Learning Skills

A new definition for Learning

Learning Agility, Skills that keeps you relevant
Move Away from Grades to Solving Societal problems - MESS - Maths, English, Social Sciences

New Age Learning

• Language - Communication
• Social Science - Human Behavior / Conflict
• Science - Inquiry and Skeptical Thinking
• Knowledge is transferable skills and Connect dots across 
• Multi-Disciplinary Thinking, Become Cross Curriculum Specialists
• Social and Emotional Skills
• Pattern Identification, Generalize into Knowledge - Intelligence
• Create a structure of patterns and learn from it

Redefine Knowledge, Redefine Education!!!

My Thoughts

My Writings :)

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Change

The beauty of life is change. Change means you need to be aware and alert about the present. Living in the present moment needs both emotional and intelligence applied to current situation. Emotional understanding is the balance between expectations and realistic outcomes. Intelligence is the knowledge applied to emotion with an empathetic perspective. Keep making small improvements to see the shining start one day!!!!

Flip flops in life

Success is built on failure. Failure is built on success. Everything overlaps again and again until new strategies evolve in life. You have to learn to differentiate long term and short term people in your life. What comes easy won't last long. What lasts long won't come easy and that's life.

The life cycle

Probably I have realized and understood life a little better. The three things we search in life are goals, relationships, God. Goals serve is financially. Relationship serves us emotionally. When both have issue God comes to the rescue. The underlying things is empathy and kindness. Life is built on set of values to give proportionate happiness and success. True happiness does not look happy from outside rather it is very eternal and private. This moment to think with clarity and able to see, predict is factual and realistic moment of life!!!

The journey of experience

At some point in life, you develop a strong aversion for people who put you down, left you in tough situations. What doesn't kill you kills your emotions for the person. You question your emotion to question the logic behind trusting the person. Emotional pain is a life-changing experience. For the giver it's an incident, for the receiver it is a journey through the rebirth of self, killing the logical views accepting the loss as a reality. Oh, life make me numb towards people who killed my emotions. Let there be kindness, hope love going forward in my journey!!!

Writing

Writing is the best way to offload your emotions. I have had my moments of success,.failure, loss, optimism, hope, and kindness. Differentiating the care and supporting the arguments is the biggest challenge. Disagree and amicably discuss is something rare to spot and find. Decisions without logic, decisions without clarity, decisions blindly followed, decisions without morality are the greatest dangers in today's life. 

This life has no logical answer to emotional pain. Learn to Learn from the pain to find your new self!!!

Mind manipulation

The human mind is an expectation driven system. Similar to neural networks we make our moves for targets. The inputs and traits are from our beliefs, end goals, people who influence us. Mistakes are important moments in life. They help us to correct, find and become a better version of self. Acknowledging and awareness of our actions is important to understand the process of thoughts and the path of decision making. Being open to our past, willing to learn, correct from past, acceptance and presenting the realistic version of self requires clarity, confidence, and patience. Keep working to come out of all the differences in life and becoming a better version of self!!!

The lonely days

You feel lonely when

• You are not surrounded by truth
• The environment does not reflect beliefs
• When success is not an outcome of efforts rather by connections and contacts

Life has a lot more learning on those days

• Finding yourself in the storm
• Sailing with the hope of finding a shore
• Having the same patience, peace in your actions

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Mystic life

Some moments of excruciating pain make me feel why to continue to live further. As I age I can feel severe symptoms of bad posture, long working hours, muscle and vein stiffness. If I had this awareness at 20 I would have been more careful with decisions in my life. I want to make something concrete before I reach my half-century. Finding the right person seems like a mirage. I have spent most times only trying to adjust than finding someone who will accept me as I am. If values are so true then we would not see so much of inequality in this world. Oh, life when it's going to be a level playing field.

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Strategy for Sucess

Learning Strategy
The ingredients of knowledge are learning, reading, writing, communication, experimentation, and presentation. With this constant distraction, I always feel keypads and pre WhatsApp era better than the current generation of real-time messaging. From attention, it has become a life of distractions. With this pace of difference, we may slowly lose fundamentals and thinking aspects and will end up as one click machines.

Emotional Wellness - Growth Oriented Mindset
Analyze and evaluate your activities and thoughts. Gone are days to retrospect as year-end or promises to fulfill. Working backward goals should reflect in thoughts, planning, habits. Every day and every moment class contributes delta to the larger goal. Load your memory with thoughts that propel towards the end goal. Your emotion is also like a weapon. As long as you don't pick your right emotions you cannot move in the right direction. Timebox and retrospect every single moment.

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Experience

Anything in life is an experience
Experience for truth requires consistency 
Experience of trust needs loyalty
Load your memory with beautiful and kind experiences 
Let the peace and kindness guide go...

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Time

Time tells what is the truth
Time tells who truly cares
Time tell who keeps promises
Time tells who will come till the end
Time is everything 
Test of time decides who parts ways and who stays
Time reminds us of the remaining time
Time is the master that gives rebirth to a better version of self

The Day, The Hour, The Moment, The Life

Today I and my mom were re-arranging things after painting a few rooms. She remembered all conversations related to the purchase of every single item. All the way from my birth plus collecting some memories by looking at my Dad pictures. In the past few years, I always had a lot of differences with my mom. Also, I was never able to meet the right person in my life. I have learned a lot from my mom. I still keep fighting for many things which I differ from her opinion. Sometimes I feel those childhood days are better and blissful.

I am happy for these days at home. I am able to look at life differently outside work. I have to be more kind and planned for life. Many lessons, Many memories, One Life, Make it more meaningful. Keep Going!!!

Thank you, my mom, for tolerating me all these years, You have been the only one for me to look up to for all my bad and good days.

Driving from Distractions to Focus

Life is just a collection of moments. To maintain consistency and discipline we need to change our distractions into focus.

• Doing what the present needs - Education / Working
• Working on your mistakes / Areas of Improvements - Growth Oriented mindset
• Taking care of emotional health - Do not let things occupy more space than what they deserve
• Maintaining the Rhythm of Discipline - Timebox activities for Work - Cooking - Cleaning - Walking - Learning - Maintain Relationships
• Becoming the best in your field of Choice - Working on 1% better for every day

Measure yourself against every day and find the change / constant factor and slowly push those that are not required. Embrace change, Optimism, and Kindness.

"Sometimes you have
to #experience what you don't want in #life to come to a full understanding of
what you do want."#wednesdaythoughts #mindfullness pic.twitter.com/VxP8dtPO35

— salaam mediaa (@media786786) March 20, 2019

Life will shine every passing day!!!

Existence Vs Living

Mere Existence does not quantify living. Living means it's bound for a purpose and it serves for a better humanity. Follow the crowd or find yourself are two types of journey. As long as you follow the crowd you will never find yourself. To find yourself, you need to be lost. The true measure of pain, passion, success, failure comes from multiple iterations of failure, repetition, and learning. 

Stay Alive, Awake and Present!!!

Meeting the Right People

2012,2017,2018 had been my personal toughest years of Life. I keep learning as I keep failing in meeting the right people in life. A balance of views, education, the mindset is the key. However, when you like someone it is a lot more than just the person. Maturity comes with time and efforts. Nothing comes easy in life. Keep working to meet the right people. Bless the ones who parted ways. Keep working to become the best version of self.

Apart from it, the learning for Masters, Learning at work, Travel and seeing my Neice grow up has been a beautiful part of Life.

Keep Going!!! Trust the Journey!!!

Newer version

Know yourself and your mistakes
Accept and let go hope 
Forgive bad memories but learn lessons 
Make yourself important 
Be selectively choosy
Have a high bar 
Go for character and loyalty
Improve yourself to match the newer thoughts
Keep traveling and find the little things of happiness
What you seek is seeking you 
Change yourself and find the one for yourself

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Melting moments

Some moments melt our heart
Some moments burn our desires
Some moments ignite our passion 
Some moments burn our emotions
Some moments kill our soul 
When there is so much kindness around why would I meet someone who killed my emotions 
Probably I have not met the right person
Every next move needs a different strategy, mindset, attitude
Learn to be better every moment and make moves to create, shape the next best version

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Why Facebook is not reality

We are never close to hundreds of people we are connected to. Often its a single digit of closely connected folks. Roughest and toughest relationship survive only when values and beliefs match. You can be a king, joker in life depending on your choices. Making you forcefully like, share content, feed your life with materialistic thoughts. For 100 acts of materialistic likes, there may be one or two for kindness. We have become social media kind post liking people than real kind people.

Keep a small circle of Good People!!!

Definitions of Love

True Love

• L loyalty 
• O One mind of wavelength 
• V Virtually think and care for each other thoughts 
• E Excellence and Empathy towards Life

One more Definition

• L Lust + Lies 
• O Keeping options to choose
• V Vengence and hate when it doesn't work
• E Empty your soul

Choose wisely!!!

Magical Power of thought

Creating new perspectives
Finding new ideas from Failures
Think slow on Failures, Operate fast on Execution
Balance of both thinking and agility of speed of execution
Staying focused on Purpose
Growth oriented mindset
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The world will be what we make it. Let’s build it together. #kindness pic.twitter.com/TXoB2y2AsU

— Michael Plotkin (@MrPlotkinPVC) March 17, 2019

Get Better, Be Better, Do Well

History is a distraction
Today is an Inspiration
Tomorrow is a motivation
Make the best of today

The death moment

At around 3am I felt a pain on my ribs. I couldn't move my arms. I was struck in the signal. Fortunately, I was able to stop the vehicle rest and do some basic exercises and then move on slowly. After a bit of rest, got two injections for the gastric issues. It was almost able to feel the ribs while coughing. Body posture is very important. Avoiding soda is very important. Else it will have disastrous effects.

No to Soda!
No to Soft Drinks!
Yes to Water!!!

Re-Invest yourself with the Right Perspective about Education

Some of the classic mistakes which I did I would not repeat if I have to relearn

#1. Remember Fundamentals of Maths, Physics, Chemistry for Life Long
#2. Ability to explain, experiment, communicate is the measure of knowledge
#3. Keep marks aside, Measure yourself on Theory vs Practice
#4.  Never be afraid of Sharing knowledge, Your don't lose anything by sharing knowledge
#5. Education is not limited to the classroom, It happens in continuity and keeps going
#6. Value your time with emotional and personal growth
#7. Knowledge will reward in the long term, Stay patient and Keep Learning
#8. Degree, a title does not mean expertise, Expertise comes from consistency in learning and experimentation
#9. Be humble, kind and remember education is for soul and mind not for money
#10. True education will keep you hungry for knowledge, kind and humble human

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The sleepless Ghost Rider

I ran when the world was running 
I kept running when the world was sleeping
I ran behind titles, money, and people to replicate their success
Until one day I figured out making a million attempts makes you a hero
Making epic failures, humble in Learning from it, makes you more human 
I don't run behind anything because I have found myself in my soul 
Everything for you is in you
You need to bleed to blossom
You need to fail to flourish 
You need to know the pain of failure, for you to earn the success
Keep running, the world will notice the silent hero's one day!!

Michael Pollan: "How to Change Your Mind" | Talks at Google

Key Lessons

• Change your attitude and Die with Peace not Fear
• Drug experimentation over several sessions
• Surrender to Experience
• Relax mind and floar balanced stream
• Good Trip and Bad Trip (Ego)
• You can't control things than happen but you can control fear
• Psychedellic experience, noetic sense allows people to change
• Drug is mental amplifier, Expectation and Intention is important
• Drug binds to Serotonim
•  Experienced Meditators experience similar things, suppression of default mode network, Selflessness
• Transcending the ego by sensory deprivation, prayers, music, breathing exercise
• Microdosing, LSD Drugs (Lysergic acid diethylamide)

Derrick Carpenter: "Overcome Negative Thoughts and Build Optimism" | Talks at Google

Happy Learning!!!

This moment, Life is now!

You cannot rewrite yesterday 
You cannot predict tomorrow 
You can be productive and proactive today
This moment and this hour matters!!!

People in Our Life

People come in our lives for their own reasons and seasons
It's like a train journey, we don't know who will onboard and who will get down in next station 
The journey of meeting people never ends until the end of our journey
Leave a little kindness and little smile in every meet
Let them remember you as a positive spark and a happy memory

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Where I am at this point

If I had married

• Playing with my kid 
• Cooking
• Helping home chores 

Reality

• Coding
• Reading 
• Ubereats for survival 

Life gave me a broader perspective on many things. Failures, growth mindset, beliefs, experimenting. Everyone has their own time for marriage, career and newer experiences. Keep going, trust the journey!!!

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Character

Character is a combination of belief, courage, and kindness 
Be someone who never gives up on values, principles, and beliefs 
Someone who can stand for principle is more important than flexible to needs and deeds
Be a rational, kind and never give up person
Don't get carried away with the principles of shortcuts of success 
Meaningful life matters not a colorful one!!!

Education

Education is a combination of learning, experimentation, think differently and apply new ideas, curiosity and embrace failures. Keep learning. Getting a degree is easier than graduating a subject. Aim for mastery not for medals.

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Selective Amnesia

Forgive everything that you can 
Forget everything that you can't forgive
Be present to live in the present
Butterflies have to go beyond borders 
Let the butterfly transform into Phoenix 
Go for someone who never gives up on you
Don't pick someone who just sees the good in you
Keep flying, keep going!!!

Breakup and Butterfly

You live like a cocoon focused on living for one Person
For the one person, you adjust yourself to make the person smile always
One fine day the person leaves you and disappears from your world
Struck in the cocoon you have no clue of the outside world
You struggle to come out of the cocoon
In the process of transition, you become the creepiest Caterpillar
The Caterpillar crawls slowly learning the world of kindness
Slowly it learns the process of becoming the best version of itself
One fine day with all the transition it develops the wings to Conquer the world
Every Failure opens a million opportunities for better achievements in Life
Go on Keep Fighting and Keep Going!!!

Find your Pace

Competing a Degree doesn't Graduate you, Mastering a Subject Does Graduate You
Marrying at your own time is more important than following the society timelines
Grow in your career by technical debts not by eliminating your competition
Success open only one door of next level opportunity
Failure opens a million doors of next level opportunity by trying things differently
Be prepared to be rejected by the world, 
Being an Outlier is harder but be yourself forever!!!!

Quiet Life

Greatness, Kindness comes with a lot of Quiet, Calm, Serene Environment, clear thinking. Good people will never be noticed in the chaotic world of materialistic needs and deeds. Inner peace is a myth. We never live the best of life with the present moment, Rather Everything is a copy of every other person we want to be, We never realize the true self. It kind of echoes the Fightclub. Jobs you don't like, things you don't need and people who don't understand you. 

Hoping to do something big in education, Finding better ways of teaching/learning. Inculcating an experimental, failure based growth, value-based mindset, growth-oriented, value-driven, experimental and mature thinking matters for a successful Life else you will remain a copy cat of someone whom we don't like.

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Breaking my past

I broke my phone out of my anger. You cannot express anger but you can at least vent out emotions. It removed all my contacts. In a way it's good. I no longer need to keep going back or look at my past. It broke all memories as the data also cannot be retrieved. Some data relevant data is there from mail sync. But overall it cleaned up the waste lying in my backyard for a long time. 

Keep going. Keep learning

Eternal Beauty

Beautiful faces don't carry beautiful hearts
A beautiful heart does not speak sweet words
The kind heart does not carry beautiful face
Beauty is deceptive 
All that glitters is never gold. We never stop staring at things that glitter 
Be kind, be yourself
Live to make yourself proud, Embrace the journey with values and kindness

Be someone Good in Deeds than Looks

Be someone who talks less and delivers more
Be someone who looks more than just looks
Wait to see people actions Don't decide by promises
Be someone who is known for kindness
Be someone who is known for commitment and perseverance
Be someone who is known for vision, knowledge

The road to becoming a good human is always in progress. You become best by doing the best, by thinking the best.

Recent Days

• Learning
• Coding
• Teaching

Life is super busy. Teaching makes me more satisfied with Life. Outside this as usual personal issues keep taking time. Hoping to sort out things soon.

Be where your feet are.' Wherever you are in body, be there in mind. Be present. If you are gonna be with your kids, BE WITH YOUR KIDS.#MotivationalSpeaker #PeakPerformance #KeynoteSpeaker #Communication #BusinessGrowth #CorporateTraining #Accountability #Collaboration #Coach pic.twitter.com/2iyORnwcCS

— Alan Stein, Jr. (@AlanSteinJr) February 28, 2019

If you’ve ever bought a book, attended a seminar or paid a life coach to teach u “how to manifest abundance…”
Well, I’m sorry to tell u,

But you’ve been cheated out of your money…
And your dreams.

>> Here’s the reality about manifestation: https://t.co/SE3Q1KlM7I pic.twitter.com/fq0wcsVsUL

— Law of Attraction (@loafocus) February 28, 2019

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