This career break vacation is an important moment. It gave me the environment to learn without deadlines. It helped me to forget some memories, focus on certain things, brush up on a few things, prioritize next moves. I had put my efforts to clear my technical debts, long pending break to rest/relax as I wish, staying away from calls/meetings. It helped me relax and get recharged.
At some point in time, emotions don't affect your decisions At some point in time, criticism doesn't affect your decisions At some point in time, you believe what others doubt At some point in time, you know where and what you are doing The whole Life is an experience, Success or Failure are both the same The perspectives, logical aspects, delivering your best to your satisfaction is more important Damages mean you can think better to hurt others less Damages mean you want to minimize damage going forward The more damaged our emotions are the kinder we become Every failure makes your humble Every success should make you kinder
Early Career - Go with the flow, Understand the domain, technology, execution, and delivery aspects Mid Career - Pick something you love and master it. Find a mentor / upskill yourself towards your passion After two Decades - Chose careers that build your passion, Find something where you can contribute significantly and also get yourself involved in bigger goals
You cannot have emotional substitutes for people whom you miss in your Life Sometimes we long for things we don't have, missing the value of things we have Sometimes we continue to suffer without clarity as the pain has a hidden pleasure An endless journey to recover / fall/recover makes you go in the same cycle of pain again When its times regret, forget and focus on the next things in Life Don't stay for people who don't wait for you Start your journey even it means you are a stranger again
The journey of long drive is satisfying than the destination Struggle to accomplish is the moment enjoyed than the pride of achievement Moments are expressing love are happier than happy/sad ending
Never go back to people who broke you Never give chance to rewind and repeat dark days Never forget the pain you went for no fault of yours Forgive people who deserve forgiveness Forget people who deserve to be forgotten Trust people who stand with you even if they hurt you Trust people who criticize you but support you It takes two sides to balance, support, forgive, care. Don't break yourself to lose yourself
The best answer for everything is silence The second-best answer for everything is smile We do not need to win any argument We do not need to disprove any opinions For the things I want to do, I would rather focus on it than thinking about perceptions
If you think your teacher is tough, wait until you get a boss Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on your own time Learn how to fail. What to do when they fail. How to know when failure is the universe calling for another approach and when it is evidence that you should try something else entirely You are very special to your parents. You are here on earth for a reason. We want to see you happy and become successful. Nothing is guaranteed. You must work hard in order to maintain your happiness and success
Good programmers should be measured by what they can learn, not what they already know
You have to start living reverse to accomplish what are things I can accomplish with the time I have. Many things we pass through may not come till the end but we need to pass through that to achieve our final destination. Know your destination and understand your priorities to handle your emotions. Don't lose sight of the destination with temporary obstacles. May 3rd / 2020
Clarity - When death is near the path is very clear. When the time remaining is less than time lived you actually know what are your priorities
I am not sure whether Leonardo Da Vinci will be able to paint Monalisa as a sprint deliverable. Learning without deadline frees your mind. Your mind should wander, wonder and learn. Learning is a creative process to experiment and experience. This break fuels me to propel to the farthest distance in my passion for another decade.
1. Distraction and addiction among Teens, Youth
2. No parental controls
3. Kids creativity is killed
4. Promote dance than thinking skills
5. The likes, comments are a trap that will eat all your time
6. May be linked to poor performance at work, school in long run
7. Failure to perform at work will in turn affect personal and professional life
8. Takes away family time
9. Takes away walking time, reading time
10. Makes everyone working in silo and live in a virtual world
We have all become type of social media addicted generation, This will further lead to poor performance in education, productivity as well as loss of innovation.
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Like a drunkard, this blog is my late-night diary and serves as my graveyard shift memories. When I am not there in this world you will know what was running in my mind. Win or Lose keep the journey interesting!!!
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"Yet, Taught by time, my heart has learned to glow for other's good, and melt at other's woe" - Homer
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