- Turn Rage into Grief
- What lies behind Rage? Scratch surface of every angry person you will find hope
- Wild optimism drives Rage, Reckless faith of hope, Turbocharging the Rage
- Diminish Hope around Love
- All of us will not manage to find the right person but Good Enough person and that's Success
- We are very strange, We don't know very much about Strangeness
- Ex-Loves Vital Source of Knowledge
- All of us addicts, not in terms of substance, Pattern of behavior
- Addicted as long as it keeps us away from yourself
- Technology / Distractions make us addicts
- Disaster until you know yourself
- Love requires us to approach and convey I need to you
- The impulse to be strong, defend, Anxiously attached, Nasty, Procedural
- Avoidant - Pretend you don't when you need, Don't reveal need for other person, Cycle of low trust
- Everyone is a small child inside 'I need you'
- We don't know 'How to Love'
- Love is a skill, Feelings will lead to mistakes
- Loving vs Being Loved (the Fun bit)
- To Love (Have the willingness to apply charity and generosity of interpretation)
- Our behaviors are tricky
- Anyone will be a mixture of good and bad
- Parental situations help children learn about relationships
- Do not divide people, Everyone whom we love will disappoint us
- Maturity is the ability to see there are no Heros or Sinners
- Psychological maturity - Anyone whom we love is a mixture of good and bad
- Love - Toleration of weakness
- Way to find a good partner is to follow your heart
- Reasoning / Analyzing is also important
- Love also bounds upon childhood sufferings
- We find partners who will be familiar
- We want to make someone suffer who will make us suffer for love
- The more right for us less we need to explain (Child and parent love)
- Without having said in words
- Understood wordlessly
- Sulking (We suck with people who we feel should understand us)
- We reserve for people who trigger a negative reaction in us
- We want them to read our souls
- Catastrophy for lasting relationships
- Root to marriage - Become a teacher
- The culture within a couple to teach each other
- Full articulation of what we are is to accept another person will educate us
- Criticism wrong word for a better version of yourself
- Good Enough!!!
- None of us are perfect
- To be in company, negotiate imperfection everyday
- Compatability is an achievement of love
- Change how you characteristically respond to tricky types
- Recognise ability of compromise
- Ability to compromise for love life
- Marry the wrong person and make mistakes because you are human
Live Relationships , Talk Often, Love the Flaws, Live Today !!!
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