Flaw of Match making portals

• 10% active users, 70% inactive users, 20% Fake users
• Fake profiles in Cambodia, and Thailand, are easy to spot
• Slow Search results
• Mostly Caste based on matching, Repetition of results
• No segments/groups based on mind beyond caste

Zero relevant use of NLP, Intent, Mindset, Cache of previous searches, Relevant / Similar profiles. 

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For my self some words to remember - Levels of Learning

 

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My ideas - Analysis

Whatever ideas I have worked on in recent few years have been evaluated in multiple lenses

Problem Insights

• Solution in search of a problem - No its a valid problem
• Madeup problem vs Real problem - Real problem
• Right team of Tech + Domain - Yes
• Do you have competition ? Is it good to have some competition and find new insights ? - Yes Focused Startups are there in this space
• What problems you have come across, What you observed from your work - This is based on observed needs / insights

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Thoughts - Minds - Lifestyle

Focus on efforts and Discipline

Everything is incremental effort. It takes time to find a lot of ideas and filter quality ideas.

Every learning effort is a combination of ideas and experiments

How New Ideas Arise

• Ideas arise from observations that are outside of their specific field.
• Ideas arise in the most disparate places - bicycle is the means of transport most suited to concentrating and having new ideas
• Ideas can arise at any moment - clear mind, waking up at sunrise
• Ideas arise from boredom 
• Ideas arise from oversights
• Ideas arise from habit
• Ideas arise from dreams

How to draw ideas

• Study: Fill your mind
• Explore: Let it happen
• Develop: See how it works
• Show: Share what matters

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GPT vs Healthcare

How Meningitis  occurs, How to prevent it ?  Does it occur through uncooked food or water, how to avoid it ?

• Meningitis is an inflammation of the membranes that cover the brain and spinal cord. It is usually caused by a bacterial or viral infection.
• To prevent meningitis, you should practice good hygiene, such as washing your hands often and avoiding contact with people who are sick. You should also get vaccinated against certain types of meningitis, such as meningococcal meningitis.
• Meningitis is not usually spread through uncooked food or water, but it can be spread through close contact with an infected person, such as kissing or sharing utensils. To avoid getting meningitis, you should avoid close contact with people who are sick and practice good hygiene.

How Encephalitis occurs, Does it occur through uncooked food or water, how to avoid it

• Encephalitis is an inflammation of the brain that can be caused by a virus, bacteria, or other microorganism. It can also be caused by a reaction to a vaccine, a drug, or a toxin.
• Encephalitis is not usually spread through food or water. It is usually spread through contact with an infected person or animal, or through a mosquito bite.
• To avoid encephalitis, it is important to practice good hygiene, such as washing your hands often and avoiding contact with people who are sick. It is also important to protect yourself from mosquito bites by using insect repellent, wearing long sleeves and pants, and avoiding areas with standing water. Additionally, you should make sure to get all recommended vaccinations, including those for measles, mumps, rubella, and varicella.

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Perceptions vs Opinions vs Reality

• Is he a Robber?
• Is he troubling someone?
• Is he saving Someone?

Bias Exists everywhere, Spot it and Get the true perspective. That is truth!!!

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Choose your options

• Instead of saying “I couldn’t do X”, try saying “I haven’t prioritized X”. 
• Less reactive and more intentional 
• Spend more time on the things that matter most.

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Good Read - Character and Life

• Look at who they marry - choice tells you about their own innermost longings, expectations, and needs
• How they treat service workers - reliable indicators of trustworthiness that you will find. 
• Experiences formed their character in early life - who people really are and how they might act in difficult situations.
• Invest their two most valuable resources - time and money are far more precious than words.
• Identify what irritates people the most - Cheaters always gripe that others are dishonest
• Can they listen? - Great listeners possess extraordinary skills of awareness and comprehension.
• If they cheat at small things, they will cheat at big things. - Watch out for the small things, and the big things will take care of themselves.
• Watch how they handle unexpected problems - situations are precisely when their character and core values come to the forefront.

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My Views

• Data driven opinion
• Accept faults, don't pretend perfect
• Learning is skill, saving is skill, investing is skill
• Accept what is lost, tradeoff is life
• What is negotiable, What is non-negotiable red flags
• How do you handle betrayal 
• Health matters for good skills
• Habits matter for outcomes
• Maturity is knowing you will not do even if the situation tempts you to do as you know the consequences of it

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Ideas

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Strategic Thinking

 

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GPT to probe on Relationship Compatability

Top 20 Questions to probe your marriage partner about his values

• What are your core values?
• How do you define success?
• What do you believe is the most important thing in life?
• What do you believe is the purpose of life?
• What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship?
• How do you handle conflict?
• How do you handle stress?
• What do you think is the best way to show love and appreciation?
• What do you think is the most important thing to teach our children?
• What do you think is the best way to resolve disagreements?
• What do you think is the best way to handle money?
• What do you think is the most important thing to remember in a marriage?
• What do you think is the most important thing to prioritize in life?
• What do you think is the most important thing to remember when making decisions?
• How do you think we should handle our differences?
• How do you think we should handle our finances?
• What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in disagreement?
• What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in conflict?
• What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in a difficult situation?
• What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in a difficult conversation?

Top 10 questions to spot difference between views and reality in potential marriage discussion

•  How do you envision your future together?
• What are your expectations of marriage?
• How do you plan to handle disagreements?
• What compromises are you willing to make?
• What is your understanding of the roles and responsibilities of each partner?
• How do you plan to manage finances?
• What is your opinion on parenting and raising children?
• What is your opinion on religious beliefs and practices?
• How do you plan to handle extended family relationships?
• How do you plan to handle household chores?

Top 10 questions to probe red flags in marriage partner

• What are your expectations for a successful marriage?
• How do you handle disagreements or conflicts?
• How do you handle money and finances?
• How do you handle stress and difficult times?
• How do you handle family and friends?
• How do you handle differences in opinion?
• How do you handle criticism and feedback?
• How do you handle change and new situations?
• How do you handle anger and frustration?
• How do you handle intimacy and physical affection?

Top 10 questions to spot a cheating marriage partner discussion

• Have you been spending more time away from home than usual?
• Are you being secretive about your phone or computer activities?
• Have you been talking to someone else more than usual?
• Are you dressing differently than usual?
• Are you suddenly more interested in your appearance?
• Have you been spending more money than usual?
• Are you avoiding physical contact with me?
• Are you suddenly more critical of me?
• Have you been lying to me about where you’ve been?
• Are you suddenly more defensive when I ask questions?

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GPT as Doctor

GPT as Doctor 

Question #1 - prescribe me a tablet for fever in 20 words 

Ibuprofen, Acetaminophen, or Aspirin are all good choices for treating fever.

Question #2 - prescribe me a tablet for gastric issue in 20 words 

Omeprazole 20mg tablet once daily before meals.

Question #3 - prescribe me a tablet for cholestrol in 20 words 

Atorvastatin, a cholesterol-lowering medication, is recommended.

Question #4 - prescribe me a tablet for chest burn in 20 words 

Omeprazole 20mg tablet twice daily for relief of chest burn.

Question #5 - prescribe me a tablet for stomach worm in 20 words 

Albendazole 400mg tablet, taken twice daily for three days.

Question #6 - prescribe me a tablet for headache in 20 words 

Ibuprofen 200mg tablet is recommended for headache relief.

Question #7 - prescribe me a tablet for giddiness in 20 words 

The tablet prescribed is meclizine. It helps reduce giddiness and motion sickness.

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GPT Answers

What is dopamine in 20 words

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter in the brain that plays a role in reward, motivation, and pleasure. It is also involved in movement, cognition, and mood regulation.

What is depression in 20 words

Depression is a mental health disorder characterized by persistent sadness, loss of interest, and difficulty in daily activities.

How to handle blackmail in 50 words

Remain calm and do not give in to the blackmailer's demands. Contact the police and report the blackmail. Seek legal advice and support from family and friends.

How to heal traumatic past in 50 words

1. Seek professional help. 

2. Talk to a trusted friend or family member. 

3. Practice mindfulness and relaxation techniques. 

4. Exercise regularly. 

5. Challenge negative thoughts. 

6. Acknowledge and accept your feelings. 

7. Write about your experiences. 

8. Develop healthy coping skills. 

9. Create a positive environment. 

10. Focus on the present.

How to cure loneliness in 20 words

1. Reach out to friends and family. 

2. Join a club or group. 

3. Exercise and stay active. 

4. Spend time in nature. 

5. Volunteer in your community. 

6. Take up a hobby. 

7. Get a pet. 

8. Connect with others online. 

9. Practice self-care. 

10. Pursue meaningful goals. 

11. Talk to a therapist. 

12. Practice mindfulness. 

13. Find a support system. 

14. Spend time with positive people. 

15. Make time for yourself. 

16. Get out of your comfort zone. 

How to reclaim yourself 20 words

1. Identify your values

2. Set boundaries

3. Prioritize self-care

4. Practice mindfulness

5. Take time for yourself

6. Speak up for yourself

7. Follow your intuition

8. Let go of guilt

9. Express yourself honestly

10. Respect your needs

11. Find your voice

12. Practice self-compassion

13. Take responsibility

14. Make time for hobbies

15. Find your purpose

16. Connect with nature

17. Listen to your body

18. Celebrate your successes

19. Challenge negative thoughts

20. Forgive yourself

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Focus - Focus - Consistency

 

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Self Assessment

Your results suggest that one of your highest strengths is Transparency.
Your results suggest that one of your highest strengths is Teamwork.
Your results suggest that one of your highest strengths is Accountability.
Your results suggest that one of your lower strengths is Patient Focus.

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2022 - 2023

2022 

• Thanks for all the support
• Thank you Mom for tolerating my attitude
• Thank Me for all learning
• Thank my friends for the support. Some friends were with me in all my hard times. 
• Thanks, Satya for all your support
• Thanks, Jeeva for all the Walks

2023

• Hopeful, Optimistic, and Kind
• Hoping for it.

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Marriage

• Caste matters 
• Money matters
• Looks matter
• Profession matters

Reality

• Stereotyped matrimony
• Nonsense Astrology
• Crowd mentality

Sad Reality :)

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Foods vs Cholesterol

Improving HDL (Good Cholesterol)

• Eggs, Yogurt, Research has shown that eating 1–3 eggs per day is perfectly safe for healthy people
• Fermented dairy products like yogurt benefit intestinal health by supporting friendly gut bacteria 
• Eat more fruits and vegetables
• Nuts are high in polyunsaturated fatty acids, so almonds, walnuts, or pistachios can help reduce your LDL levels.

Food to avoid (Bad Cholesterol)

• Deep-fried meats and cheese sticks
• Chicken wings, mozzarella sticks, and onion rings are among the worst when it comes to cholesterol.
• Fast-food
• Cookies, cakes, ice cream, pastries
• Cookies, cakes and doughnuts usually contain butter or shortening, making them high in saturated fat and cholesterol.

Moderation is key, Eat less when you can't avoid

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Leadership does not come with titles / passing exams

Leadership comes from solving problems
Leadership comes from fieldwork
Leadership comes from influence without authority
Leadership comes with Empathy
Leadership is humbleness
Leadership is being there when you can opt to avoid the problem

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Chennai Bangalore - Monsoon Vibes

Today's ride had a mix of all seasons

Started on a sunny evening
Mild sunset and breezy weather
Lot of road work midway from Vellore
A lot of dust and dry weather
Finally a sense of monsoon nearing Chennai
Not much waterlogging, better Chennai
Roads and lots of construction 
Ride is leisure not pressure 

Life goes on!!!

A Long ride!!!

Time to Sleep!!!