- Well accomplished career
- Less regretful life
- A small happy and contended family
- Be kind and help people you meet in this journey
- Live up to your values
- Self-achievement
- Relationship
- Family
- Environment
- New people and places
- Living your values and be an inspiration for people to get inspired
- Be consistent with words, deeds
- Being the best version, tuning yourself to be the best from your learning
Reality - The real phase of life is
- Love for self (60%)
- Love for parents (30%)
- Love for relationships (10%)
As an individual, you need to focus on
- Learning (20%)
- Career (30%)
- Self-goals (30%)
- Relationships (20%)
You need to be happy with yourself and your family. Happiness begins with self. It does not come only from relationships. A relationship can be a passing cloud, rainbow or a long lasting one. Only time can answer the loyalty, trust, and truth in a relationship. When things are not allocated in right proportions for what they deserve you will not get expected results. A relationship grows as the family, kids come into the picture. The real sense of commitment will show up in years of being together and still remain as good friends.
Looking at how I wanted my life to be looked up for accomplishment in different perspectives, Be someone whom the world can look up to values, efforts, deeds, and actions. Everything exists but not everyone lives.
- Live a less regretful life
- Live a life that inspires your surroundings
- Don't look for example strive to be an example
- Don't look at the present situation, focus on the larger purpose and goals
- Give hope, Stay alive, Live this moment
- Keep your soul happy, Don't be an eye candy be a soul food
Professional Debts - Yes it took time to understand your skills, expertise, I do not believe Education ends in college. I did masters after 30. I still continue to spend hours every day on this I like to learn / work. I would says being single is a biggest major contributor for better knowledge / learning acumen. Reading technical papers / blogs / upskilling was possible because of lesser dependencies
Financial Debts - Very much it takes time to settle down financially. I have better planned disciplined lifestyle, planning. Having a planned way to track down and close on debts
Relationship Debts - Because of focus on Above two this was not focussed or less successful. I happy for that. Even if I had a good relationship and failed in above two I guess I would not be happy either. Not everything happens at the time we want. We just need to continue the journey and move towards next milestone.
Follow things in order of priority Learning, Self-Goals, Career, Environment and Friends, Meaningful relationships.
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