Life in Data Science Perspective

I believe decisions need to be data-based, logical and not just based on emotions. In the same context prioritizing life objectives. Looking back at 60 I wish to have

• Well accomplished career
• Less regretful life
• A small happy and contended family
• Be kind and help people you meet in this journey
• Live up to your values

Taking it further, We need to allocate time for all the different goals in life

•  Self-achievement
•  Relationship
•  Family
•  Environment
•  New people and places
•  Living your values and be an inspiration for people to get inspired
•  Be consistent with words, deeds
•  Being the best version, tuning yourself to be the best from your learning

The total happiness lies in small acts of kindness, being open to people, trust people no matter what, work hard, go the extra mile, stay focused and consistent in life goals.

Reality - The real phase of life is

• Love for self (60%)
• Love for parents (30%)
• Love for relationships (10%)

As an individual, you need to focus on

• Learning (20%)
• Career (30%)
• Self-goals (30%)
• Relationships (20%)

You need to be happy with yourself and your family. Happiness begins with self. It does not come only from relationships. A relationship can be a passing cloud, rainbow or a long lasting one. Only time can answer the loyalty, trust, and truth in a relationship. When things are not allocated in right proportions for what they deserve you will not get expected results. A relationship grows as the family, kids come into the picture. The real sense of commitment will show up in years of being together and still remain as good friends.

Looking at how I wanted my life to be looked up for accomplishment in different perspectives, Be someone whom the world can look up to values, efforts, deeds, and actions. Everything exists but not everyone lives.

• Live a less regretful life
• Live a life that inspires your surroundings
• Don't look for example strive to be an example
• Don't look at the present situation, focus on the larger purpose and goals
• Give hope, Stay alive, Live this moment
• Keep your soul happy, Don't be an eye candy be a soul food

Professional Debts - Yes it took time to understand your skills, expertise, I do not believe Education ends in college. I did masters after 30. I still continue to spend hours every day on this I like to learn / work. I would says being single is a biggest major contributor for better knowledge / learning acumen. Reading technical papers / blogs / upskilling was possible because of lesser dependencies

Financial Debts - Very much it takes time to settle down financially. I have better planned disciplined lifestyle, planning. Having a planned way to track down and close on debts

Relationship Debts - Because of focus on Above two this was not focussed or less successful. I happy for that. Even if I had a good relationship and failed in above two I guess I would not be happy either. Not everything happens at the time we want. We just need to continue the journey and move towards next milestone.

Follow things in order of priority Learning, Self-Goals, Career, Environment and Friends, Meaningful relationships. 

Happy Living with Values!!!

What are the top ten things I should experience in life?

What are the top ten things I should experience in life?

From the question, Whatever I had already covered and what I need to do more

Completed Ones

• Feel the rainfall - Enjoyed rain couple of times without any means of cover
• Continuously read great books and learn their lessons - Still learning from Quora, Kindle, Books
• Be a scribe - Yes did this once writing exam for a blind girl
• Spend a day without electricity - 10 days in a row during Chennai Floods
• Feel Poverty - Yes when searching for a job
• Go on stage and be applauded - Yes I believe during my school days
• Take an adventure/Go to the wilderness - Yes going it still needs to do more

Pending
Dance like nobody's watching
Learning different language

Pending my wishlist

• Target PhD
• Work in new places/locations
• Meet new people, Gather new experiences
• File patents
• Learn more, develop new innovative things out of work
• Do a startup
• Help more people
• Be a good listener
• Give it an attempt at a meaningful relationship

Happy Living!!!

Let go now

I started reading my old book "Let go now" by Karen Casey. This is an interesting book that talks about managing human relationships. Some key things it conveys while dealing with difference of opinions, relationships, breakups offer good insights. Some key notes are

"Cultivate the willingness to let go things that you can't control"
 
"By trying to focus on old things we miss our opportunities to explore new directions"
 
"Follow healthy detached behavior"
 
"Watch the events unfold, get involved only when you feel you are part of the journey"
 
"We are in charge of ourselves, no one else is. The freedom that accompanies this realization will life out spirits"

"Keep a mental note, I will step away from an experience that isn't mine to control will fill me with a sense of empowerment. What a great opportunity this will be today"

"Be peaceful rather than being right,  But with practice it will become preferred choice"

"Hostage will always try to escape, Detachment means taking no hostages"

Make the best out of today, Learn something new, Talk and meet new people, new experiences in life. Today make someone else happy with your words, deeds and actions.
Be nice to yourself and others.

Keep going!!!

Way to effectively use time

• Learn a concept/topic deep dive on the subject of interest
• Connect with like-minded people on LinkedIn 
• Discuss a long-term technical goal/pet project and spend time on it
• Ted Talks
• Quora (Minimal limited to tech topics)
• Eliminate Muda waste (Gossip, Past problems)
• Go for a Long walk
• Learn to organize things in your workspace for the right Environment
• Focus and measure your progress against time

Happy Learning!!!

Life without Regrets

At any stage create a life with No Regrets

"Take the lessons and correct yourself going forward"

"An attempt ended in failure is better than not attempting at all"

"Do have short lived regret for dumb things we do"

"Short term regret fades quickly"

"Regrets of things we didn't do last long"

"Make a change, Recognize the difference, do not limit ourself with fear"

"Regret - blame ourselves for things we did"

"Early regret opportunity for re-focus"

"Re-focus to be in best conditions"

"Regret is imaginary - What could have been"

"Do live life like a Conveyer belt" - makes our natural progression

"Write it down and look future to empower the past"

"Get the insights and transform yourself"

"Mental Health, positivity, Optimism"

"Don't carry burden of regret in your Life"

"Not about what other people think"

"Will i regret not doing it ?"

"We regret more for things what we didn't do"

Live well, Learn from Mistakes, Be less Regretful!

Good One - Purpose of Life

Very Good Lecture. Very good points. Seeing life in different perspective.

• Hear your own inner voice much more than the noise
• Don't be tracked by what others think
• Having money, fame just doesn't seem to add up
• Plant trees under whose shade you will not sit
• Give it for Service of others
• Be an observer, Find your path
• Open yourself to new experience and new role models
• Don't fit yourself in buckets of people you see
• "I am what I think, you think I am"
• Redefine your Identity, redefine eco chamber
• Self Excavation, Actualization
• Expose to new networks and role models
• Train the mind and energy to focus on where you wanted and when you wanted
• Know how to navigate every situation
• Detachment is not you are nothing, It is nothing owns you
• Be close to everything but do not let that consume you
• Overcome ego, envy, jealousy reach a positive competitive state
• Have enough clarity to purify yourself
• Isolation, Over-exposure leads to more pain
• Focus on self-purification
• Time, Reflection, process and environment
• Head - Clarity - What you want
• Heart - Understand Intuition, Able to find the path you Imagine, Adapt, ResileResilience and Compassion
• Hand - Service, Pass it on, Give it forward
• Habit and Continuous Practice
• Understand different voices in us
• There are more than one voice inside us
• Differentiate and make better decisions
• Noise in life (Expectations) are in the background, Don't let it drown your ability
• Insecure about own abilities
• Lack of self-awareness
• Know your passions, What am I good about
• The behavioral trait is insecurity
• Noise from outside makes us fit into the container
• Switching your association, Change your circle
• Hear different things

Happy Day!!!