Interview chaos

  • If you ask a maths teacher a puzzle he would answer with the constraint/formula
  • If you ask me about a business problem, I will explain data, process, challenges, and architecture
  • Ask questions that best suits the past experience. 

Even if you blog / be #technical on top of things, Still going back to #puzzles or questions on things not relevant to your day-to-day job seems a crazy way to connect assess technical #skills. coding skills are not remembering #writing #syntax #keepworking on big picture


Times person of year 2021

Successful in one industry vs Success in every industry

Strategy, Guts, Hardwork, Consistency, Vision = Elon


Manipulative Voices


Ever wonder the percentage of entertainment vs education content around us
Ever wonder the amount of perception/brand vs minimalism of life
Ever wonder the number of people with clarity vs go with crowd flow
Ever wonder why serials, unrealistic and stupid comedy shows vs True things in life
Ever wonder how you are being distracted to focus on wrong things in Life
Every wonder why drugs, movies, sex gets more attention than minimalism, companionship, being a true self
10 sources of bad vs one source of clarity
Filtering is more difficult as things consume us, we no longer control ourselves

Stay Alert to Stay Focused!

Art of not getting hurt

Everyone around you can disagree
Never take perspective as a matter of right/wrong
Pause your perspective if it hurts anyone
Sometimes silence is a better answer
Life is better lived in silence than communicate and fight over ignorant perspectives



Rethinking

Some nights are longer than days
Some days are longer than our months
Let me pause things that don't get me anywhere

Lonely Soul

Alright am I dreaming of the future or tired of my travel
Is this an endless journey to run for survival 
You earn enough that you don't have time to spend
Health is overridden by the pressure of commitments, work
Are we truly free souls?
Is this a worthy pursuit?
If not for me have a few more goals to teach/share/be of use in some other way?

Review 2021


No Travel mere few kilometers 5 to 10 kms drive
Average of 10 hours of work minimum
Every day runs around open items for next day, next week
More of Work from same room not even work from home
Tea was almost lunchtime food most days
Some days fried rice and late-night ginger tea
Single again for long time
Time goes, Life goes...
Emotions become silent at some point in time
Boomer uncle or Boomer adult :(
Crazy Life :(

Keep Going!!!


Minimalist Life

Live with minimal needs
Eat less than what you need
Think more, sleep more, talk less
Reading books is better than talking to people
Having a cup of tea alone is better than gossip discussions
Sometimes being alone gives more peace than in a group feeling disconnected

Live more, show less, talk less

Global vs Local perspective

  • The global level arms race, religion-based terrorism
  • Local-level again caste, religion issues

Focus on clean water, clear air, affordable medication, quality education is not the focus for all.

Seems inequality is deemed to exist as we need the poor to remain poor.

Reality vs Intentions differ!!!

Focus

  • Avoid having multiple browser tabs 
  • You are bound to lose out more time if you are checking your phone
  • Stay away from browsing online shopping
  • Do not respond to every email, After you finish work/schedule it
  • Avoid meetings where you do not play a key role


Keep Going!!!

God vs Man vs Rich vs Poor

Who is perceived or what is required to be 'labeled' Rich?

  • Buy Anything
  • Live anywhere
  • Have all basic needs and luxury needs fulfilled
  • Have everything family, friends, social status, etc.
  • Source of income above average, Top 10% of the population, and good education

Who is perceived or what defines to be 'labeled' Poor?

  • No constant source of income
  • Basic amenities not fulfilled
  • Poor economic status leads to poor social status
  • Basic education does not lead to any good jobs
  • Menial lifestyle
Is God rich or Poor?
  • As per movies, he gets everything
  • He controls people
  • He can play with people life
  • He has reason to make people suffer to make them live happily later
Race vs Color vs Religion vs Quality of Life?
  • The working population need to serve the labor market
  • The working population runs millennial jobs drivers/bakers/helpers/construction workers
  • Discrimination will happen to keep the working population in control / not to question or understand their rights
What will happen if everyone is educated?
  • Exploitation cannot happen taking advantage of their ignorance
  • They will question poor infrastructure/employee benefits
  • They will be able to grow up or go for better jobs
  • Education will lead to better decisions. Better decisions will help in financial stability will lead to progress
Do we need to keep inequality? Whom does it help?
  • Good for a capitalistic society, Low-cost exporter to developed nations
  • Good for consumeristic society, Need more people as delivery boys and drivers
We call them 'developed' nations because of their quality of life, better work-life, and better benefits for the citizens. You cannot develop a nation with this form of startups we see now as consumeristic startups. Soon we may have apps to order 'Book my funeral' after my death. 'Build my grave' after my death. 'Pay my bills' after my death.

There is no god as such looking at how we make money in the name of God. For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. For every bad deed, we will receive bad results. That is the conscience that comes back to us and our loved ones.

Life is not evil, it is a mirror. What we do for lust, greed, and jealously will come back to us in the same form. Man is the evilest animal. We are cannibalistic in deeds but kind in action. 

Different faces, multiple worlds, True to Anyone?  Do we care for the poor? Oh yea to label them poor and keep them poor forever we care.

Keep Thinking!!!









Life perspectives

 Live with Less Regrets

Keep Going!!!

Life

Life rewards are based on how much we know shallow or deep learning. Learning does not happen in one go. It iterates and builds/updates your perspective. Learning compounds based on your thinking/observations/mapping experience to the situation. It's not a puzzle but a coordinated observation and mapping of the most optimal results :) :)


Jai Bhim - Painful and Realistic Society

  • The very first scene of caste-based offender selection is a painful scene. How underprivileged can be taken for granted
  • There are bad people in every caste and section of society. Let's not stigmatize by a group
  • Police torture is extreme, pain, beating, torture. The dark side of law and order. How these things are handled in society. Pressure across divisions of society to withdraw the case.
  • These days you can be tracked digitally from signals, phones, cameras. At least circumstances can contradict a similar setup.
  • Awareness, education is the key thing for anyone to lead a decent life. You need to be good enough to know things happening around you, able to speak up, and communicate in the right forum
  • Crime vs forced acceptance vs poor humanity to ignore people
  • Equality in society by looking at few people developed and large sections of the society still remaining in poor shape
  • Caste is by birth which can neither be changed but it kills them till death
  • Connected evidence collection and planned forgery. Data speaks. Even to break a case, you need to do field investigation to analyze, collect and identify. Data is science. Data is evidence, Patience is thinking.
  • Living, earning, and working for all alone is not life. We need to serve society for good. Life is not just being self-centered.
  • Finding the 'fake' evidence requires identifying data, spot discrepancy, thinking, dissect and spot
  • The women 'Sengeni' is a very powerful display of guts, determination, and living against odds. She didn't bow down for money, stood up for values even when she is poor.
  • Power of thinking, power of spotting lies, power of analyzing numbers
  • Sexual violence, objectification of women, taking advantage of situation happens in every possible way.

How to crack similar cases in the current situation

  • Phone calls
  • SIM Tracking
  • CCTV videos
  • Vehicles images in Toll gates
  • CCTV tower coverage
  • Face images in all available CCTV areas

  • We need a more morally developed transparent society
  • Whatever you do for some other women, will come back to your own family. It is possible, even if no one sees everything is calculated in nature.
  • All education did not clean the superstitions, caste beliefs, and sexual violence. We need to be more honest be a more truly moral society.
  • Someone who can stand up for truth, don't get sold for money, don't succumb to the story it's the moral of the story. The fearless advocate is a 'True Hero'. Salute Chandru Sir
  • Compromise can come in any form of pressure, for money, for caste, for society.
  • Being good is tough, being opportunistic is easier :).

Very Good Movie!!!

Sorry Mom

My Mom is like working 24 x 7. In a way, I feel bad sitting, working, and eating. Also, Astro, religion, and my attitude played a role in settling in Life. I don't know how best to be at mental peace. 

Whatever happens, has a reason for it. Hope I don't burden her :(

Time to be a less burden to others. I have put more weight on WFH. Always in front of PC. Life is bad too. Seeing a life without a family :( and a burden to my mom :(

Hope I change for the better!!!


How Facebook is misleading us?

  1. Takes away family time
  2. Takes away walking time, reading time
  3. The likes, comments are a trap that will eat all your time
  4. Failure to perform at work will, in turn, affect personal and professional life
  5. May be linked to poor performance at work, a school in the long run
  6. Distraction and addiction among Teens, Youth
  7. Makes everyone live in a silo and live in a virtual world
  8. We can connect to a maximum of 4~5 people in a day. All our people connections are mostly within family, work, friends. Outside this second and third-level college, relatives, school friends are once in a quarter connects
  9. In reality, we can never share about us to a bigger circle or we cannot be friends with everyone
  10. social media depiction is far from reality. Why would I be bothered to know things in my 3rd or 4th level connects
  11. Life will be no better by seeing how others live
  12. 90% Life and 10% social interaction were earlier. Now 90% interaction and 10% time for Life

Kill all non-forms of entertainment

Keep Going!!!


Mental health vs Physical Health

I am a strange situation. I don't believe in working together when you have different views. At Chennai, the Food is good but a lot of debates. In Bangalore, I escape from discussions by long drives. In a way, travel kills many worries. I don't know if that's a solution but that's better than being stressed.

Keep Travelling!!!

In real world - Friends with Everyone ?

  • We can connect to maximum of 4~5 people in a day
  • All our people connections are mostly within family, work, friends
  • Outside this second and third-level college, relatives, school friends are once in a quarter connects
  • In reality, we can never share about us to a bigger circle or we cannot be friends with everyone
  • social media depiction is far from reality. Why would I be bothered to know things in my 3rd or 4th level connects
  • Looking for how others live only will make us feel bad or copycat 
  • I prefer to ignore and move on than comparing, Social media is reel not real
  • Life begins when you shut down your computer and smartphone

Keep Thinking!!!

Let today remain the same forever.

I am more afraid to see my mom getting aged. In some way I feel everything I lived during my school, college are memories. I went back saw my school, the place we lived. Everything has changed.

During childhood I was eager to grow up and do some job, I felt its more enjoyable to live without sitting in a classroom. Now at 3am I feel those days were far better than almost 4 decades close in my life. 

I don't know when to get married or should get married or can I find someone like my mindset. I have hurt my mom many times in these marriage discussions. I just want a good decision and yes she has been the one for me in all my bad situations. 

Maybe I am not a good son :(

For every generation, let me live the same life and siblings. I am grateful for all that I have in my life. I am thankful for everything. 

Be kind!!!

How does my mind think ?

Do I do think because of fear, awareness, opportunity?

If I have 3 hours break what are things you can do.

  • Watch a movie fight club get the adrenaline kick
  • Go for a ride and get a glimpse of world
  • Cook your meal, house cleaning
  • Spend time on social media, youtube
  • Alcohol / Drugs / Dating

How do we make decisions?

  • I don't want to be get caught so I will not do this
  • I want to do this without being caught
  • I know it will have bad consequences to health so I will not do it
  • I am religious so I will not do it

Everything that we do will come back to us in some way or another. It is better to be more self-aware of every act we indulge in than to have a dual mindset and confused personality. The deadliest weapon in this world is smartphone in the hands of teenagers. Everything is available with one click. By default, bad things get out attention. 

Responsible AI, Responsible Social Media, Ethical business, Long way to go.

"Fight for you. Believe in you. Bleed. Cry. Conquer - Dan Waldschmidt"