The deadliest enemy in the world is not two countries or two states or two companies. Fundamentally it starts with two neighbours. Over the years I have observed a lot of enmities, jealousy only by comparison and fighting over boundary walls.
If two neighbours have so much enmity the same will boil up to countries. If you have a good neighbour you are blessed. If you have a troublesome neighbour you are getting prepared to face the world.
If it comes for money it will go once the money is over If it comes for lust it will go after the pleasure If it comes for attraction it will fade when the attraction is over If it comes for timepass it will go once it finds a new spot If it is built on selfishness it will leave one person orphaned any time If it is built on the convenience it will hop when it finds next level upgrade Relationships for Sex, Money, Drugs, Alchohol are quickest ways to send you on a speedy path to death
If it has a purpose, plan, thought then it will get into the debate, discussion, differences mode
Accepting truth and working on it is harder to accept but that is the only way to sustain It's hard to accept the facts but it's even harder to reap the consequences after making a mistake. What goes around will come back. Don't play with people. Be genuine and clear in your decision's Part with true reason and Intentions. Remember holding guilt is the biggest punishment till death Keep Thinking!!!
You accept your mistakes Your bridge to make things work fails You forgive the bad experiences You are willing to give it a chance You are able to talk your mind You stay in your limits but intimate them of your displeasure You accept the cold shoulders to bridge the gap You accept you ended up all the chances You know it's not for you You know the thin line between respect, courtesy, care and concern You understand the emotional turbulence and accept the new normal What comes easily won't last long (These words remain true for ages) What last's long won't come easily I have made a series of mistakes, learnt a lot of lessons, got damaged but managed not to get into curse mode/revenge mode.
Its okay people are like birds when the season ends they migrate to newer pastures
My mom takes care of me more than I deserve. We had a lot of disagreements/perspectives. I think it's beyond certain aspects some people will never let us down no matter how many times we fail their expectations. Someone who is a key driver for my motivation, success is my mom. At some point in life, losing something for people who have always done well for us also seems valid.
Anything that needs approval needs to sustain and pass both with time and patience. Disagreement is fine, but patience is key. Finding the right relationship is patience winning over disagreements.
If you don't have such traits go with your parent's choice. In the end, take help when you can't spot your match.
There is no dream life or dream partner. What we didn't get we may feel lost heaven but life removes many things in relationships for you to survive and do better things. A lost relationship should be a good warning for future relationships, not an everlasting regret. Keep going. Plan your life or it will end where you don't want to be.
You have following choices towards the people you don't like
1. Learn from them (1st Best choice) 2. Ignore them (2nd Best choice) 3. Criticize them 4. Abuse, make fun, mock them
You mock others, you will be mocked more by others.
You are a sum total of your choices.
— LearnLifeWealthTravel (@AnyBodyCanFly) July 5, 2020
Where I struggle during some situation
Always being too nice
Always think from solving perspective than going forward
More empathy sometimes and less practical sometimes
Emotional mind vs heart in decisions
Building bridges and breaking myself
Sometimes you break yourself by building bridges / repairing bridges. Bridges that broke me gave a cascade effect on my life. Maybe I started feeling it's okay to break bridges.
Never give anyone pain for the time they shared in projects, life, friendship. Be loyal or walk away but don't live on parasite friendships or relationships.
Reference coders - They would have seen code but haven't tried but know it works Experimenters - They would have coded, modified and know why it will and where it will work Youtube coders - They would have attended some session but they don't really have any coding experience or deep perspectives
Stuck in the same place, Usually, I always divert myself and find myself in travel mode. This helps me reduce my debates with mom, other aspects
Emotionally it has drained me a lot, I struggle to move beyond some things for which I have no solutions
The world will continue to go with and without you
You cannot change the inherent human habits of fault finding
You need to live the way its called *good life*
Life has to be meaningful and peaceful not eventful
I hope to get back to the travel mode as soon as possible. I need to spend the rest of my life in some remote village with a bit of stranger and away from the busy city life. Better go and educate kids and live a contentful life than living up to others' expectations.
Life is short, you cannot satisfy everyone's expectations. Keep Going!!!
My mother has the habit of recollecting, magnifying and playing back all the mistakes since the beginning, the problem this leads is
You always have a fear of what words will spark a debate
Every time get into the mindset of feeling guilt
We have many differences but there is a melting point beyond which we need to stay respectful and don't hurt someone emotionally
At some point in life, every relationship brings more threats than trust. This could be the reason why people lead lives all alone even when they have a family.
Only when we have meaningful relationships then only we can support and grow. Understanding, accepting, and staying within limits is the key to sustain any relationship.
I never really felt comfortable with all the past people I have met. Always, there are some misconceptions, past that everyone has. I never had a deep dive past or regret until I started to connect with people who never recovered from their past. You initially try to look at them with empathy only to find you can never get along with such people as no way they can recover from their past. I got a similar syndrome when I broke up or ghosted with such people. You should carefully choose whom to really connect with. Find someone who likes your journey, who likes your thoughts, and more important who is willing to discuss and agree to balanced perspectives.
Everything we feel is a pleasure might end up as an addiction
Addiction Types
Alcohol
Drugs
Sex
Porn
Everything that gives instant dopamine effect has consequences. Can we legalize everyone, can we ban everything?
As of today what percentage of the population is addicted to different types of addiction? How do these addictions contribute to mental health and well being?
Poor Value System
Have we ever wondered how item songs help to improve society?
Why bikini pics of celebrity occupied homepage of news sites?
How teen love is interpreted in various forms to promote products, movies?
What do rape scenes in movies contribute to society?
How much porn is consumed by Indian users?
Why does custodial death happen?
Why does honor killing happen?
The education system, values, and moral science do not reflect in our daily lives. When we forget what we learn we end up as what we should not be. I don't mean I am perfect but again the measure of decay of good to bad, bad to worse everything will affect future generations. I am trying to fix my mistakes and become a better version of myself.
What hurts me
~ Poverty
~ Child labor
~ Homelessness
What angers me
~ Corruption
~ Religion
~ Racism
~ Hoarding
What makes me feel happy
~ Cleanliness / Nature
~ Ethics / Morals / Values
~ Being Helpful / Humanity
— LearnLifeWealthTravel (@AnyBodyCanFly) June 30, 2020
You are not born educated,
You are not born learned,
You are not born experienced,
You are not born matured.
Vision - Align your vision with outcome/business needs
Strategy - Short term and long term goals to meet both customer expectations and align to goals
Magical moment
A magical moment - you struggle for so many years but then in a matter of a few days, you may find your dream job/location/partner. The magical moment will come anytime hold on to the optimism and positive beliefs. Good times are going to come.
Start early & stay focused.
~ Be passionate ~ Do it now, start early ~ Don't do it alone, build right team ~ Know / Understand your customers ~ Build plans ~ Be well researched ~ Be well funded ~ Be professional, have ethics ~ Be dynamic, upgrade skill, build talent pic.twitter.com/Lw2MZjrdQn
— LearnLifeWealthTravel (@AnyBodyCanFly) July 5, 2020
We remember the people who hurt us the most We should thank people who understood our situation Thank the ones who were kind to you Forgive the ones who left you Always past is a debt, Future is an investment, Invest Wisely Keep Smiling, Keep Going!!!
Infected transmitter - Infected with corona but has immunity and not showing symptoms, silent transmitters. Developing immunity Immune transmitter - Infected and developed resistance. Still transmitting to other contacts Infected and Sick - Able to diagnose and admitted for treatment.
For all three cases, contact tracing needs to be done.
Apart from this floating populating law enforcement, healthcare, transport, and administrative workers who are exposed to open environments need to be tested regularly.
A lot of insights/analysis needed even to handle growing cases. If not handled properly it will result in at least 5% of death of the whole population. Even we perform exceeding well we can only meet the bar. Since it's at the scale it needs a lot of micromanagement and different strategies and continuous tracking and improvements.
Top 10 richest people share the same horoscope with millions of poor people There are more planets than we assume Predefined definitions for a good time cannot be accepted without basis of scientific evidence All the time till death is a good time We are made up of same decayable parts but we pretend we are immortal Let humanity prevail over caste, race, and color Live to make the earth a better place!!!
About me - Emprical Learner, Ghost Rider, Building the best deep network for a kinder, better self!!!
Take Chances, Be Bold, Take Risks, Be Yourself, Stay Motivated and Keep Rocking!!!
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"The person that you will spend most time with in your life is yourself, so better try to make yourself as interesting as possible...."
Like a drunkard, this blog is my late-night diary and serves as my graveyard shift memories. When I am not there in this world you will know what was running in my mind. Win or Lose keep the journey interesting!!!
“You live only once, If you are right once is enough”
"Always be a part of solution not part of problem"
"Yet, Taught by time, my heart has learned to glow for other's good, and melt at other's woe" - Homer
“I love the man who can smile in trouble that can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection.” - Thomas Paine (1737–1809), American political theorist & writer
