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— Siva (@sivaram2k10) May 4, 2023
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Parenting and Online Activity
Viduthalai
Every movie gives us some thoughts, memories, and questions.
Movie plot
- Development vs Resource Exploitation
- Capitalism vs Socialism
- Sustainable Development vs Exports and Industrialization
Suppression / Brutality
- How law deals with interrogation
- How law deals with poor, rich
- How many rules are followed in reality
- Media manipulation vs original news
Power of position
- Follow order
- Cannot question authority
- Remain silent to conscience
What is the gap
- Education to get the part of the power
- Intelligence / Awareness to ask for understanding of Law and Intentions
- Level playing field
- Awareness in execution
- Rational and Empathetic thinking
- Question real vs manipulated vs hidden agenda
Keep Thinking!!!
Be curious, Be fearless
You are not your marks
You are not your grades
You are not your titles
You are your opinions
You are your thinking
You are your ability to connect the dots
You are your kindness
You are your beliefs subtracted by guilt
Equate yourself against yourself for yourself to be a better self
Look for sunshine, Go where you grow, Grow where you go
Leave a smile wherever you go
Keep Going!!!
Life in 3 Videos
Tell the children about the hard work of the parents. pic.twitter.com/ZuPluOIJli
— Dr. R. Stalin IPS (@stalin_ips) April 21, 2023
Pro-programmed Life
- Have a Family - Don't question society
- Home - Own Home - TV - LED - Home theatre
- School - PVT school - IIT JEE
- Beach - Restaurant - Shopping - Movie
- Keep Shopping endlessly for dress - clothing
- Programmed to spend money
- Ads everywhere digital addictions - offers - promotions
- More money vs Means of earning vs Lavish Lifestyle
- Status based on money
Stay Kind!!!
Partner Test
How do I approach this? Discuss family perspectives/priorities, aspirations, non-negotiable aspects, and expectations, call out negatives as well, and discuss than confront, similar priorities/values, stress vs help.
Test - Link
Adults with a secure attachment style have likely been raised by parents who:
- Provide emotional support
- Foster a sense of independence and exploration of their emotions
- Are in tune with their own emotions
- Show patience, acceptance, and love
Keep Exploring!!!
Thoughts for Life
What happens after Death ? - Same thing that happened before our birth
What remains after our Death? - Memories and how people remember us, Our writings, our works, our opinions
What lives after our death? - Our lineage, kids, relatives, how your genes are living through your children and passed on to the next generation
What are you trying to say? - This random moment could be the moment where you can forget your worries, this could be the moment you take care of your loved ones. Today never returns. Live your best. It's okay to be simple, Be happy
3 Lessons Writing Taught Me About Life
The best advice I never got (for a technical career)
Keep Thinking!!!
Conflicts
- Credibility vs I am right. How should we argue?
- Identity - Core values, beliefs that feel threatened, Self on the line. Who you are and what you stand for
- Appreciation - Appreciate another side, First 10 mins listen to the value of perspective, logic, rational
- Affiliation
Keep Exploring!!!
One guru - One life - One Master
- To get good at something, you need a coach who puts your ego down.
- To get good at something, you need a coach who supports your decisions.
- To get good at something, you need a course correction
- To get good at something, you need good food
- To get good at something, you need a positive environment
I have to thank my MOM for every sacrifice for me to be what I am today. I may not be the best son but I hope will try to in the coming days.
Thank you, Mom.
Flaw of Match making portals
- 10% active users, 70% inactive users, 20% Fake users
- Fake profiles in Cambodia, and Thailand, are easy to spot
- Slow Search results
- Mostly Caste based on matching, Repetition of results
- No segments/groups based on mind beyond caste
Zero relevant use of NLP, Intent, Mindset, Cache of previous searches, Relevant / Similar profiles.
Keep Exploring!!!
My ideas - Analysis
Whatever ideas I have worked on in recent few years have been evaluated in multiple lenses
Problem Insights
- Solution in search of a problem - No its a valid problem
- Madeup problem vs Real problem - Real problem
- Right team of Tech + Domain - Yes
- Do you have competition ? Is it good to have some competition and find new insights ? - Yes Focused Startups are there in this space
- What problems you have come across, What you observed from your work - This is based on observed needs / insights
Keep Exploring!!!
Thoughts - Minds - Lifestyle
Focus on efforts and Discipline
Everything is incremental effort. It takes time to find a lot of ideas and filter quality ideas.
- Ideas arise from observations that are outside of their specific field.
- Ideas arise in the most disparate places - bicycle is the means of transport most suited to concentrating and having new ideas
- Ideas can arise at any moment - clear mind, waking up at sunrise
- Ideas arise from boredom
- Ideas arise from oversights
- Ideas arise from habit
- Ideas arise from dreams
- Study: Fill your mind
- Explore: Let it happen
- Develop: See how it works
- Show: Share what matters
Keep Exploring!!!
Keep Learning!!!
GPT vs Healthcare
How Meningitis occurs, How to prevent it ? Does it occur through uncooked food or water, how to avoid it ?
- Meningitis is an inflammation of the membranes that cover the brain and spinal cord. It is usually caused by a bacterial or viral infection.
- To prevent meningitis, you should practice good hygiene, such as washing your hands often and avoiding contact with people who are sick. You should also get vaccinated against certain types of meningitis, such as meningococcal meningitis.
- Meningitis is not usually spread through uncooked food or water, but it can be spread through close contact with an infected person, such as kissing or sharing utensils. To avoid getting meningitis, you should avoid close contact with people who are sick and practice good hygiene.
How Encephalitis occurs, Does it occur through uncooked food or water, how to avoid it
- Encephalitis is an inflammation of the brain that can be caused by a virus, bacteria, or other microorganism. It can also be caused by a reaction to a vaccine, a drug, or a toxin.
- Encephalitis is not usually spread through food or water. It is usually spread through contact with an infected person or animal, or through a mosquito bite.
- To avoid encephalitis, it is important to practice good hygiene, such as washing your hands often and avoiding contact with people who are sick. It is also important to protect yourself from mosquito bites by using insect repellent, wearing long sleeves and pants, and avoiding areas with standing water. Additionally, you should make sure to get all recommended vaccinations, including those for measles, mumps, rubella, and varicella.
Keep Exploring!!!
Perceptions vs Opinions vs Reality
- Is he a Robber?
- Is he troubling someone?
- Is he saving Someone?
Bias Exists everywhere, Spot it and Get the true perspective. That is truth!!!
Keep Thinking!!!
Choose your options
- Instead of saying “I couldn’t do X”, try saying “I haven’t prioritized X”.
- Less reactive and more intentional
- Spend more time on the things that matter most.
Ref - Link
Keep Exploring!!!
Good Read - Character and Life
- Look at who they marry - choice tells you about their own innermost longings, expectations, and needs
- How they treat service workers - reliable indicators of trustworthiness that you will find.
- Experiences formed their character in early life - who people really are and how they might act in difficult situations.
- Invest their two most valuable resources - time and money are far more precious than words.
- Identify what irritates people the most - Cheaters always gripe that others are dishonest
- Can they listen? - Great listeners possess extraordinary skills of awareness and comprehension.
- If they cheat at small things, they will cheat at big things. - Watch out for the small things, and the big things will take care of themselves.
- Watch how they handle unexpected problems - situations are precisely when their character and core values come to the forefront.
Ref - Link
My Views
- Data driven opinion
- Accept faults, don't pretend perfect
- Learning is skill, saving is skill, investing is skill
- Accept what is lost, tradeoff is life
- What is negotiable, What is non-negotiable red flags
- How do you handle betrayal
- Health matters for good skills
- Habits matter for outcomes
- Maturity is knowing you will not do even if the situation tempts you to do as you know the consequences of it
Keep thinking!!!!
GPT to probe on Relationship Compatability
Top 20 Questions to probe your marriage partner about his values
- What are your core values?
- How do you define success?
- What do you believe is the most important thing in life?
- What do you believe is the purpose of life?
- What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship?
- How do you handle conflict?
- How do you handle stress?
- What do you think is the best way to show love and appreciation?
- What do you think is the most important thing to teach our children?
- What do you think is the best way to resolve disagreements?
- What do you think is the best way to handle money?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember in a marriage?
- What do you think is the most important thing to prioritize in life?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember when making decisions?
- How do you think we should handle our differences?
- How do you think we should handle our finances?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in disagreement?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in conflict?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in a difficult situation?
- What do you think is the most important thing to remember when we are in a difficult conversation?
Top 10 questions to spot difference between views and reality in potential marriage discussion
- How do you envision your future together?
- What are your expectations of marriage?
- How do you plan to handle disagreements?
- What compromises are you willing to make?
- What is your understanding of the roles and responsibilities of each partner?
- How do you plan to manage finances?
- What is your opinion on parenting and raising children?
- What is your opinion on religious beliefs and practices?
- How do you plan to handle extended family relationships?
- How do you plan to handle household chores?
Top 10 questions to probe red flags in marriage partner
- What are your expectations for a successful marriage?
- How do you handle disagreements or conflicts?
- How do you handle money and finances?
- How do you handle stress and difficult times?
- How do you handle family and friends?
- How do you handle differences in opinion?
- How do you handle criticism and feedback?
- How do you handle change and new situations?
- How do you handle anger and frustration?
- How do you handle intimacy and physical affection?
Top 10 questions to spot a cheating marriage partner discussion
- Have you been spending more time away from home than usual?
- Are you being secretive about your phone or computer activities?
- Have you been talking to someone else more than usual?
- Are you dressing differently than usual?
- Are you suddenly more interested in your appearance?
- Have you been spending more money than usual?
- Are you avoiding physical contact with me?
- Are you suddenly more critical of me?
- Have you been lying to me about where you’ve been?
- Are you suddenly more defensive when I ask questions?
Keep Exploring!!!
GPT as Doctor
GPT as Doctor
Question #1 - prescribe me a tablet for fever in 20 words
Ibuprofen, Acetaminophen, or Aspirin are all good choices for treating fever.
Question #2 - prescribe me a tablet for gastric issue in 20 words
Omeprazole 20mg tablet once daily before meals.
Question #3 - prescribe me a tablet for cholestrol in 20 words
Atorvastatin, a cholesterol-lowering medication, is recommended.
Question #4 - prescribe me a tablet for chest burn in 20 words
Omeprazole 20mg tablet twice daily for relief of chest burn.
Question #5 - prescribe me a tablet for stomach worm in 20 words
Albendazole 400mg tablet, taken twice daily for three days.
Question #6 - prescribe me a tablet for headache in 20 words
Ibuprofen 200mg tablet is recommended for headache relief.
Question #7 - prescribe me a tablet for giddiness in 20 words
The tablet prescribed is meclizine. It helps reduce giddiness and motion sickness.
Keep Querying!!!
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