Love in Romanticism Age
- Tolerated your partner at early ages
- We are all heirs of Romanticism
- Context and society dependant love
- The way we love in dependant on Society
- Romanticism is an ideology. It says soulmate exists
- Instinctive attraction comes when we meet the special person
- Definitive end of Alienation and Loneliness
- Reveal shamed and Vulnerability
- Tied to long summer afternoons, Walks, Waterfalls, Sunsets, Clouds, Special feelings
- Love and sex go together
- Romantics believe sex is an expression of love. So, Adultery becomes the tragedy in Romanticism
- Romanticism is the greatest enemy of love
- We are not pure, kind, living beings, We are dangerous human beings
- Relationships are tricky, Mothers and friends do not care much
- People are not bothered to invest in mutual enlightenment
- Earlier times marriage has a reason (Religion / Caste)
- Now it is instinct
- Recreating pattern of earlier childhood
- We are drawn to people we feel familiar
- Special feeling means they didn't satisfy your friends requirement for suffering
- Being yourself is a curse
- FUll dimensions are troublesome
- Early days liberating love
- Later conflict between love and honesty
- Moment of loneliness begins
- There is no such intuitive understanding
- This is also a disaster
- Long term without speaking its not possible
- Outbreak of sulking
- There is no implicit understanding
- Accept whole of you
- Awkward movements of critics
- Breach is not criticism
- Greek believed love is an attraction to perfection, virtue, and accomplishment
- Weakness, Vulnerability is human
- Mutual education is love
- The good teacher feels relaxed, a legitimate feeling
- Long-Term Love is not shouting
- No humiliation
- Education is beginning of love, not a breach of love
- Education is not a betrayal of ground rules of love
Love in Realistic Perspective
- Reinvent Love
- Get away from instinct
- More therapeutic scaffolding around them
- Curriculum of love
- Let's stop treating them as an adult, treat as children
- Be generous about our system of interpretation
- Broken soul means normal in outside world
- We are children
- Interpret someone evil or not rely on humor
- Humor is vital to try lovable idiot
- Secrets are okay
- Loneliness cannot end with birth of love
- You cannot understand yourself no one can mind read you
- Gently understood you are crazy
- Gently understood you partner crazy
- Bring communication to the therapeutic level
- Accept practical venture
- Unhappy great deal of time
- Embark on journey
Happy Finding Right Partner!!!
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