My Struggles and my life – Graveyard shift memories.

Birthplace - Earth, Race - Human, Religion – Kindness. We are never at this point, divided in every dimension.


Like a drunkard, this blog is my late-night diary and serves as my graveyard shift memories. When I am not there in this world you will know what was running in my mind.


A well-lived day is a little progress towards a well-lived life #MyThoughts


1. Coding every day makes you a better programmer

I am never a good programmer or coder. I still feel a ton of things to Learn. Database I have delivered fairy good product releases. Overall, in API and scalable microservices, I need to learn the trade. There are a ton of things to learn UX / Web/ DB / AI / Vision. The tradeoff between domain vs code is always learning on a need basis. Never Stop Learning.


2. Being kind makes you a better person

Anger serves no good. Nothing works just breaking bridges. Go far by being silent than talking and breaking emotions. Sometimes it's better to cry alone than sharing with people who will further weaken you. I regret my mistakes and for hurting people. I took up months to come back from my failures and betrayals. In the end, scars remained and the pain reduced over time.


3. Forgiving and walking away for peace makes you a mature person, Forgiveness and Kindness is the true strength. Anger is a form of foolishness

We cannot forget every betrayal nor fight for every defeat. Sometimes our own trust betrays us. Nothing lasts forever and no one is forever. Life is always more about being resilient and patient


4. Life isn’t for reproduction, it’s bringing the next generation with some brains and use for humanity

Sometimes feel lonely, sometimes feel lusty, sometimes feel lost out. Don’t know how to balance. I am neither buddha nor Socrates. A common man struggling to balance spirituality and practicality.


5. I know I’m not perfect but that does not stop me from correcting myself to be the best version of myself

Looking at your mistakes don’t lose on your strengths, it’s our strengths that took us to victory, double up on your strengths while you fix your weakness


6. Learn, Live, Stay Focused, Keep Walking

What defines you is credibility, your work, and how you were part of others' success. It’s all competitive world but again success is long term, let the journey be more meaningful than titles.


7. Every broken heart will find someone who can exactly fix the broken pieces

Yes, it will be broken sometimes or several times, but it is a journey where you keep shredding your old skin and add new learning’s, Hope the longest pain ends to give start to beautiful memories.


8. Live in the future lifestyle habit to attain the goals, Stay happy with Past for the Lessons 

Sometimes insults, failures push you to prove what we can do When people who were so long with us do not understand us, how does success come easily then, It’s a never-ending pursuit of patience, resilience and learning.


9. Get Back to the best version of self-aware self

It is your life and it's ending one minute at a time, Regret, cry, drink, recover and give a bang back to this world. When you are ready to lose everything, you can risk anything. In the end success or failure doesn’t matter it’s the thrill of doing it as I wanted to it. Be better, learn well, and keep sharing


10.  Observe and accept life than reacting to every single event

Hard to say but makes sense when we think about it, when tempted or bullied you better stay patient and stay away. You cannot win over stupid people and their perspectives.


11.  In the end, I want my life to be looked up to as inspiration against all odds


12.  Maturity is having humility, kindness, and knowing more about yourself, and living every single day bit more productive than yesterday


13.  Keep traveling and make today a better day in memories of tomorrow

Recollect your memories as moments of learning, moments of discovery, moments of empathy, moments of resilience, moments of patience, moments of trust


14.  Let your deeds and actions reflect kindness, optimism, and empathy


15.  Travel with no direction to look for is like getting ready for the next version of yourself

When lost keep going, keep walking with an open mind, ride without a destination. Sometimes the vision is blurred, and it needs a break to find its trail.


16.  Today is the future I dreamt of yesterday, Slow consistent improvement every day in every way. 

Never do anything that is against your values even for the smallest amount of gain.


17.  Persistence and Optimism are the biggest wealth we can have in our Life!!!

Never stop trying, never stop learning, Be better than yesterday, and hope for a better tomorrow.


18.  Creativity - Constant thinking to find small improvements

Being an idea collector, observer, the curious learner is all we can do to keep up our knowledge repository


19. Someone will find my scars beautiful and I look for that someone special in my life 

A wrong person will find loss in every scar. The right person will find beauty in every scar. Not everyone is the same. Look out for your company and never stop looking around.


20. Stay Simple, Stay Grounded, Be Kind, Things will end happily in Life


21. Redefine Life, Live the life that provides constant learning, creativity, makes you feel humble and Simple!!!!


22.  We never lose anything in life, We find Ourselves on every occasion when we are broke

Every time when I am broke, I went into isolation mode, the loneliness and silence teaches a lot and it’s a life-changing moment. Forget everything, Forgive others, Find yourself once again. We get lost several times in several situations. We need to constantly keep searching for the kind within us.


23. This life has no logical answer to emotional pain. Learn to Learn from the pain to find your new self

Pain changes yourself forever, you are not the same person. Going through pain has life-changing moments and memories


24.  Your emotion is also like a weapon. As long as you don't pick your right emotions you cannot move in the right direction 

Cry like a kid, Experiment like an infant, laugh like a mad person, let the world keep judging in its own lens. Be sure you are happy with your decisions. 


25. The ingredients of knowledge are learning, reading, writing, communication, experimentation, and presentation

Keep Learning, Keep Sharing, Fail, Learn, Repeat, Attempt, Try Something new interesting


26. A selfless, humble, and kind person is a Living God

A person who looks beyond self and helps others is a manifestation of God. Kindness exists today only in advice not in reality.


27. If you stay positive after everything you are an inspiration for the next generation. Some seeds of kindness are the key, the world is still alive


28. Credibility comes with time and actions, not with perspectives/promises

Dress, looks, words cannot be compared to results and perspectives. Be good in your work and actions. Never go just by looks, observe people before you trust them.


29. Not everyone is your kind of personality, Find your flock and keep flying

We don’t need anyone approval to live a life of our principles. As long as you don’t carry personal guilt or regret, you can live the way you want to live.


Keep Going!!!

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