- Instead of saying “I couldn’t do X”, try saying “I haven’t prioritized X”.
- Less reactive and more intentional
- Spend more time on the things that matter most.
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Good Read - Character and Life
- Look at who they marry - choice tells you about their own innermost longings, expectations, and needs
- How they treat service workers - reliable indicators of trustworthiness that you will find.
- Experiences formed their character in early life - who people really are and how they might act in difficult situations.
- Invest their two most valuable resources - time and money are far more precious than words.
- Identify what irritates people the most - Cheaters always gripe that others are dishonest
- Can they listen? - Great listeners possess extraordinary skills of awareness and comprehension.
- If they cheat at small things, they will cheat at big things. - Watch out for the small things, and the big things will take care of themselves.
- Watch how they handle unexpected problems - situations are precisely when their character and core values come to the forefront.
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My Views
- Data driven opinion
- Accept faults, don't pretend perfect
- Learning is skill, saving is skill, investing is skill
- Accept what is lost, tradeoff is life
- What is negotiable, What is non-negotiable red flags
- How do you handle betrayal
- Health matters for good skills
- Habits matter for outcomes
- Maturity is knowing you will not do even if the situation tempts you to do as you know the consequences of it
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GPT to probe on Relationship Compatability
Top 20 Questions to probe your marriage partner about his values
- What are your core values?
- How do you define success?
- What do you believe is the most important thing in life?
- What do you believe is the purpose of life?
- What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship?
- How do you handle conflict?
- How do you handle stress?
- What do you think is the best way to show love and appreciation?
- What do you think is the most important thing to teach our children?
- What do you think is the best way to resolve disagreements?
- What do you think is the best way to handle money?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember in a marriage?
- What do you think is the most important thing to prioritize in life?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember when making decisions?
- How do you think we should handle our differences?
- How do you think we should handle our finances?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in disagreement?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in conflict?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in a difficult situation?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in a difficult conversation?
Top 10 questions to spot difference between views and reality in potential marriage discussion
- How do you envision your future together?
- What are your expectations of marriage?
- How do you plan to handle disagreements?
- What compromises are you willing to make?
- What is your understanding of the roles and responsibilities of each partner?
- How do you plan to manage finances?
- What is your opinion on parenting and raising children?
- What is your opinion on religious beliefs and practices?
- How do you plan to handle extended family relationships?
- How do you plan to handle household chores?
Top 10 questions to probe red flags in marriage partner
- What are your expectations for a successful marriage?
- How do you handle disagreements or conflicts?
- How do you handle money and finances?
- How do you handle stress and difficult times?
- How do you handle family and friends?
- How do you handle differences in opinion?
- How do you handle criticism and feedback?
- How do you handle change and new situations?
- How do you handle anger and frustration?
- How do you handle intimacy and physical affection?
Top 10 questions to spot a cheating marriage partner discussion
- Have you been spending more time away from home than usual?
- Are you being secretive about your phone or computer activities?
- Have you been talking to someone else more than usual?
- Are you dressing differently than usual?
- Are you suddenly more interested in your appearance?
- Have you been spending more money than usual?
- Are you avoiding physical contact with me?
- Are you suddenly more critical of me?
- Have you been lying to me about where you’ve been?
- Are you suddenly more defensive when I ask questions?
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GPT as Doctor
GPT as Doctor
Question #1 - prescribe me a tablet for fever in 20 words
Ibuprofen, Acetaminophen, or Aspirin are all good choices for treating fever.
Question #2 - prescribe me a tablet for gastric issue in 20 words
Omeprazole 20mg tablet once daily before meals.
Question #3 - prescribe me a tablet for cholestrol in 20 words
Atorvastatin, a cholesterol-lowering medication, is recommended.
Question #4 - prescribe me a tablet for chest burn in 20 words
Omeprazole 20mg tablet twice daily for relief of chest burn.
Question #5 - prescribe me a tablet for stomach worm in 20 words
Albendazole 400mg tablet, taken twice daily for three days.
Question #6 - prescribe me a tablet for headache in 20 words
Ibuprofen 200mg tablet is recommended for headache relief.
Question #7 - prescribe me a tablet for giddiness in 20 words
The tablet prescribed is meclizine. It helps reduce giddiness and motion sickness.
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GPT Answers
What is dopamine in 20 words
Dopamine is a neurotransmitter in the brain that plays a role in reward, motivation, and pleasure. It is also involved in movement, cognition, and mood regulation.
What is depression in 20 words
Depression is a mental health disorder characterized by persistent sadness, loss of interest, and difficulty in daily activities.
How to handle blackmail in 50 words
Remain calm and do not give in to the blackmailer's demands. Contact the police and report the blackmail. Seek legal advice and support from family and friends.
How to heal traumatic past in 50 words
1. Seek professional help.
2. Talk to a trusted friend or family member.
3. Practice mindfulness and relaxation techniques.
4. Exercise regularly.
5. Challenge negative thoughts.
6. Acknowledge and accept your feelings.
7. Write about your experiences.
8. Develop healthy coping skills.
9. Create a positive environment.
10. Focus on the present.
How to cure loneliness in 20 words
1. Reach out to friends and family.
2. Join a club or group.
3. Exercise and stay active.
4. Spend time in nature.
5. Volunteer in your community.
6. Take up a hobby.
7. Get a pet.
8. Connect with others online.
9. Practice self-care.
10. Pursue meaningful goals.
11. Talk to a therapist.
12. Practice mindfulness.
13. Find a support system.
14. Spend time with positive people.
15. Make time for yourself.
16. Get out of your comfort zone.
How to reclaim yourself 20 words
1. Identify your values
2. Set boundaries
3. Prioritize self-care
4. Practice mindfulness
5. Take time for yourself
6. Speak up for yourself
7. Follow your intuition
8. Let go of guilt
9. Express yourself honestly
10. Respect your needs
11. Find your voice
12. Practice self-compassion
13. Take responsibility
14. Make time for hobbies
15. Find your purpose
16. Connect with nature
17. Listen to your body
18. Celebrate your successes
19. Challenge negative thoughts
20. Forgive yourself
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Self Assessment
Your results suggest that one of your highest strengths is Transparency.
Your results suggest that one of your highest strengths is Teamwork.
Your results suggest that one of your highest strengths is Accountability.
Your results suggest that one of your lower strengths is Patient Focus.
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2022 - 2023
2022
- Thanks for all the support
- Thank you Mom for tolerating my attitude
- Thank Me for all learning
- Thank my friends for the support. Some friends were with me in all my hard times.
- Thanks, Satya for all your support
- Thanks, Jeeva for all the Walks
2023
- Hopeful, Optimistic, and Kind
- Hoping for it.
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