I see life after sometime as retirement.
She may be working all along in her life. I wanted to tip her but then I couldn't spot as she was rushing doing her cleanup tasks.
Some people work till the end without seeing the other side of life or retirement life.
If this is all life is meant to be. I wonder hardwork with education gives you enough money. Hardwork without education ends up labour class always struggling to make ends meet.
She may be working all along in her life. I wanted to tip her but then I couldn't spot as she was rushing doing her cleanup tasks.
Some people work till the end without seeing the other side of life or retirement life.
If this is all life is meant to be. I wonder hardwork with education gives you enough money. Hardwork without education ends up labour class always struggling to make ends meet.
The Fire that keeps me burning
At a distance you will find me shining, when you come close you know I am the fire that's burning and you cannot handle the level of passion to share my beliefs and values.
All solo travellers are people busy tied to goals, vision and do something to be proud of. They don't have time to play or manipulate others. They just focus on doing good and being good.
Often good books don't carry beautiful packing. Same holds for beautiful souls carrying tired body and endless ideas to pursue goals.
Happy living!!!!
All solo travellers are people busy tied to goals, vision and do something to be proud of. They don't have time to play or manipulate others. They just focus on doing good and being good.
Often good books don't carry beautiful packing. Same holds for beautiful souls carrying tired body and endless ideas to pursue goals.
Happy living!!!!
Frog in the well mindset
We can only think within the limits of what we know, I believe everything is stereotyped in this society
Education and Intelligence - Getting into a good institution, getting good grades marks intelligence. A stupid way to rate a person. The amount of creative thinking, problem solving, looking at different perspectives is what means a good education.
Relationships - Attention seeking mindsets, Proportionately a lot of causal ones than looking at meaning of life. Relationships should start on a low note, proceed exponentially into a healthy and stronger mode. Its the other way. Attraction, infatuation and finally move for next attraction.
What makes a good life - The worst definition is wealth, looking good in eyes of others.
Where is Knowledge in all this - With so much stereotype fed in our brains all the decisions will be biased and nothing we do will be a reflection of our knowledge. Education without knowledge, Intelligence without wisdom. What a life ?
Parenting - Instead of teaching kids the differences, myths and breaking perceptions we feed in the same garbage what was told to us. Education that does not make you think is not education. We have so many regions but we don't have empathy. Education without morality is all what we are left with.
Emotional Health - How we need to make decisions, What are pros and cons to be thought through. How to make meaningful decisions that gives both peace and happiness for both our self and people around us.
In a world of attention seekers only few people grab attention of soul. All this thoughts bubble up in cab conversations with my colleague.
Unless you keeping learning or you will always remain as Frog in the well stereotyped with assumptions fed in your brain.
Education and Intelligence - Getting into a good institution, getting good grades marks intelligence. A stupid way to rate a person. The amount of creative thinking, problem solving, looking at different perspectives is what means a good education.
Relationships - Attention seeking mindsets, Proportionately a lot of causal ones than looking at meaning of life. Relationships should start on a low note, proceed exponentially into a healthy and stronger mode. Its the other way. Attraction, infatuation and finally move for next attraction.
What makes a good life - The worst definition is wealth, looking good in eyes of others.
Where is Knowledge in all this - With so much stereotype fed in our brains all the decisions will be biased and nothing we do will be a reflection of our knowledge. Education without knowledge, Intelligence without wisdom. What a life ?
Parenting - Instead of teaching kids the differences, myths and breaking perceptions we feed in the same garbage what was told to us. Education that does not make you think is not education. We have so many regions but we don't have empathy. Education without morality is all what we are left with.
Emotional Health - How we need to make decisions, What are pros and cons to be thought through. How to make meaningful decisions that gives both peace and happiness for both our self and people around us.
In a world of attention seekers only few people grab attention of soul. All this thoughts bubble up in cab conversations with my colleague.
Unless you keeping learning or you will always remain as Frog in the well stereotyped with assumptions fed in your brain.
Happy Learning!!!
Keep Your Mind Open!!!
Keep Thinking!!!Types of wealth which leads to "Peace of Mind" :-— LearnLifeWealthTravel (@AnyBodyCanFly) June 15, 2020
1. Financial (Money, Investments)
2. Social (Status, Friends, Family)
3. Time (Freedom, Time for self)
4. Health (Mental, Physical, Immunity)
Build life in such a way that you are wealthy in every category.
A New Beginning
After a lot of travel, different places its a bit of retrospection. Re-prioritize
- Next set of ideas
- Learning Path
- Travel opportunities
Everything happens for a reason, Stay positive. Keep going.
Happy Learning!!!
Different stages of Life
- Find what you love to do in your life
- Take a break and find purpose in life
- Take time to land in true relationships
- Everything happens according to our clock
- Be Patient
- Not being married at 30 and still happy is beautiful
- Don't let anyone rush you with their timelines
- Meaningful, purposeful, fulfilling life matters
Live the time, Make the best, Live Well!!!
All the world is a Stage
I wonder how life would be if god would have felt the pain of
When we lack quality education it ends up creation of generation of educated illiterates. Its a pity how so much amount of propaganda is done for wrong news whereas the right things go unnoticed. The fundamentals of values, quality education are the most important that steps the direction of rest of life. Access to good education is also important. The importance of life / education / money changes from time to time, When you step out and look back you see how far the extremes exists in this world.
The best thing in the world is to teach / educate / help genuinely than faking it.
Stay Alive, Be Kind, Keep going..
Keep Learning and Living!!!
- Not being able to get good education and ending up jobless ?
- Living in 20's uneducated and jobless and wasting life ?
- Situation of not knowing whether I would get next meal ?
- What does god mean to all those who are not able to meet daily needs, Do they deserve such situation ?
- If all the caring/ sharing what religions taught then why would we have so much inequality in this world ?
- Survival vs Living vs Stacked up Society vs What really we achieve in this life ?
- Doing something good for humanity matters above everything, Poor education standards, lack of moral education ends up generations of clueless people, neither knowing how to live to how to learn or how to earn ?
- Wasted education, misguided by movies, driven for money ends up lost opportunities
When we lack quality education it ends up creation of generation of educated illiterates. Its a pity how so much amount of propaganda is done for wrong news whereas the right things go unnoticed. The fundamentals of values, quality education are the most important that steps the direction of rest of life. Access to good education is also important. The importance of life / education / money changes from time to time, When you step out and look back you see how far the extremes exists in this world.
The best thing in the world is to teach / educate / help genuinely than faking it.
Stay Alive, Be Kind, Keep going..
Keep Learning and Living!!!
The daily lesson
It is a constant battle within the self balancing emotions vs practicality. Take chance quit your job and try the things you love to do. Think about the financial commitments and balance them out. If you don't work for your dream you will work for some others dream.
The biggest battle is fighting within our self to outperform ourselves and be the best version of yourself. Loneliness is not being able to do things you love to do but being limited / constrained in our ambitions / goals. We cannot change our-self for the world.
Life has personal, professional, financial and emotional goals. The biggest self realization comes within the self. Success in life means a lot to do with values, principles and less to do with money.
Often you get attention for your material value. This is the fact and irony of life. Broken relationships teach a lot, Broken promises teach a lot. Failed goals teach us a lot. A lot of perseverance in life to keep things going.
Live Well!!!
Live Well today!!!
Stay Focussed!!!
Keep Walking!!!
The biggest battle is fighting within our self to outperform ourselves and be the best version of yourself. Loneliness is not being able to do things you love to do but being limited / constrained in our ambitions / goals. We cannot change our-self for the world.
Life has personal, professional, financial and emotional goals. The biggest self realization comes within the self. Success in life means a lot to do with values, principles and less to do with money.
Often you get attention for your material value. This is the fact and irony of life. Broken relationships teach a lot, Broken promises teach a lot. Failed goals teach us a lot. A lot of perseverance in life to keep things going.
Live Well!!!
Live Well today!!!
Stay Focussed!!!
Keep Walking!!!
On Life Relax Please
Driving helps to focus, pay attention, a form of meditation
Driving with soothing music feeds the soul
Code during the day and drive at night
Driving feeds the soul, World of memories
Time to take next level of risks in Life
Driving with soothing music feeds the soul
Code during the day and drive at night
Driving feeds the soul, World of memories
Time to take next level of risks in Life
Happy Driving!!!
Happy Studying!!
Work Hard!!!
Work Consistently!!!
Stay Focused!!
Live Well!!!
Live Life King Size - Create New Habits to Align with Goals
Summary from the talk
Our brain is programmed to live in comfort zone. We are not programmed to take risks, explore new things. Our minds are designed to stop us doing anything that hurts us. We have a habit of hesitating. Our brain magnifies risk. We can truly face every single problem.
One decision away from totally different marriage, totally different life, totally different job, totally different income. Emotions impact relationships. Learnt to control those micro moments. Change your decisions.
Don't let fear make decision for you. When you are scared and afraid you will point finger at others. You know what to do but you don't do it. Everyone is one step away from set of instructions.
Go for walk, Start running again, the problem is in your head, thinking. Knowledge of what to do vs feel of doing it. Tomorrow is the new me. Your brain helps you to remind you of intentions, it is important to develop the skill of knowing and hearing the inner intention.
Move as fast, change your inner self. Realize the answer in me, pay attention. Beat your old habits and take a step forward achieving your dreams.
Interrupt old habits, Count to awaken your brain to learn new things, changing behavior, starting rituals (Counting), Writing, Placing holders, Set yourself for success.
Happy Living!!!
The Life of Learning's
When I was young
I was amazed with Cars!
I never understood education only marks mattered
When I passed my 10th I wished to become Engineer (Inspired from neighbor)!
When I was in high school
I studied every subject separately never correlated the concepts
I bothered more for marks and less for knowledge
In my College
I never connected the dots
I was learning - passing - unlearning
In my Job
I was testing Windows without knowing how it works
I studied Win32 programming but never applied in context
I was hardworking but never worked on something big
Domain knowledge paid way to be technically strong
I swiped myself and learnt Databases from my mentors Edmund & Roji
They are my inspiration in many ways
After my 30's
Nothing fills the soul except good education
I learnt to learn well
I learnt to connect dots
I finally understood Maths + Databases + Physics
My masters opened my eyes for learning
I became a student in 30's
In my personal life too
Sometimes I lost myself to find myself
Sometimes I disappeared only to be understood I am strong
Sometimes I accepted the things I can't control and let it go
When I look back I was old enough to see time has moved on
I wish I could rewrite some of the stories much better than how it ended. The journey continues..
Happy Learning!!!.
I was amazed with Cars!
I never understood education only marks mattered
When I passed my 10th I wished to become Engineer (Inspired from neighbor)!
When I was in high school
I studied every subject separately never correlated the concepts
I bothered more for marks and less for knowledge
In my College
I never connected the dots
I was learning - passing - unlearning
In my Job
I was testing Windows without knowing how it works
I studied Win32 programming but never applied in context
I was hardworking but never worked on something big
Domain knowledge paid way to be technically strong
I swiped myself and learnt Databases from my mentors Edmund & Roji
They are my inspiration in many ways
After my 30's
Nothing fills the soul except good education
I learnt to learn well
I learnt to connect dots
I finally understood Maths + Databases + Physics
My masters opened my eyes for learning
I became a student in 30's
In my personal life too
Sometimes I lost myself to find myself
Sometimes I disappeared only to be understood I am strong
Sometimes I accepted the things I can't control and let it go
When I look back I was old enough to see time has moved on
I wish I could rewrite some of the stories much better than how it ended. The journey continues..
Happy Learning!!!.
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