Guilt and Shame are two great invisible wealth we should never accumulate in Life. Intentionally mistakes/ betrayal if you have gone through or you had made some mistakes. Be quick to apologize for your mistakes and stay away from hurting others.
We linger for the unanswered betrayals we have gone through for no fault of ours. This is something very tricky. We can never find answers for certain things in life. At some point, those answers also become irrelevant in our Life.
Sometimes Life is a Mystery, Sometimes Life is a challenge, Sometimes Life is a moment of happiness. A lot more emotional and practical perspective is needed to appreciate what we have at this moment!!!
I hope to soon reach 1 Million. Reached .6 Million. I don't post pics/selfies / emotional stories. I don't write for votes, I write about things I believe, I experience and I recommend.
Easy to find a mate Hard to find a match Easy to fall for lies Hard to talk the facts Lust sometimes overtakes emotions Emotions sometimes overtake finances Relationship demands overtake personal goals Easy to find a one-night stand Hard to find someone who matches both emotional and intellectual thoughts Credibility comes with time and actions, not with perspectives/promises The mindset of curiosity, patience, and clarity is more important than financial assets Live to collect experiences not to save assets Hurt less, Stay Kind, Be Selective Not everyone is your kind of personality Search for the one kindest soul, and work towards a peaceful life Keep Going and Keep Searching!!!
Everything now boils down to predictions Applying different strategies Cold calls Compelling proposals Bridging confidence Providing the vision A lot of people are out there looking for kind people. Find your partner
Some people we forgive because we are used to their company Some people we forgive to know answers for our questions Some people we forgive to take revenge at a later stage Forgiveness comes in different aspects - impact, intentions, and consequences We would love to forgive some people emotionally but we will be always afraid of them practically Why have such a complicated relationship? The world is full of kind people Find your flock and keep flying
For the Last One You came leaving your family I need to be your companion and friend Rivers that adjust the flow, pain that subsides with time I will take care of you in my life and dreams
Sometimes, Observations are more important than conversations
Being in the wrong environments/career/relationship is the real cause of depression
The best investment is investing in education
You can copy my work but not my experience
You can pretend to know but not my creativity
My imagination is far beyond any restrictions or limitations
No matter how much we disagree then is no one except her who knows my emotions, perspectives No matter how much I fight the person who tolerates me always No matter how much I argue the person who forgets and tries to understand my perspective We disagree but we also respect each other's views All my relationship failures, career failures I owe it due to my shortcomings. I am growing from my failures I am learning from my failures My strength is my mother, my enemy is my mother, My critic is my mother She is my friend, advisor, mentor and my psychiatrist Thank you, my Mom, my Amma I hope I become better, I know I haven't become as successful as you expected but I am trying to become a better person Life is short, Life is an opportunity, do your best
Keep Going!!!
One good reason to live - Educate for free One good reason to learn - Teach simple and easy ways to learn One good reason to earn - Get financially independent soon One good reason to retire soon - work on your passion One good reason for mental health - Be your own boss One good reason for relationships - Support each other and grow together One good reason for having kids - Encourage their creativity to shape the world One good reason to believe in yourself - The more you learn the more you become humble and kind. Define your life for collecting, capturing good memories, moments and experiences
You are not born educated, You are not born learned, You are not born experienced, You are not born matured.
Rule #2. The best revenge for insult, pain is to live well and inspire them in return to look upon us
Rule #3. Never argue too much with parents. When in anger we talk utterly nonsense things and throw tantrums. This leads from anger to frustration and depression
Rule #4. Never get comfortable and feel sympathy for yourself. Own your mistakes and be your boss
Rule #5. Take risks. Work on emergency mode. If this is my final piece of work/project. Never get into comparing mindset. It doesn't help improve productivity or focus.
The plot - Drug dealer posing as businessman Meets a young girl who is on a 3 months work visa to Thailand. Knowing her personal life, no one to look after her life at that moment. He empathizes with her and later makes her feel for his trap.
He then plans for travel and ends up sending her alone with the drug packet. She is caught in Thailand for smuggling. She ends up spending a decade in prison. In the end, she becomes a Fitness trainer. How she beats the odds and finally lives up to her character.
Lesson - You do not need to share your weakness with everyone. Not everyone who empathizes will be truthful. You need to find a reason to live, a goal to achieve, a purpose in life. Without these, you will end up manipulated, used, and destroyed.
There is a constant battle for Doing what I like to do vs Delivering what my company needs vs Moving further pursuing my dreams
Even If I run a startup I need to change according to the customer needs and projects. Build your dream product from the customer perspective and differentiate it from existing competitors and make a dent in the market.
Sometimes you need to believe in your dream when no one believes, Money is important but not more than your passion. Build on your passion vs Save more money vs Add more memories to Life.
Sometimes I wonder its better to build on a vision than working on projects. Vision can translate into a bigger goal but with multiple stakeholders involved translating a project into a vision is not the end goal of a project.
Today I was watching Natgeo drug trafficking and seizure in airports.
Narcotics is a business. This has
Investors
Manufacturing in developing countries
Supply chain
What is visible to the outside world
Low-Level Workers
Last leg sellers
Transporters / Tourists / Individuals used for transporting it
Narcotics nails down the network by the people who serve as transporters for developed nations. Sentences vary for decade / death sentence.
Lack of jobs/ poor education/lack of awareness finals leads way for failure in life. The people caught explain family situation / emotional needs. We fall prey to the needs and end up in pathetic situations.
What comes quickly will go quickly. What looks good may not be good. What is bad will always look good. The world is a scary place if you don't learn to navigate carefully. We are molded to be consumeristic. We are dictated this is what means 'Living Well'.
Good Looks, Cars, Houses, Selfies and Social media dictates how we have to live. Often happiest people don't give importance to these things. Stay away from imagination and social media addicted generation.
Are we vocal about issues of all humanity or only for certain #race, #color, #religion, #caste? Think without #bias. Accept the #reality to fix the #problem
If we have to modify it for today's context some of the key phrases are
I have a dream that all the children of this world will not be judged by race, color, religion, caste but by the content of their character.
We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their education, dignity by signs stating race, color, religion, caste.
Times change but the mindset remains the same. We see only for certain incidents so-called celebrities/leaders condemn. Death is the same across race / color / caste and religion. If we are the same we will work to avert every single death irrespective of divisions. We need to understand each other beyond these divisions else we will continue to support this imbalanced world. It will not be too long until nature finds a way to balance these imbalances.
Some questions in life for which I don't have answers keep haunting me at times. Marriage does haunt me for long. I have to stop thinking or replaying few bitter moments again and again. Both emotionally drained and practically impractical to renew some bitter moments.
Controls your emotions or you will be killed by your own emotions. Cut down certain emotions/habits for the sake of the future. Go away from people who do not need you in their life. That's the best way to live a better future. Personally, I may have not been perfect but I have ensured my drawbacks do not affect people around me.
There are few lines I remember from serial 'Kaialavu Manasu'
The mind/brain is small enough to hold it in our hand The same mind is wide enough like a sea to accommodate so many memories The mind can depict positivity or negativity in a situation Compared to the struggles that go in our minds, the world is a 'little' world.
About me - Emprical Learner, Ghost Rider, Building the best deep network for a kinder, better self!!!
Take Chances, Be Bold, Take Risks, Be Yourself, Stay Motivated and Keep Rocking!!!
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"The person that you will spend most time with in your life is yourself, so better try to make yourself as interesting as possible...."
Like a drunkard, this blog is my late-night diary and serves as my graveyard shift memories. When I am not there in this world you will know what was running in my mind. Win or Lose keep the journey interesting!!!
“You live only once, If you are right once is enough”
"Always be a part of solution not part of problem"
"Yet, Taught by time, my heart has learned to glow for other's good, and melt at other's woe" - Homer
“I love the man who can smile in trouble that can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection.” - Thomas Paine (1737–1809), American political theorist & writer
