I started reading my old book "Let go now" by Karen Casey. This is an interesting book that talks about managing human relationships. Some key things it conveys while dealing with difference of opinions, relationships, breakups offer good insights. Some key notes are
"Cultivate the willingness to let go things that you can't control"
"By trying to focus on old things we miss our opportunities to explore new directions"
"Follow healthy detached behavior"
"Watch the events unfold, get involved only when you feel you are part of the journey"
"We are in charge of ourselves, no one else is. The freedom that accompanies this realization will life out spirits"
"Keep a mental note, I will step away from an experience that isn't mine to control will fill me with a sense of empowerment. What a great opportunity this will be today"
"Be peaceful rather than being right, But with practice it will become preferred choice"
"Hostage will always try to escape, Detachment means taking no hostages"
Make the best out of today, Learn something new, Talk and meet new people, new experiences in life. Today make someone else happy with your words, deeds and actions.
Be nice to yourself and others.
Keep going!!!
Way to effectively use time
- Learn a concept/topic deep dive on the subject of interest
- Connect with like-minded people on LinkedIn
- Discuss a long-term technical goal/pet project and spend time on it
- Ted Talks
- Quora (Minimal limited to tech topics)
- Eliminate Muda waste (Gossip, Past problems)
- Go for a Long walk
- Learn to organize things in your workspace for the right Environment
- Focus and measure your progress against time
Happy Learning!!!
Life without Regrets
At any stage create a life with No Regrets
"Take the lessons and correct yourself going forward"
"An attempt ended in failure is better than not attempting at all"
"Do have short lived regret for dumb things we do"
"Short term regret fades quickly"
"Regrets of things we didn't do last long"
"Make a change, Recognize the difference, do not limit ourself with fear"
"Regret - blame ourselves for things we did"
"Early regret opportunity for re-focus"
"Re-focus to be in best conditions"
"Regret is imaginary - What could have been"
"Do live life like a Conveyer belt" - makes our natural progression
"Write it down and look future to empower the past"
"Get the insights and transform yourself"
"Mental Health, positivity, Optimism"
"Don't carry burden of regret in your Life"
"Not about what other people think"
"Will i regret not doing it ?"
"We regret more for things what we didn't do"
Live well, Learn from Mistakes, Be less Regretful!
Good One - Purpose of Life
Very Good Lecture. Very good points. Seeing life in different perspective.
Happy Day!!!
- Hear your own inner voice much more than the noise
- Don't be tracked by what others think
- Having money, fame just doesn't seem to add up
- Plant trees under whose shade you will not sit
- Give it for Service of others
- Be an observer, Find your path
- Open yourself to new experience and new role models
- Don't fit yourself in buckets of people you see
- "I am what I think, you think I am"
- Redefine your Identity, redefine eco chamber
- Self Excavation, Actualization
- Expose to new networks and role models
- Train the mind and energy to focus on where you wanted and when you wanted
- Know how to navigate every situation
- Detachment is not you are nothing, It is nothing owns you
- Be close to everything but do not let that consume you
- Overcome ego, envy, jealousy reach a positive competitive state
- Have enough clarity to purify yourself
- Isolation, Over-exposure leads to more pain
- Focus on self-purification
- Time, Reflection, process and environment
- Head - Clarity - What you want
- Heart - Understand Intuition, Able to find the path you Imagine, Adapt, ResileResilience and Compassion
- Hand - Service, Pass it on, Give it forward
- Habit and Continuous Practice
- Understand different voices in us
- There are more than one voice inside us
- Differentiate and make better decisions
- Noise in life (Expectations) are in the background, Don't let it drown your ability
- Insecure about own abilities
- Lack of self-awareness
- Know your passions, What am I good about
- The behavioral trait is insecurity
- Noise from outside makes us fit into the container
- Switching your association, Change your circle
- Hear different things
Happy Day!!!
Exploring North Karnataka
Coorg - Madikeri - Talacauvery
Good Weekend drive provide a different re-look of nature and new perspectives in life. Sharing some of the pics during the Journey. Nature at its best
Happy Traveling!!!
Good Weekend drive provide a different re-look of nature and new perspectives in life. Sharing some of the pics during the Journey. Nature at its best
Happy Traveling!!!
Rules for Happiness
Good Notes
Be Happy!!
- Train your mind in a particular way with an improved feeling of overall well being
- Happiness has nothing to do with job, color, weight, location
- Meaningful friendship makes a lot of difference
- Conscious vs Unconscious mind
- Think about ideas and content freely - with the deadline far away (No pressure on deadline, free minded thinking)
- Traveling to new places
- Using a wide variety of tools and techniques (Don't be struck in front of your computer)
- Working on projects that matter to me (Content close to heart)
- Getting feedback from people who see our work (Visible impact)
- Having things come back from the printer done well(Having end results)
- Designing a project that feels partly brand new and partly similar
Be Happy!!
People and Values
Some educated people are morally corrupt. Some people fool others with relative perspective, Everything is relative. Morality has nothing to do with relative perspective. Anything that we don't want us to face we should not do the same for others. Educated people I have observed lacking values, ethics, morality. This again proves education has nothing to do with morality or conscience. Trust people by their character not by words, not by education, not by profession.
Keep moving forward no matter what pulls you down.
Keep going. Keep Rocking!!
Keep moving forward no matter what pulls you down.
Now @ 7AM
"A beautiful sunrise which erased the darkness of last night...
A beautiful sunrise with the yellow rays of hope...
Every sunrise affirms there is a bright chapter after a dark one..."
Why do most poor people remain poor?
Suppress people long enough and they will be trapped in that suppression. They will have no chance or choice.
Think About it!!!
Think About it!!!
Good Read - Stay Focused on Goals
The key things - " you can choose not to chase trivial things keeping the bigger opportunity in mind"
Quotes for Life
"Don’t give up and don’t look back. Who you were, doesn’t matter. What you did matters even less. All that counts is who you are, what you’re doing, where you’re going, and who you’ll be".
"Finally, take responsibility for your own life. Nobody else can do that for you."
"Finally, take responsibility for your own life. Nobody else can do that for you."
Good Quote
"What if the cure for cancer is trapped inside of the mind of someone who can't afford an education?" pic.twitter.com/EYCcNe2nxm— Vala Afshar (@ValaAfshar) November 3, 2016
Good One - True Love
One of the last quotes is really awesome "Mixture of Friendship + Appreciation + Happiness "
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